Ukuba ngaba uphupha ophuphayo, njengokuba uhlala
Xa umntu esoloko ebona isihlobo sakhe esifileyo, kufuneka ahambe esontweni aze afake ikhandlela ukuthula ukuhlawula umzali. Ukuba ubonile ukuba umntu ofileyo ucela into kuwe, okanye ubambe le nto esandleni sakho, uthenge into eyimfuneko uze uyibeke ethuneni. Emva koko amaphupha aya kukuyeka ukukhathaza.
Kodwa namhlanje siza kugxininisa ngakumbi ekuchazeni amaphupha, ehambelana ngqo nomphefumlo wephupha.
- Umntu unokuhlaselwa yimpembelelo yexesha elidlulileyo kwaye ngoko uhlala ebona uyise oshonile obonakala ngathi uyaphila. Unako ukufezekisa into oyifunayo xa uhamba nekratshi lakho kwaye uqale ukuthatha amanyathelo asebenzayo, usebenzisa onke amava akho obomi.
- Ubaba osanda kufa uphupha ngomntu onomqondo othile ngokufa kwesihlobo. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zizame ukudibanisa nokufa komntu othandekayo, kuba asiqhelekanga sinetyala ekupheleni komntu wesinye sezihlobo zethu.
- Kwincwadi yephupha likaMiller kuthethwa ukuba ukubona uyise ofile ephilileyo kuthetha ukuba umphuphi ulindele umcimbi obaluleke kakhulu kwaye ulindele ixesha elide. Zama ukugcina iliso elisezantsi kwinto eyenzekayo, ukuze ungaphuthelwa ithuba.
- Ukuba ubambelela umzali wakho ephupheni, uya kuphumelela kwiinkampani zezimali, owaqala ngoku kutshanje.
- Ukubona ubaba ofile ephilileyo kuthetha ukuba unokwenza lula ukuqala. Unokuqalisa ukuqalisa ukuqhuba ishishini elicwangcisiweyo elide kwaye ungesabi uhambo olude kunye neemeko eziyingozi.
- Ukuba umzali ekubiza ukuba uhambe naye, ngoko kukufanele ukugcina kwisinyathelo esinjalo. Enyanisweni, unokugula kakhulu.
- Kwincwadi yephupha yeVangi ukuchazwa okuthe ngqo. Intombazana encinci, leyo uyise osekupheleni wayephupha, njengokungathi uyaphila, kufuneka abe noloyiko lobukhohlisayo kwisithandwa sakhe. Kodwa le ndoda iphupha lithembisa inhlanhla kwishishini, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba uloyike ngamacandelo entshaba.
Ukuba ukufa kukayise kuyaphupha
Ngokuqhelekileyo, uphupha ukutolika ukuphatha iphupha apho ubona indlela ubaba wakho efa ngayo, njengesibonakaliso esihle. Ukuba umzali wakho unesifo esibi, ngokukhawuleza uza kubuya. Ngokubanzi, umbono uthembisa ubomi obunexesha elide nolonwabileyo kwisihlobo sakho. Ngoko ke, siya kugxila kwizenzo nokubonakala komntu oshonile, onokubona kwiphupha.
Xa ekunika imali, ngoko kubomi benene unokufuna uncedo lwezezimali ngaphandle. Ukongezelela, umphuphi kufanele aqaphele abantu abanokugula abaqhelana nabantu abathi, ngenxa yokuzuza, bangenza ingozi.
Ukuba uyise osele ephupheni ubamba umlala, ke lo mbono unengcaciso ecacileyo. Umtsalane wenhlanhla elindelwe indoda kunye nezoshishino kuyo nayiphi na indawo yokuphila iya kuphumelela ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Amantombazana angatshatanga afana nalokhu athembisa ulwalamano oluzinzile kunye nentombazana efanelekileyo, kwaye umntu unokuqiniseka ukuba usekugqithweni kwamandla akhe kwaye uya kukwazi ukufezekisa zonke iinjongo.
Yaye nangona emva kwamaphupha obawo oshonile abanye bangakwazi ukuphuza ukukhupha okubanda, musa ukungazibi malunga nemibono enjalo. Abazali bexesha elide ngandlela-thile kwaye emva kokufa kwabo bazama ukukhusela abantwana babo kwaye ngale ndlela baxwayise malunga neengozi okanye bafanekisela ixesha lokuphila eliyimpumelelo.