Kufuneka kwakhona ukukhumbula iinkcukacha ezihamba kunye namaphupha. Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwento ekhupha ngayo iibhokisi kwiimeko ezahlukileyo, ukuqwalasela iinkcukacha ezincinci. Ngezantsi siqwalasela imeko nganye ngeenkcukacha ezininzi kwaye sinqume ukuba kuthetha ukuthini.
Kuthetha ntoni amaphupha apho kubonakala khona ibhokisi?
- ukuba ukhona kuyo-oku kubonisa isidingo sokugqiba amacala oye wahlehliswa ngawo kamva;
- uzibone ebhokisini - kwikamva elikufutshane uza kuba nelithuba lokwenza ibhangi ukuthanda kwakho;
- xa kungenanto-kulungile ukuba uziqonde. Mhlawumbi esinye sezizathu zokungaphumeleli kwakho kwixesha elidlulileyo kukungabikho kokuzithemba. Zama ukuzithemba ngakumbi ekujonganeni nayo nayiphi na imiba;
- Xa uphethe ibhokisi - oku kuwuphawu olucacileyo lwenhlanhla kwimicimbi ezayo. Libhekisela ngakumbi kwizinto eziphathekayo zobomi kunxulumano lweentsapho;
- Kwimeko apho ephupheni ibhokisi elingenalo isimbozo-kubalulekile ukudibanisa kunye nelahleko ezidlulileyo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Unokwenza oko, kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuba uhambe, ngaphandle, inhlanhla ayiyi kukushiya;
- xa liwa - ulindele iingxaki ezincinane oza kuziqonda ngokulula. Abahlobo abasondeleyo kunye nezihlobo baya kunceda ukuxazulula iingxaki;
- ukukhetha ibhokisi kwindawo yokuphupha - uphawu olukwazisa ukuba uya kudibana nomntu ongekho. Ukuba uthenge ibhokisi - kwixesha elizayo ulindele iindleko ezingenakulungiswa;
- uhlale esihlalweni - kunokubakho i-scandals kwintsapho, kodwa kungekudala uyenze. Kungenzeka ukuba emva kwenkxaso enjalo intsapho iya kuqina;
- Xa umntu ofileyo evuka ebhokisini - incwadi yephupha ithi isihlobo sisondelelo. Iindaba eziza kukuzisa ziya kuvuya kwaye ziyanandipha;
- isidumbu sisesibhokisini - kule meko kuyimfuneko ukulindela ukwandiswa kwemali. Kubantu boshishino - ukugqitywa kwempumelelo, ukuphakanyiswa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Kubathandani, kodwa engatshatanga-encwadini yephupha oku kunokubangela ukukrokra ngokungenangqiqo nokuhlambalaza, umona;
- ukwenza ukuba-ukuphumeza iziphumo eziphezulu kuya kufuneka kuthukumele, kodwa abayi kukudanisa;
- kwimeko yokuthenga ibhokisi kwindawo yokuphupha - wena kunye nosapho lwakho ulindele ukuphumelela nokuphumelela. Kwisicwangciso sasekhaya kuthetha ukuqonda okupheleleyo kunye nomlingane, ukudibanisa kwintsebenziswano;
- ibhokisi elibomvu kwiphupha - libonisa umcimbi omkhulu oza kuba nethamsanqa ukuba uthathe inxaxheba. Ngenxa yoko, unokwazi nabantu abanomdla kunye nabachaphazelayo, lungisa ubo ubomi bakho kwiimpawu eziphathekayo;
- ukuba ndibone kwiphupha umama ebhokisini-kuthetha ukuba kungekudala izalamane zakho ezisondeleyo ziya kuhla entabeni.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukukhathazeka?
"Umtyholi akayikrakra njengokuba ugqweswe" - umntu obalaseleyo uthi, okwenzekayo apha. Musa ukuthukuthela kwaye ucinge ukuba izinto eziyingozi ziya kwenzeka kwikamva elikufutshane. Ngokuqinisekileyo - akukho nto embi, ngokuchaseneyo, wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho kuya kuhamba kunye nenhlanhla ixesha elide. Ewe, iphupha elinomkhuni lihamba kunye kwaye ezinye iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo, ezidibeneyo zingasichazwayo azihlali zimnandi kuwe. Kodwa ke, abaninzi abahlobo bephupha badibanisa amaphupha anjalo anempilo.