Sonke sichazwa ngamaxesha okungabaza, "imivalo emnyama" okanye intlungu engapheliyo. Kwaye ukuba umntu uyayiqonda intsingiselo yobomi - unomtsalane omkhulu wokuhlala kweli hlabathi ngokukhawuleza. Nentsapho kunye nabahlobo banokuyithintela ubunzima okanye bavuyiswe yonke imini evuyayo.
Kwaye baninzi ngamanye amaxesha bethandana izilwanyana zasekhaya - iinkati neenja, kunye nama-hamsters. Bonke banemihlali, kukho imfihlelo (okanye i-vice versa - ecacileyo kakhulu) ulwazi, kutheni balapha kunye nokuba bangobani.
Izinja zenziwe ukuba zithembeke emhlambini wazo, nokuba ngaba inkokheli yepakethi yindoda. Iikati zonwabela ubomi , kwaye "isithsaba semvelo" siyakuvuyela ukukhonza ezi zigubungela zeboya. Khangela ukuba ukwaneliseka kangakanani nehlabathi lezilwanyana. Ngona xa begula, bahlala bodwa kwaye abazi ukuhlushwa ngokuziphatha.
Amakati akathandabuzeki ukuba amakati. Abantu banzima kakhulu.
Isethi yeendima zentlalo ihlukeneyo kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha siyaqiniseka ukuba singabesifazane. Ngaba ufuna ukubheja? Ngoko, okokuqala, khumbula isenzo sakho sokugqibela "esingengomsebenzi". Indlela osebenze ngayo kude kube sekupheleni kwebusuku okanye usindiswe umntu obenamandla ngakumbi kunakho. Cinga ngalabo baye bafumana isigwebo esibi-ukungabikho.
Nasiphi na isizathu esinokubangela intlekele okanye ubuncinane ukungathandabuzeki ukuba khona kwentsingiselo yobukho balo kweli hlabathi. Kwaye ukuba umntu uye waqonda intsingiselo yobomi okanye ubuncinane wayilungisela yona, kuba lula ukuhlala. Inkwenkwezi ekhokelayo ibonakala, ekhanya endaweni ethile ephakamileyo, kwaye ikhokelela kuyo ngokwabo ubusuku obumnyama. Kodwa esibhakabhakeni sasebusuku, nanjalo, kukho amafu, amafu angayimisa ...
Kungenxa yoko, ngokukhawuleza ukukhangela intsingiselo yobomi, umntu makayilumkele. Kwaye ngenxa yezizathu "eziphambili", iingcali zengqondo zanamhlanje zithi ukukhangela "intsingiselo yobomi" ngokwabo kuyisimboli esinzima kakhulu. Ewe, yintoni na, ndixelele, ngaba kunokuba nenjongo yokugqibela yobomi babantu?
- Ukuzala abantwana, ukutyala imithi, ukwakha izindlu?
- Yenza into ebalulekileyo, eqinisekisiwe ukuba ilityelwe kwizizukulwana ezimbalwa (okanye - amawaka eminyaka)?
Kwaye wonke umntu oqonda intsingiselo yobomi uyazikhethela. Ngaba ukhululekile okanye unqwenela ukuba aphile, indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane. Yonke into ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni, ukusuka kwizinto ezingabalulekanga kakhulu kwiiprojekthi zehlabathi, eziphantsi kwayo intsingiselo yobomi, isithsaba sobomi babantu.
Misela oko kuza kuba "isithsaba sendalo"
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ebomini ufuna izinto ezahlukeneyo. Thina ngathi sihamba ezintabeni ezimbini kanye-okanye kwezinye iintaba. Enye indlela inokufumaneka kwi-genius okanye ubuncinane abantu abanetalente. Ngaba uGeorge Sand wayengabhala? Mhlawumbi. Ngaba wayeyibhala intsingiselo yobomi? Ngaphandle. Oku akunakukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa intsingiselo nenjongo yobomi ihluke.
Injongo yobomi isiseko sesinambitheka esithandayo. Okokuqala, inqaku "elingentla" lihlangene-ulutsha lwethu kunye nethemba kunye neenjongo zalo. Emva koko- "inqaku lentliziyo" , uthando lwethu, intsapho. Abantwana bakhula kwaye baphawule kude nendlu. Amadoda ahlala ngaphantsi kwabesetyhini, kwaye eli lihlandlo lokubonisa.
Kwaye ukugqithisela kobomi bonke, inqaku eliyisiseko, eliphantsi kwayo yonke into, liba yintsingiselo yobomi. Ukutya kwayo. Ngokuvisisana kwayo. Yakhe ingoma.
Kwaye ke kuphela, kwimbono yeentaka, emva kweeminyaka nemida, ekujonge konke okwenzekile, umntu unokuthi umntu uye waqonda intsingiselo yobomi. Ayayixabisekanga ngento ebonakalayo, eyona yintliziyo (ewe, izitena ezinokhathalela phezu kophahla zisilindele imihla ngemihla). Kwaye ndayiqonda ingcamango yakhe xa zonke izixhobo ezikule ngoma zidlala indima yayo.
Kwaye singakwazi ukuhamba ngokuphumayo, sidideke ngomsindo esiwuveleyo-ingoma engavumelaniyo kunye nobomi bethu. Inceba kuphela kukuba ayiyi kuqonda ngokupheleleyo kuze kube emva kwekhonsathi, kungekhona ekuqaleni kwayo ...