Njengoko sele sikhankanywe ngasentla, le ncwadi yephupha ihluke kakhulu kubanye ngokusuka kwayo kunye nokugqitywa kokutolika kwephupha ngalinye. Bekulapha, uFrud wagqiba kwelokuba asebenzise isakhono sakhe sengqondo ekuchazeni amaphupha. Ngendlela, ukubonakaliswa kwamaphupha, kwincwadi yakhe yephupha, kubonakala ngokusekelwe kwiimoto zethu zangaphakathi, esinokukwazi, ngokuzeleyo, aziqondi. Nanku kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuba wongeze malunga nomntwana waseFrewudian, okuyiyo incwadi yokuphupha, kukho uluvo lokuba unesondo ngokuthe ngqo kwimixholo yakhe. Abaninzi abamjonga njengento engaphantsi kwincwadi yokuphupha.
Iinguqulelo zeFolud zokuphucula amaphupha kufaka inkcazelo enjalo yamaphupha equlethwe kukuba zonke iinjongo zethu zizalisekisa izifiso zethu ngokuthe ngqo. Kwaye konke kwenzeka ngokuthe ngqo kwinqanaba elincinci lokuzichukumisa. UFrud wayekholelwa ukuba ngexesha lephupha engqondweni yethu kukho uhlalutyo lweengcamango nezinto ezibonakalayo, ekugqibeleni zithatyathwa yimpawu ezithile kunye nezinto esiziphuphayo.
Inkolelo kaFreud yokulala ithi iphupha liyinkcazo eyenza ukunyanisekisa inyaniso yethu, into enye, ngexesha elifanayo ayifumananga nhlobo. I-psyche yomntu kunye nomgca wayo wesifundo zichaphazelekayo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zengqondo kunye nemiba yehlabathi elijikelezile. Ngubo abayalela ukuzaliswa kwamaphupha ethu.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, makhe sibone ukutolika okumbalwa kwezinto esihlala siziphupha ngazo, usebenzisa ibhuku lethu lephupha: ukuchazwa kwamaphupha ngo-Freud.
Umtshato
Umtshato womnye kukufumana iindaba ezilungileyo kuwe okanye ozithandayo. Ukuba uthe watshata ngqo kwiphupha, kufuneka ulindele ukutshatyalaliswa okhethekileyo.
Fata
Ukuba umfazi otshatileyo uzama umgubuzelo kuye, lindela into engavamile kwaye entsha kwizinto eziza kwenzeka ngqo kwiintsapho zakho. Ukuba iphupha lentombazana engatshatanga, lindela ulwalamano olutsha nomntu. Ukuba, ke, ephupheni, ubona isigqubuthelo esiqhekekileyo, lindela ukukhohlisa ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba lomnye.
Ulwandle
Ubona ulwandle oluzolile - ngokusobala unalo uxolo lwengqondo, kodwa luya kuguquka ngokukhawuleza kwaye uya kufumana. Amaphupha ajonge ulwandle ukusuka kude kuthetha ukuba uhlala ucinga ngokusondelana, kwaye ucinge ngesini into engenakuyifumana kwaye ayikude nayo. Ubhukuda elwandle - kuthetha ukuba ufumana yonke into ebomini ongayifisa. Zama ukungena elwandle elunxwemayo - ulindele ukulwa nolwabelana ngesondo olungathandabuzekiyo. Ukubetha umntu - ke lo mntu ucela uncedo lwakho, hlawula ingqalelo ngoku. Ukuba udilika kwiphupha lakho kwaye uhlambe phantsi kwamanzi - kufuneka uyeke ukumba malunga nokuba akunakukukhathalela nonke.
Spider
Intombazana yabona isikhankqalazi ephupheni, ngoko uyazibuza ukuba uyedwa ngaphandle komntu.
IQela
Ukuva isiqwenga - lindela ukukhohlisa kwinqanaba lakho. Khawubone iqhude - kungekudala, wenze iphutha ebomini.
Ukuzala
Ukuba uphupha ukuba uyazala, lungele ukukhulelwa, kwaye ukuba uthatha ukunikezelwa, lindela ukuba ngokukhawuleza uza kufumana umgangatho wakho.
Intlanzi
Thatha iintlanzi ephupheni - awukwazi ukuzonwabisa ngesondo kuba awukwazi ukuphumla kwaye ukhohlwe zonke iingxaki zakho. Zama ukunqoba oku. Ukubamba iintlanzi nokuhlala ngaphandle kokubambisa-kubonisa ukuba ulawulwa yinkimbinkimbi enobunzima edibana nokwenza iphutha ngexesha lesini.
Umfana
Ukuba umntu osemncinci ungumhle kwaye unomdla okwaneleyo - liphupha eliguqula umsebenzi wakho okanye, kungcono nakhona, ufumane umvuzo wemali ngomsebenzi owenziweyo.
Ukuba, ephupheni lakho, uwanga umntwana okanye uthethe naye - oku kubonisa ukuba kusondele kwixesha elizayo, uya kufuna ukuguqula ngokubanzi ubomi bakho bobuqu kunye nobungcali.
Izitebhisi
Luphawu lobomi bakho. Ukuba uphupha ukuba ukhuphuka kwizitepsi phezulu, ngoko kwixesha elizayo, kufuneka uqaphele abantu abasondele kuwe.
Ukuba ephupheni, wehla ukusuka kumanqanaba - lindela ukudumazeka kumntu osondeleyo kuwe.
Xa, ubona indoda emi phezulu kwizitepsi, kwaye uyamazi - kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukwazi lo mntu ngokusondeleyo, kodwa nje ungalindelanga ukwenza.
Uhlahla kwizitepsi ezantsi - oku kubonisa ukuba uyazifuna kakhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, ungo-maximalist ephelele, kwaye kutheni ungafumani ubudlelwane nabantu.
Umlilo
Iphupha umlilo - lindela ukuba kungekudala uzokuthandana nomntu oya kufana nawe kuzo zonke iziganeko zobomi.
Ukukrazula
Ubusiso obusondeleyo kwisithembiso sephupha wena intlanganiso kunye nendoda engenayo imali, ngamanye amagama, uAlfonso. Ukuba umntu uwanga, kwaye ukhangele oku, yazi ukuba ngokukhawuleza ube phakathi kweso siganeko esingathandekiyo.
Ngoko sawahlula amaphupha aqhelekileyo. Oku, okona, yincinci yinto emele kwi-dream dream book kaFreud. Ungabi buvila ukuba ubuke kwakhona kwaye ufumane into entsha kunye neyomangalisayo. Kwaye ukubulela ukutolika kwayo, uya kuziqonda ngokwakho, zakho iingxaki, iinkanuko, iinkalo zesini kunye nokwesaba ngcono. Khumbula ukuba amaphupha ububomi bethu bobusuku obuncinane, obunentsingiselo enzulu. Ngako oko, ukutolika kwabo okuchanekileyo kunye nobuchule akuyiyo nto kodwa yinkcazelo ngaphambi kokusombulula iimfuno kunye nezifiso zakho ezisisiseko.