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Njengawo nawuphi na umzekelo, imbono yokuqala, ingcamango, ibalulekile apha. Xa uthetha ngomfanekiso omtsha, awuyikucinga nje ngeengubo ezitsha, iinwele kunye nokwenza. Simele siphathise oku njengokwakha umlinganiswa omtsha, cinga ngezenzo ezinokwenzeka, iimpendulo, imilinganiselo, umlinganisi, isimo sengqondo ebomini. Lo msebenzi onzima, ongenakubekezela. Unokwenza ufikeleleke kude kube yilapho zonke iingqungqele zinyamalale, deze umfanekiso omtsha unqabe ukucima nokuxubha. Xa uziva uvumelene ngokupheleleyo kunye nobuntu obunjiweyo, umsebenzi unokuqwalaselwa upheleleyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba lo mntu omtsha akayena nje enye imaski. Kumele kube ngumntu ophilayo, uqobo, oguquguqukayo, onokukwazi ukuphuhliswa, kwaye akayikukhusela kwiinkqubo kunye noloyiko.
Ukubonakalisa.
Ukusebenzisa umzekelo omtsha akulula, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuhle kangakanani. Ekugqibeleni - isitshixo esidala asikhawulezi ukuba sinike izikhundla. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukukwazi ukubona ihlabathi ngendlela entsha, ukujonga ngokwakho ngamehlo amatsha.
Zibukele ukusuka ngaphandle kwindawo eqhelekileyo. Ufanelekile kangakanani kumfanekiso osele ucinga ngcamango? Ukuba kukho into ebonakala ingaphelelanga, ukuba akukho ukuvumelanisa ngokwaneleyo, kuya kufuneka uzame. Qala ukulungiswa kwendawo yendawo entsha. Udongxongo lweofisi oludangalisayo lunokubhenyiswa ngumbonakalo oqaqambileyo okanye umfanekiso oqinileyo, kuxhomekeke kukuphi uhlobo lwezinto ezikhethiweyo zobuntu bakho obutsha.
Kubalulekile kwaye ekhaya ukwenza i-intérieure eyakukulandela i-2.0, ingashiyi nto yomntu wangaphambili. Oko sikubona yonke imihla, indawo esichitha ngayo ininzi yosuku, ngokuqinisekileyo iyasichaphazela. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphefumula ubomi obutsha ngaphakathi, ukufaka iimpawu ezintsha kunye nokuthanda.
Ukongezelela, ubuninzi bezinto ezikujikelezayo, kuya kunceda abanye babone utshintsho kuwe kwaye bafunde ukuxela iindlela ezintsha.
Ayikho umdlalo, kodwa inyaniso.
Ekuqaleni unjalo umsebenzi uya kubonakala ngathi ngumdlalo ongcolileyo. Kodwa ukuze umntu omtsha aphile kwaye abe yinyani, akudingeki ukuba adlale, kufuneka ufumane. Iminqweno yakho yangaphambili kunye nokuthandayo kuye kwathinteka ngandlela-thile ubomi, ngoku yisikhathi sokukhulula iimvakalelo ezintsha ngokuthanda. Zibonise intsha kuyo yonke into, ungabi neentloni: emsebenzini, ekhaya, eholide kunye nawe wedwa.
Ungazami ukutshintsha ngokupheleleyo, ukuba konke onokukwenza ukutshintsha ukubonakala kwaye wenze ukulungiswa kwindlu. Xa uzama ukuba ngumnye umntu, kufuneka ube nguye, kwaye ungabonakali, kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko uya kuziva utyhafile.
Ngokungekho mfuneko yokuba ukopishe umntu, kungcono ukudala umfanekiso oqokelelweyo, ukuthatha okubalulekileyo kulabo bantu kunye nabalinganiswa onokubaluleka njengaloo mbeko.
Abantu bahlala becinga ngento yokuba ubuntu obusisiseko bunzima. Ukuchaphazela izikhalazo ezidlulileyo, ukungaphumeleli, izenzo ezingalunganga, indlela yokucinga kunye neembono, eziphazamisa kuphela ukonwaba. Kwaye emva koko, asinamntu osondelene nathi, simele sibe ngabancedisi abathembekileyo kunathi. Ngako oko, kuyimangalisa ukuba abaninzi bahlala, bafumana ukungathandeki ngokwenyama, kodwa bangazami ukutshintsha. Lobu bomi abuhle ngo-inertia. Musa ukwesaba utshintsho, cinga ukuba ukuguqula ngezandla zakho kuyinkqubo engavumelekile. Kodwa kukhangeleke ngakumbi kunokuba, umzekelo, utshintsho olungenakukuphepheka phantsi kwefuthe lamava anamandla, awakusoloko emnandi.
Ukongezelela, utshintsho lobuntu - lesi sizathu esihle sokususa imikhwa emibi kunye nokuthambekela, utshintshe uhlobo kunye nesimo sengqondo kubomi kunye nabathandekayo. Kungenzeka ukuba ukufakelwa kokufakelwa komfanekiso omtsha kuyakuba ngumqalo wobomi obonwabileyo. Kukho nawuphi na, kubalulekile ukuba umngcipheko, ngenxa yokuba unokutshintsha ixesha elingenammiselo, ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntu omdala ekugqibeleni ulahlekelwe ukubaluleka kwayo.