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Ingaba umntu ongaphambili uyaphupha ngani: ukutolika kweencwadi zephupha Indlela yokuthetha xa ulala ngesondo?Ingaba umntu ongaphambili uyaphupha ntoni ngoku: ukutolika kweencwadi zephupha
Ukuba khona kwiphupha lomntu olwalamano oludlulileyo kuninzi lubonisa ukuba ukususela ekuqhekekeni, kukho ukuhlala kungaphelelanga ubudlelwane, ukuxhamla kwamandla akupheli ngokupheleleyo. Kwiincwadi ezininzi zephupha into eyenziwa yile mntu ithetha iingcamango zakhe ngawe. Mhlawumbi, lo mntu uyazisola ngokuthi yonke into yavela ngale ndlela kwaye ithemba ukuqaliswa kokunxibelelana. Okubaluleke kakhulu yinto ecacileyo yephupha, intetho yakho, imeko.
Oko umyeni wamandulo ayeliphuphayo, funda apha
Ukubona ephupheni ibali apho ufumanisa khona ubuhlobo okanye inxalenye ngokupheleleyo - uphawu lokuba iqhayiya lakho libi kakhulu. Ephupheni, uzama ukubetha iimeko apho uya kulungile. Kwezinye iinguqulelo, unokufumana ukuchazwa okuthe ngqo, ngokuya kuthi, emva kweliphupha, awukwazi ukunyamekela ngekratshi lakho uze uzame ukubiza umnxeba. Oku kungabakho umnxeba, ileta okanye kwintlanganiso yexesha elithile apho uthabatha inyathelo.
Ukuqhawula kunye nomntu owayekade ephupha kukubonakalisa ukuba iimvakalelo phakathi kwakho azange zife. Uvelwano lomntu okanye into eninzi isaphila entliziyweni yenu. Akumangalisi ukuba emva kwalo phupha uza kufumana iindaba ezinxulumene nalo mntu. Enyanisweni, akusiyo into yokuba oko uvelayo kuya kukuvuyisa.
Ukuba ephupheni uye waziva unomdla, uthando kunye nokufudumala, ngoko kubonisa ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lwangoku alukude. Awunayo ngokwaneleyo le mivakalelo ebomini bokwenene, kwaye ukucinga ngale ndlela kuzama ukuzalisa ukusilela kwemvakalelo emihle. Ngokubhekiselele kwithuba elikhethiweyo, eli phupha linokungqina ukuba ubomi bakhe abukho kwixesha elihle.
Kubonakala ukuba emva kokuphupha le ndoda iya kubonakala kwakhona ebomini bakho. Awudingi ukuqhubeka kwakhona nomtshato wakho omdala, kodwa uya kuthetha.
Indlela yokuthetha xa ulala ngesondo?
Iphupha linokutolika ngeendlela eziliqela. Ukuphendukela kwezinye iincwadi zephupha, umntu unokuqonda ukuba emva kwalowo mqondiso akufanele alindele inhlanhla ngothando kusasa. Kwabanye, umntu unokufumana ukuchazwa ukuba isondo kwiphupha (kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani ophethe indima yeqabane) ufuzisela amandla akho ngokwesini okanye ukunganeliseki ngobomi bobulili boqobo. Ukongeza, ukujongana nothando lwangaphambili, lithetha ukungaqiniseki. Uzijonga ungenakufanelekela okulungileyo, uhlale uzihlambalaza ngenxa yeempazamo ezidlulileyo, ukholelwa ukuba ubuwula bakho buwonakalise ikusasa.
Oko iiphupha zangaphambili malunga, ngokusemthethweni, ayifuni ukuthetha ngokutshintsha kwexesha elizayo. Ngokudla kaninzi, lo mfanekiso ubonisa amava akho angaphakathi ofuna ukuwuthintela.
Fumana ukuba ukukhohlisa kwenkwenkwe kukule nqaku