Ngeveki kusasa, uvula iTV (okanye i-radiyo) ngethemba lokuphazamiseka kwimicimbi ebalulekileyo, kwaye ke umlambo ongathandekiyo, kunye nolwazi oluninzi oluxinzelelekileyo luya kuwe. Ukwenza ikhofi uze ubize intombi yakho ukuba uxoxe kwaye uphumule, kwaye ekuphenduleni uthetha ngeengxaki zakhe kwaye ukhononda ngobomi bakhe ngamashumi amathathu emininzi emgceni, umyeni wakhe, abantwana bakhe, i-boss-boss. Ubeka ifowuni phantsi uze uqaphele ukuba ngandlela-thile uzive ukhululekile. Yaye imini ngaphandle kwewindow inzima, kwaye abantwana banokungafezekanga ngandlela-thile, kwaye umyeni wam akazange azinikele kwizipho ixesha elide ... Kwakungumhla olungileyo, kwaye izicwangciso zazikho, kwaye zalala, kwaye ilanga lalimema ngokukhawuleza. Kwenzekani?
Sisoloko sithintela amandla olwazi olubi kunye nesicwangciso sokukhuselwa kuso sichaswa nje. Kodwa ulwazi olubi luyabhubhisa isimo sethu sengqondo esele sisesimo sengqondo, sinyanzeliswe yingxaki kunye nobunzima bemihla ngemihla. Ubomi bethu, ekugqibeleni, kwenzeka ngokubhekiselele kwimvelaphi yoxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, apho i-psyche yethu kunye nenyama yonke ibhikisha. Iingcali azicebisi nakwiimvakalelo ezimbi ukuba zenze uvavanyo kwaye zenze olunye uphando lwezokwelapha. Ngokomzekelo, izinga le-hemoglobin lixuma, ukuba siyacaphukisa, kwaye siwa xa siziva sinyanisekile. Into efanayo yenzeka nenqanaba le-glucose. Kodwa ininzi kuthi sele siyayazi ngamava ukuba kwimeko yeblues ayenzi ukuthenga okunzulu.
Emva koko kuvela ukuba abaphumelelanga kakhulu, kuba bangela ukuba kubekho ubudlelwane obubi. Ekubeni kungenakwenzeka ukukhusela ngokwenyama kwiinkcukacha ezimbi kunye nesicwangciso sokukhusela, ungakhetha ukuhlaziya kwakhona. Kuzwakala kukumangalisa kwaye kuqinileyo, kodwa esi sixhobo esilula. Ingongoma kukufumana ubuncinane abathathu ngongoma kwiinkathazo. Yonke leyo yokurhoxiswa. Emva koko, kumnandi kangakanani. Kodwa elinye icala elihle likho nawuphi na umonakalo, oku: ukutolika ukusilela njengesifundo somphefumlo, kwaye oku kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba ngoku awuyi kuphinda ungene kwiimeko ezifanayo. Isicatshulwa sesibini esichengileyo esinokubhenela ebomini: bulela uThixo ukuba akukho nto yenzeke ngakumbi! Ukulila? Ewe, kukho izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ngelinye igama, ekupheleni kokuhlaziywa okunjalo, uya kuvuya ukuba konke kwenzeka! Ewe, kwaye wenze izigqibo, ewe!
Wayemomotheka kwaye ... akazange azibone. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda ukungaziphenduli kolwazi olubi kubantu, bobabini ababaziyo kunye nabangamaziyo. Ummelwane wayebhekiselele ngembonakalo yakho kungekhona ngamazwi amaninzi kunye nomoya wakho usuku lonke luhamba kakubi? Ukuba oku kwenzeka rhoqo, ngoko kufuneka usebenze isicwangciso sokukhusela. Okokuqala, kunomsebenzi omkhulu kakhulu owenziweyo ukwenzela ukuba uqaphele iqela layo lokubhekisa, njengoko iingcali zengqondo zithi. Okokuthi, iqela labantu abanombono obaluleke kakhulu kuwe kubalulekile okanye luncedo ukuqwalasela. Ingaba ummelwane wakho ungobugcisa? Ingaba ngumlobi omeleleyo? Okanye ngaba ngumntu ofuna ukumthanda? Ukuba kunjalo, buya uze ubuze, yintoni ephosakeleyo ngomfanekiso wakho? Ngaphandle koko, ulilahle ngaphandle kwentloko kwaye ucinge ngento ebalulekileyo ngokwenene. Qaphela kwaye ugqibe - mhlawumbi kufuneka uguqule indlela yokujonga ngayo lo mntu?
Lungisa! Bathi ukuqala kweso siqingatha semfazwe. Isimo sengqondo esilungileyo ekuqaleni kwesisombululo salo naluphi na ingxaki sifumane isiqinisekiso sokugqiba kwayo. Umfundi ophumeleleyo oya kudlula umzekelo "utitshala" onobungozi, ucinga ukuba: "Ndiya kumenza amomotheka, amangaliswe kwaye aqonde kum, kodwa umntu ocinga!"
Umntu olahlekileyo , olinganisela kwisantya sokuncitshiswa ngenxa yemisila engahlambulukanga, ehamba e-institute ngcamango: "Uya kuphinda ahlekise, ahlekise kwaye ndixelele ukuba yiyiphi i-jerk. Nkosi, yintoni na kum? "Ngoko yenza izigqibo: isimo sengqondo esingalunganga kunye nolwazi olungalunganga lunempembelelo embi kumntu.
Musa ukuma kwi-anchor. I-Anchor iyadala. Kufanelekile amaxesha amaninzi ukuhluleka okanye ukufumana iimvakalelo eziphazamisekileyo kwiimeko ezifanayo, njengoko kukho ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo kunye namava ambi. Sihlala phantsi "kwe-anchor engalunganga" kwaye siyisusa kwindawo yayo ayikwazi. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngakumbi imeko leyo okanye nokuba yindalo yayo ibangela iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, ngoko ke ukungahleleki kwandisa. Njani ukuba? Zama ukulinganisa imeko efanayo, kodwa ngokuhle, ukuphelisa ngokuphumelelayo! Ukuba kaninzi kunamaxesha angenangqondo kule ndawo, akunakwenzeka ukuba imeko iya kuphinda! Zikhuthaze ukuba utshintshe iimeko, esivame ukuba singasifanelanga ngamandla angaloo nto!
Iingxoxo ezingathandekiyo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama kangakanani, awukwazi ukuziphepha. Ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye, kufuneka ujongane nabantu abangathandeki ngokukhethekileyo ngezihloko ezingathandekiyo. Ngexesha elifanayo, ziphulaphule ngezikhathi iingxelo ezingakhethi. Ulwazi olungalunganga olubhekiselele kuwe, luphethe amandla awonakalisayo, asebenza kwintliziyo, ukuzithemba kunye nentlalo jikelele. Ngako oko, kufuneka ukwazi ukuzikhusela ekungabikho komsebenzi kwaye oku kuya kukunceda uphumelele ebomini, ube nempilo kunye nokuzola, kwaye ujonge phambili kwikamva nangethemba. Ngoko, ukuba unokwenza ingxoxo engathandekiyo, funda ukuyiqonda kuphela njengomzuzu wokusebenza, akukho nto. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde ukungathathi nto entliziyweni, ingakumbi ukungabikho kwi-akhawunti yakho. Yaye khumbula ukuba nayiphi na ingxaki inokusombulula, kwaye akufanele ifuthe kakubi ubomi bakho. Zama ukutshintsha kwenye into emnandi. Ukuphazamisa okanye ukulala nje. Ubuthongo buya kuba liyeza elihle emva kwengxoxo engathandekiyo.