Intsikelelo yephupha oye wazibona wena okanye intombi intombi yomtshato Ngokuqhelekileyo umfanekiso wesintombazana esembathweni somtshato uthathwa njengophawu lotshintsho lobomi, iziganeko ezintsha kunye nexesha elihle kwiinkampani ezintsha. Kodwa ekubeni amaphupha ethu ahlukeneyo, kukho ukutolika ezininzi kwiincwadi zokuphupha.
Ukuzibona ngengubo yomtshato
- Okokuqala, iphupha elinjalo libonisa utshintsho olukhulu ebomini. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kunikelwa ukuba wenze umsebenzi womnye umntu, ngenxa yokuba awuqhelani nje nabahlobo abatsha kuphela, kodwa uya kuhamba phambili.
- Xa sibona indlela ingubo yomtshato ingcolile phambi kwamehlo akho, ingqina ukuba umphuphi uya kubakho ubunzima obukhulu. Ubunokwenzeka bokugula obukhulu kunye nexesha elide okanye usebenziso luphezulu.
- Kwincwadi yephupha kaMiller ibhaliwe, ukuphupha ukugqoka ingubo yomtshato, uthembisa uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi wezenhlalakahle, ukuzaliseka kwaloo nto iya kukukholisa kunye nolwazi olutsha.
- Ukuba iingubo zakho zomtshato ziphangiwe, kwaye ngokukodwa xa ziqhekekile, kufuneka uzilungiselele ukuphuka ubudlelwane nomhlobo osondeleyo.
- Ukuba ephupheni udibanise ingubo yakho yomtshato ngokwakho okanye ngandlela-thile uguqule sele sele ukhona, ngoko kufuneka ubaleke ukuvakalisa izicwangciso zakho ngekamva, njengoko abanye banokuthintela ukuphunyezwa kwabo.
- Iphupha oye wazama ngayo ingubo yomtshato kwaye uyamthanda ukucinga kwakho ixesha elide, ngokukhawuleza uza kuba nethuba lokufumana imali eyongezelelweyo, engeyikuzisa imali ebonakalayo kuphela, kodwa nayo iyavuya.
- Ukuzama ingubo yomtshato ephupheni, kwakhona, kufuneka kunikwe ingqalelo enkulu. Kubalulekile ukuba kungokwakho. Ukuba iimpahla zingaphandle, ngoko unokuba neengxaki kumgangatho wesintu kunye nobomi bobulili obusondezayo.
Intombi kwengubo yomtshato
Ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo, umtshato womhlobo ephupheni awusona uphawu oluhle kakhulu. Ukongezelela, i-merrier iholide, ngokugqithiseleyo kulindele ukumazi.
- Ukubona intombi ephotyweni yomtshato ayifuni kakuhle. Ingabangela ukuxabana kweentsapho, ukuxabana nomthandayo okanye ukugula.
- Iphupha apho ubona intombi yakho ishade kwimeko enhle yekhephu-mhlophe iya kubonakalisa kakubi ngobomi bakho. Kungcono ukujonga ngokuthe ngqo kumntu othandekayo, kuba akanakulungeleka njengokuba ucinga.
Intombazana engaziwayo kumyinge womtshato
- Ukubona umfazi wesini esilungileyo kwimpahla yomtshato emhlophe kwiphupha uphathwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuthetha ukuba ujikelezwe ngabantu abanobubele kunye novelwano, kwaye kwenye, kufuneka ujonge ngakumbi, kuba bangabi nengozi njengoko ucinga.
- Ukuba ibhinqa libona intombazana emgodweni womtshato ephupheni, inokuthi ithatyathwe kwiiprojekthi ezintsha, njengoko ithemba lakhe kunye neenjongo zakhe ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kumkhokelela ekuphumeleleni.
- Indoda engatshatanga emva kwiphupha, apho kwakukho intombazana encinci kwindlobo yomtshato, inokulindela ukubona intlanganiso ekhawulezayo kunye nomntu ongeyena mfokazi kwaye uqale ulwalamano lomtshato.
- Abafazi baphupha malunga nomtshakazi ongaqhelekanga kwisambatho somtshato kubonisa ukuba lowo uphuphayo akafuni ukubeka iimvakalelo zakhe kwimbonakalo kwaye ukhetha ukufihla imizwa. Kwaye oku kuchanekile, kuba kwiincwadi ezininzi zokuphupha umtshato omhlophe umzobo awufaneli nje ukucoceka kodwa kunye neengcambu zeentshaba ezifihliweyo kunye nabantu abanobukhwele, kwaye kuphela ukugcinwa kweenjongo zabo ngasese kunokuqinisekisa ukungabikho kweengxaki.
