Yintoni iphupha apho udayayo iinwele zakho? Ukutolika kwamaphupha Abasetyhini badla ukutshintsha ukubonakala kwabo. Indlela elula yokwenza oku kulungele ukulungiswa kweenwele zakho. Kodwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza, wabona ukuba udweba iinwele zakho ephupheni, kufuneka ucele uncedo kwiincwadi zethu zephupha, ukuze uguqule ngokuchanekileyo oko wakubonayo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe engqondweni ukuba ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo uqhuba inkqubo yokupenda ebomini bokwenene, ngoko iphupha elinjalo alithwali ngokungabalulekanga.
Ukudaya iinwele kwiphupha: ixabiso eliqhelekileyo
- Umbono onjalo ungathembisa ukutshintsha kwexesha elizayo ebomini, oqaliswe ngumphuphi ngokwakhe.
- Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iinwele ezidayayo zingaba ngumqondiso wesigxina kwi-subconscious yokuba umntu kufuneka aqale ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe. Kwaye, akunakuchukumisa nje ukutshintsha kwindlela ekubonakala ngayo, kodwa kunye nendlela yokuphila ngokubanzi.
- Kwincwadi ephuthumayo yokuphupha i-Miller kuthiwa ukuba udle izinwele ephupheni-into engento ebalulekileyo. Umphuphi uya kuba kwiqela labantu abaninzi, kodwa akayi kukwazi ukufumana umhlobo osondeleyo okanye umlingane womphefumlo phakathi kwabo.
- Ukubona kwiphupha indlela umbala weenwele utshintsha ngayo omnye umntu uthetha ukuba umntu ubetha ingxabano nomntu osapho. Mhlawumbi, igama elingakhathaliyo lephupha libandakanya uphule umthetho, kwaye umntu obona le phupha akayazi kakuhle. Emva kokuvuswa, kuyafaneleka ukuhlalutya iziganeko zakutshanje kwaye, mhlawumbi, uxolise kumntu kwiintsapho zabo.
- Abasetyhini abanqabile ukudweba iinwele ngokwenene, banokuqiniseka ukuba iphupha elinjalo liya kubazisa ixesha elihle, xa baya kuba nethuba lokudlala ngothando kwaye baya kuphumelela ngesondo esinamandla.
- Amadoda ayipende ngeenwele rhoqo, kodwa iphupha malunga nalo lithembisa isimo sengqondo sengqondo sabanye kunye nokulahleka kwedumela.
Ixabiso lokulala ngokuxhomekeke kumbala
- Umnyama okanye umnyama udibene nendawo engalunganga. Oku kwaba sisiseko sokutolika. Izicwangciso zexesha elizayo ziza kuhlaziywa. Zama ukukhansela nayiphi na intsebenziswano ebalulekileyo okanye iintlanganiso, kuba ukudweba iinwele zakho kumbala omnyama kuthetha ukuba yonke inqweno yesifiso iya kuthutha. Ukongezelela, loo mbono ungathetha ukulahlekelwa ngumhlobo okanye intombi.
- Ukudweba kumhlophe kungumqondiso ochaseneyo. Ulindele utshintsho oluhle kunye nophuculo olubanzi lobomi. Okukuphela kwendawo ingaba ngumthunzi okanye umthunzi. Ukwazisa indlela yokugula okanye ezinye iingxaki.
- Olubomvu luphawu lokutshisa. Emva kwephupha elinjalo, umntu unokulindela isiluleko esilindelwe ixesha elide: intombazana izandla kunye neentliziyo, kwaye indoda leyo iyinkontileka enhle okanye isilungiselelo sokusebenza. Kwabo sele besele batshatile, ukudweba iinwele kwiitoni ezimnyama kungathembisa ukutshatyalaliswa kweqabane okanye ezinye iingxaki ebomini bakhe.
- Ipeyinti yegolide ithetha ukuba umphuphi uyazilawula ngokupheleleyo iinkalo zobomi bakhe. Kwaye ukuba ingxaki iwele kuye, akufanele utyhalele oku, kungekhona abantu abangaziwayo, kodwa wena. Nangona kunjalo, uyayilumkisa ngokusingqongileyo: zininzi iintshaba kunye nabantu abanenzondelelo kuwe.
- Umbala ongaqhelekanga wezinwele ezinemibala kuthetha ukuba umntu unethemba elikhulu ngaphandle koncedo kwishishini.
- Ukuba uphupha ukuba udwetshwe ngeblue, ufumane imisebenzi emnandi kunye nokuzonwabisa.
- U-Orange uthembisa utshintsho lobomi bamakhadi. Kodwa ukuba umbala usondelene nomdaka, ixabiso liba libi. Kudingeka siqaphele ngakumbi ngemicimbi yethu, kuba isigqibo esisinyanisekileyo sinokubangela ubuthathaka, ukudandatheka kunye nezinye iingxaki.
