Wonke amabhinqa amaphupha okuba sisityebi kunye nodumo, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu, kuvela, ukuphumeza lo msebenzi. Kwaye unokuthetha ngezizathu zeengxaki zakho njengoko uthanda. Abanye abantu bayakhalaza ukuba ukungabi nantlupheko yenhlanhla, abanye - ukuba umntu uye wakwazi ukuwafumana endleleni eya phezulu. Kodwa siyazi ukuba i-blame yezinto zonke ubuvila nemikhwa emibi.
Kwaye nantoni na enayenzayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lixesha elingakanani ngosuku oyeka ukusebenzela, awuyi kufumana nantoni na de uze ulahlekelwe isifo se-syndrome. Izizathu zokungaphumeleli zilula. Kufuneka kuphela ukuba ufake isicelo esincinane.
1. Ukuzichukumisa
Abantu ababethekele ngamabomu ekukholeni, bakholelwa ukuba abanako ukuzityebi ngengcaciso. Yiba nomsindo ngokwakho ayikho into enokukhetha ngayo. Yingakho uziqhubela entolongweni yentlupheko, ongayi kuphuma nayo nayiphi na indlela.
Ukuhaha
Ukuba uhlala ufuna uphendlo lwamanani kwixabiso, ungayifuni ukuchitha imali eyongezelelweyo kwimfundo yabantwana bakho, zama ukuhlawula umvuzo omncinci kumntu ongaphantsi, nangona usebenza ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo yokuhlwempuzeka. Ngoko ke, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ulahle lo mkhuba.
Umntu ozilungiselele ukuphumelela uya kuhlawulela kakhulu njengoko le nto iyindleko. Kwaye abancedisi bakhe abayi kunciphisa umvuzo wabo, kwaye baya kulinda okufanayo kubo.
3. Ukwenza izinto ongenako ukuma
U-Ivan uyakuzonda ukuhamba nenja, kodwa akafuni ukwakha umvuzo kuye, uSergei Alekseyevich uyaxhalaba ngenxa yokuba uye wafaka umbiko wekota ngeempumlo zakhe, kodwa akukho mntu ngaphandle kwakhe owaziyo ukwenza. ULisa akafuni ukusebenza njengomphicothi-zincwadi, kodwa akanakho enye indlela yokuhlawula ngemboleko mboleko, akanayo. Bonke aba bantu baqala ukuzicwangcisa ngokwabo intlupheko, ngenxa yeengcinga zabo malunga nezinto abazizondayo. Ngenxa yokucinga okubi nokungaxhatshazi ebomini bakhe, akunakukwazi ukuba ngumntu onempumelelo.
Ngoko ke, iingcebiso - yeka ukwenza izinto ezandleni zakho. Umsebenzi kufuneka ujabule. Nguwuphi umsebenzi obangela ukuba ufuna ukukwenza iiyure ekupheleni unokukukhokelela kwimpumelelo.
4. Impumelelo yemali ayinakulinganiswa
Indoda ehlwempu ikhulu leepesenti iqinisekile ukuba inokuba yityebi, ukuba kukho imali ethile. Umntu onempumelelo uphawula ulonwabo kwiiyunithi ezinengqiqo. Yintoni - wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela.
5. Yenza okungaphezulu kunokwenzeka
Amakhredithi kunye nabasebenzi bebhanki ngokumomotheka ubuso babo kuya kunceda ukwandisa imeko yobomi ngakumbi. Emva koko, umntu ongafuni ukuphumelela akakwazi ukuqonda ukuba yintoni umehluko phakathi kwemboleko ephilileyo, ukuphuhliswa kweshishini, kunye nekhredithi kwimoto okanye kwikhaya.
6. Ukufumaneka kwenzuzo esheshayo
Umnqweno wokufumana yonke into ngenye ipropati yabantu abahluphekileyo. Abaqondi ukuba kungcono ukungena kwinkampani ephumelelayo yokufumana umvuzo ophantsi, kodwa emva kweminyaka embalwa inemivuzo enjalo, engayiphupha kuphela. Qaphela ingakanani uhlawulayo ngoku.
7. Iinyembezi nezikhalazo
Ubomi bubuhlungu. Nsuku zonke kukho izingozi, ukubulala, inkohlakalo, into engalunganga, ukuhlala kwihlabathi elinjalo, kwaye nangakumbi kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukukhula. Ngeengxoxo ezinjalo, olahlekileyo uyavuma. Indlela kuphela yokuphuma ukuba ngumntu odala.
Musa ukuhlala. Khangela iindlela zokumelana nayo yonke le ntshabalalo.
8. Ukuthelekiswa nabantu abaneempumelelo
UPetya ukholelwa ukuba uyona mhle eklasini, kuba nguye kuphela onenhlanhla ukupasa iimviwo ezintlanu. U-Vasya ucinga ukuba nguyena mkhulu kunabo bonke, kuba esikhundleni sokusebenza ehlobo kunye nokwenza imali, uhlala ekhaya. ULeena ufuna ukumbulala umhlobo wakhe, kuba abafana bahlala beza kuye. Abantu abanjalo kwinqanaba eliphezulu baphula umkhuba wokuthelekisa nabanye.
Qinisa. Ungavumeli ihlabathi langaphandle ukuba litshintshe ngaphakathi.
9. Ubutyebi bulinganiswa ngemali
Abantu abazizityebi ngexesha elidlulileyo beyekile ukuchaza ulonwabo nobutyebi ngemali. Ocebile ngokwenene nguye owazi ukufunda ukutsala imali ebomini bakhe, ukuwafumana ukususela ekuqaleni kwaye rhoqo ukuphindaphinda. Zama oku, kwakhona. Emva koko awukwazi ukwesaba amatyala, ukubolekisa kunye nezinye iingxaki ezikukhathazayo. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu - ulonwabo nempilo, awukwazi ukuthenga nayiphi na imali.