Kutheni inja efile iphupha?
Ngokubanzi, inja ngesimo semibono yasebusuku ifanekisela abahlobo nabanye abantu abasondele kumphuphi. Kodwa inja efile ibonisa iingxaki zobomi kunye neengxaki. Kodwa ukuze ukwazi ubunjani babo, zama ukukhumbula umbala weboya bezilwanyana.
- Inja efile ebomvu ithi umphunga ulahlekelwa ubomi bakhe bakhululekile ebomini bobomi. Wayekhathazeka ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nokuqhelekileyo.
- Umbala omnyama wengubo uphakamisa ukuba umntu olele ulindele ingxaki ngephutha lomnye wabahlobo bakhe okanye abahlobo abasondeleyo.
- Umbala omhlophe ubonisa ukukhanyela ngenqweno umphuphi wothando, uthando okanye nayiphi na imbonakalo yentando.
Isidumbu senja sinakho ukuphupha, ukuba umntu ulindele ingxaki kunye nokuxabana nabantu abasendaweni esondeleyo. Ngaphezu koko, baya kuba banzulu kangangokuthi kunye nokutshutshiswa kunye kunye nosongelo kuya kuvakala, emva koko kuya kuba nzima okanye kunzima ukubuyisela ubudlelwane obusondeleyo.
Intombazana eye yabona inja efile kufuneka ilungiselele ukuba umnqweno wakhe awuyi kuba yinyani. Uninzi lwamaxesha amaninzi luxhalabele ubuhlobo bothando. Mhlawumbi le ntombazana yayithatha ukucinga kwaye yayibona uthando lokwenene apho engekhoyo khona.
Ngomntu, umbono onjalo uthembisa ukuthengiswa ngabathandekayo. Ukongezelela, ngokwenene kukho umntu phakathi kweso sidima sakhe esixhalabileyo ngekamva lakhe kwaye ukulungele ukunceda nanoma yimuphi umzuzu.
Yintoni oyenzayo ebuthongweni bakho?
Ukubona indlela inja ebulawa ngayo phambi kokuba amehlo akho athi uya kufuneka ufumane ubungqina beemeko ezibhekiselele kumhlobo wakho osondeleyo.
Bulala inja ephupheni, nangona kungakhathali (umzekelo, ukubethelwa yimoto) kuthathwa njengesilumkiso sokuba umntu kufuneka alumkele amazwi kunye nezenzo zakho. Elinye igama okanye isenzo sinokukhubekisa umntu osendaweni yakho kwaye uya kuba notshaba olunzulu lobomi.
Ukuba inja efile ephupheni ivela ngokukhawuleza ephila, ke lowo uphuphayo uyilungele ukuba enyanisweni kuya kufuneka athathe uxanduva lokuxazulula ubunzima kunye neengxaki zomhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo. Mhlawumbi, kuya kubakho ukulungisa iingxabano nokungavumelani komnye umntu.
Ukubona ukufa kwenja yakho kuthetha ukuba umntu useengozini yokulimala okanye ukulimala. Kwinqangi kwincwadi yephupha, lowo uphuphayo kufuneka asebenze ngokucophelela ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo kwaye akhusele ukukhusela kwindawo yokusebenzela.
Inja enkulu efile iphathwa njengencwadi yokuphupha, njengokuba umntu ongenalo ukuqinisekiswa komphuphi. Mhlawumbi kuya kubakho ishishini elibalulekileyo, kodwa ukungathandabuzeki akuvumeli ngenkuthalo kwaye kuqikelele ukuqala ukuphunyezwa kwayo. Nangona kunjalo, kwiphupha elinjalo kukho umzuzu omhle. Kungenzeka ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane umphathiswa ochaphazelayo uza kubonakala kwindawo yomntu, eya kukunceda ukuxazulula iingxaki eziqokelelweyo.
Kukholelwa ukuba inja ngumhlobo womntu. Kodwa nangona ungazange ube nalesi silwanyana, ungayihoyi imibono enjalo. Isilwanyana sinokuba isilumkiso esibalulekileyo okanye isimboli seengxaki ezinokuthi zixazululwe kuphela ngokuthatha amanyathelo okufika ngexesha.