Iphupha apho umyeni utshintsha
Ngokuqhelekileyo, uphupha ukutolika akufani. Xa uvuka, uvakalelwa ngumsila ongathandekiyo wokungcatshiswa kwendoda, ungabhubhi ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuphenywa kwabathembekile. Enyanisweni, phakathi kwakho kuya kusekwa ukufudumala, ukuthembela kunye nokunyaniseka. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kwiibinibini eziye zahlangabezana nobunzima ebomini babo bentsapho.
Xa ufumene ukuba indoda yatshintshile kunye nentombi yakhe, akunyanga ukuba ikhangele ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ukumazi. Ukulala akuthethi nantoni na intombi elele ekhethiweyo. Uyaziqonda ngokugqithiseleyo abantu abanomdla obomangalisayo wokuba bafumane wena. Kodwa ekubeni ulwalamano olunobungane lunomdla wokukhanya, lo mbono kufuneka uthathwe nje ngokuba unqwenela ukukhupha umdlali.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba umyeni ngokwakhe uvuma kuwe ngokugwenxa, kuyafaneleka ukunikela ingqwalasela ngakumbi kwintsapho yakho. Enyanisweni, akude kufike ukukrexeza, kodwa ukuba uqhubeka ubanda kubanye, kuya kwenzeka. Zama ukunika umfazi wakho ubushushu kunye nothando kangangokuthi akanalo igalelo lokuzijonga ngandlela-thile ecaleni.
Kuthekani ukuba umyeni wam uzenzele?
Ekubeni iingubo eziphambili zezophupha sele zisaziwa kuwe, kuyafaneleka ukuthatha amanyathelo athile ukwenza ikhaya lakho lihle, kwaye ubuhlobo buyathemba kwaye bufudumele.
- Ukuchazwa kwephupha likaMiller kuthatha iphupha lokungcatsha umyeni wakhe, njengesimboli sokuphikisana nokuxabana kwintsapho. Ngaphezu koko, banokuvela kwimeko encinane. Kwaye kuba abafazi, njengezinto eziveleleyo, banomdla wokunyuka kwemizwa, ngumphuphi omele athathe amanyathelo aze aziphathe ngokunyanisekileyo ukuze angabhubhisi enye into.
- Iphupha oye wafunda ngengozi ngokungcatsha kwendoda yakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa ungakhange ubone ukunyangwa, kodwa kwiinkcukacha zobuthongo. Naliphi na iinkcukacha, nokuba igama lomntu oye wamxelela umntu ngenguqu, idilesi, indawo okanye into ethile, unokukunika inkcazelo malunga nokufezekiswa kwezinye iimeko zexesha elizayo, kwaye ukuba ngaba zibi, unokuzikhusela ngexesha.
Ukuba utshintshe
Akunakufaneli sitshele loo maphupha kubakhethiweyo bethu, ukuze singabhubhisi iingxabano ukususela ekuqaleni. Kodwa ukuhlalutya umbono onjalo kubalulekile.
Okokuqala, ukulala kunokusebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuba awuzalisekanga isithembiso.
Okwesibini, umbono ungabonakalisa isifiso esinqumlekileyo somfazi ukuba senze uhlanga. Kungenzeka ukuba ukukhanya kweemvakalelo kunye nobudlelwane bezesondo sele zihleli kude kwaye iwesifazane ayinayo into ebomini ebomini. Ukuze ungayonakalisi ulwalamano olupheleleyo, kufuneka uzame ukuthetha nomlingane wakho kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni ubuhlobo bufikelele ekufeni.
Ngokwonyango lweencwadi zephupha, amaphupha okungcatsha awanalo mzekelo wesiprofeto, njengoko ubonakalisa ubudlelwane balo mbhangqwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba uyakubona oku, zama ukuhlalutya ngobomi bakho kwaye, ukuba ufuna ukugcina ubudlelwane, zama ukuthabatha amanyathelo asebenzayo kulo.