Iphupha liliphi iphupha?
Uninzi lwabaguquli beliphupha bayavuma ukuba isela liphawu olubi, ukuxubusha iingxabano kunye neengxaki ezinkulu emsebenzini kunye nakwintsapho, ulwaphulo. Kukho imiba kunye nokuphupha iimeko ezifuna ukulungiswa, kuba zichaphazela ukuchazwa ngokuthe ngqo.
Fumana ukuba umela ungathini, apha .
- Ummese ococekileyo ocolileyo uthetha inani elikhulu labantu abanqwenela ububi, balungele nanoma yimuphi umzuzu ukubetha emva. Abayi kubonakalisa de kube ngumzuzwana xa ithuba liza kufika ukwenza intsingiselo. Zama ukunyamekela nokuphepha ukuthintana nabantu abasingaqhelekanga;
- Ephukile - i-harbinger yokungadibanisi kwintsapho kunye nomsebenzi. Uhlobo oluthile lunokwenzeka, xa uvela kwiinjongo ezilungileyo, ngephutha, uza kudala iingxaki. Qaphela konke ukubonakaliswa koncedo kwaye uzame ukuba nexhala xa usebenzisa izihlobo;
- I-Rusty - ukuhlukana kwangaphambili kwintanda yakho okanye intanda. Mhlawumbi, ulahlekelwe yimvakalelo kunye nokukhusela ukujikelezwa kweziganeko, yenza umcimbi odibaniseneyo, kunika omnye umnye ingqalelo kunokuba uqhelekileyo;
- Ikhishi - kungekudala uza kuba nomthendeleko kwintsapho okanye kwisijikelezo sehlobo kunye nabahlobo;
- Ijezi elityebileyo liphawu lokufumana amava ezayo ngenxa yezalamane okanye othandekayo. Njengomthetho - ongenangqiqo;
- Ukuxhatshazwa - ubudlelwane obomi bomntu buya kuhlahloka ngokukhawuleza, iingxabano ziya kuqala ngemali, impahla ehambayo kunye nengashenxiswayo, de kube yintlupheko yobudlelwane.
Ukongeza ngaphezu kwetazi ngokwayo, lowo uphuphayo unokuzibona izenzo ngeento, ezichazwayo:
- Ukuphosa into ethile okanye umntu uthi ngendlela ekhethiweyo. Unokuphula umthetho okanye wenze izinto ezingcolileyo ozifunayo ukuyeka ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba awuhambanga icebiso kungekudala, kunokubakho imiphumo emibi;
- Ukuphucula isela kwiphupha kuyisilumkiso sokuba ngamazwi nezenzo zakho kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele. Musa ukuthetha ngezinto ongazi, cwaka xa ungaqiniseki ngokuchanekileyo kwamagama akho, ngaphandle kokuba iingxaki zezoshishino ziphakame;
- Ukutshiswa kwikhwitha yephupha - emsebenzini uzakuzama ukusebenzisa iinjongo zabo zemali. Ngaphandle kokuxhatshazwa okanye ukuchaswa okungekho kumnye umntu osebenza naye kunokwenzeka;
- Ukulahlekelwa kweso sifundo kuchazwa njengento yokudumala kwiqabane elikhethiweyo kwiintsebenziswano zobuqu;
- Inxeba yommese eyenziwa ngawe - kwixesha elide, lungiselela impembelelo yengqondo ukusuka kwicala, uzame ukulawula uluvo lwakho nokuziphatha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ayikho into ekhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into enhle.
Kudala, isinyithi ebandayo yabonwa njengeliso lokwesaba, ulwaphulo, ukubulala kunye nosongelo. Ingqondo yethu engacatshangayo iye yaqonda ngokucacileyo oku kwaye, ngomzekelo wesandla, ibonisa ukutshatyalaliswa okuzayo, ukunika ithuba lokuchaphazela iziganeko. Ukuyisebenzisa okanye akunjalo ukhetho lwawo wonke umntu.