Kwiintengiso zentlalo kwi-TV nasemaphephandabeni, oko kuthiwa "uncedo lwezengxaki zengqondo zengxamiseko", "i-hotlines" zikhankanywe rhoqo. Umsebenzi wabo kukunceda abo baziva bephoqelelwe kwiimeko, apho kubonakala ngathi akukho ndlela yokuphuma. Kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokuyifaka umphefumlo wakhe, uthetha kwaye wenze ngokungaziwayo. Yintoni na? Ngaba "uncedo lwamafowuni" olusebenzayo, okanye akukho ndawo yokukhalela uncedo?
Ngubani okuyimfuneko?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukusetyenziswa okubalulekileyo kweso sixhobo akukuphela nje ukuthulula umphefumlo wakho, kuthetha kwaye wenze ngokucacileyo, kodwa ukususa imeko yoxinzelelo olubi. Xa umntu ethatha isigqibo sokuba aphile okanye afe, loo fowuni isondele.
Kwezinye iimeko, asiqapheli ukuba "siziqhubela" njani kwingxaki, siyiqhube. Ngexesha elithile, akukho mandla okwaneleyo nokuziphatha okomoya okwenza omnye akhuphe aze aphume ebumnyameni. Kungenxa yeemeko ezinjalo ezibizwa ngokuba zixhobo zoncedo zenziwe.
Omnye umbuzo kukuba ngaba abapashi be-dispatchers (ngokuthathwa - iingcali zeengqondo zengcali) banokunceda umnxebi . Emva koko, akafunanga nje ukuthululela umphefumlo wakhe, uthetha kwaye wenze ngokucacileyo ukuba ufuna - uncedo olufanelekileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kumntu omnye okanye ngamagama amabini omntu othabatha ukubizwa ngokuzibulala (ukuba ubiza umnxeba u-spade) kuya kuxhomekeka, ngaba umntu uya kuhlala, okanye ayikho. Umsebenzi onzima, onzima. Olu hlobo lokuhamba ngasemaphethelweni, ngasentla. Kancinane - kunye nendoda iya kuwa. Kwaye kufuneka uvelane naye ngexesha elifanayo, kwaye ukhawule ngokukhawuleza ukuze athole amandla okuphila, ukulwa, ukujamelana.
Ubukho beenkonzo ezinjalo zentlalo bubungqina bentlalo yelizwe kunye nokukhathazeka ngokwaneleyo ngabantu.
Imbali ye "hotlines"
Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu omdala uhlala kuye. Abalingani emsebenzini baxoxe ngokutsha ngoluhlu olutsha kwaye bavuyise iinkcukacha zabo iingxaki zabahlobo babo. Izihlobo zithatha ukufundisa, ukulawula, nokungazicaluli kwiimeko kwaye zincede. Iingcamango zabantu zingakhokelela kakhulu-ngakumbi xa yena yedwa kunye naye ngokuphindaphindiweyo "imiqulu" yakhe imeko.
Kubonakala ukuba kwakukho umbingeleli omnye eNew York, uHarry Warren, owayengumntu wokuqala ukucinga ngokunika abantu ithuba lokuba athulule umphefumlo wakhe, ukuba athethe kwaye akwenze ngokungaziwayo. Wavuswa ebusuku ngefowuni - umntu ongaphandle wacela ukuba abe nentlanganiso. Kodwa umfundisi ongumProthestani waphendula ukuba ibandla liyavulwa ekuseni. Ngomso ngengomso umbingeleli wafumanisa ukuba umnxebi wayephelile ubomi bakhe. Umfundisi onqabileyo wamxelela ngokukhawuleza: "Ngaphambi kokugqiba ukufa, ndibize naliphi na ixesha losuku."
Umnxeba "uhlanga oludlulileyo" ludlula kancane - kuphela kwiminyaka ye-50. eNgilani, omnye umfundisi wenza into enjalo.
Iimeko zokuba kukho "intembeko yenkonzo"
Ngoku kukho ezininzi zokutshisa. Njengomthetho, zizodwa - zicebisa ukuthulula umphefumlo womnye kwinombolo enye, ukuthetha kunye nokwenza ngokungaziwayo kubaselula, kwabanye - kwixhoba lobundlobongela, njalonjalo.
Kodwa imigaqo-siseko yobukho "incedisi" ayitshintshi.
Okokuqala, abasebenzi beengcali-boogqirha beengqondo kunye namavolontiya abaye bafumana uqeqesho olunzulu.
Okwesibini, kukho imithetho emininzi:
- ukungaziwa (bobabini umthengi kunye nomcebisi),
- imfihlo yonyango,
- ukunyamezela (ukungabonakali, ukungabikho kokugwetywa),
- ukukwazi ukulawula intetho - inokuphazanyiswa ngabo bobabini umthengi kunye nomcebisi.
Ukhuseleko "lwezoncedisi"
Ukwenza ifowuni engaziwa kuyimfuneko. Akudingeki ukuba uzibonele, kunye nokudlulisa idatha yakho. Ukulungelelanisa kunye kunye neefowuni. Yaye nenombolo yefowuni, nangona iteknoloji yanamhlanje ye-ID yomnxeba, ayilulwanga. Le mfuneko ayiduduzi kakhulu njengokhuseleko.
Umxholo wencoko awuvumelekanga ukuba ibhalwe phantsi nangayiphi na indlela okanye ukuthumela ulwazi kumntu wesithathu - kwaneminyaka yobudala okanye uluhlu lweengxaki ezixutyushwayo.
Enye yezona zikhundla eziphambili ze "hotline" yinto ethile yokuvumelana, ukunyamezela, ukungabonakali. Umcebisi akanalo ilungelo lokugxeka nokuvavanya kakubi imibono yomthengi. Ngokugqithisileyo, oku sele kwenza ukuba kube lula ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo ngxaki.
Ngubani osebenza kwi "hotline"?
Kulo cinelo, maxa wambi kubonakala izinto ezichasayo ukuphumelela kwezixhobo zokutshisa. Bathi, baphendula ngokungekho nto. Masikhumbule umgaqo apho umxholo wengxoxo awukwazi ukudluliselwa kumaqela esithathu. Kwaye kwangexesha elifanayo sixoxa ngento apha.
Ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuba sikwazi ukuthetha nomnye umntu ohambahamba kwisitimela sombane, i-minibus, ibhasi, kunezihlobo zethu. Ngomntu ozimeleyo onokubonisa (kwaye mhlawumbi uhlale naye) uluvo lwakhe, kulula ukuthetha. Asixhomekeke kuye, kwaye uvela kuthi, naye. Kwaye ukuba umntu ufuna ukugweba ukusebenza "kokuchaneka" kokunxibelelana engaziwa-okokuqala makabe ezama ukuchaza ukuchaneka kokukhulelwa kwaye zama ukuphawula malunga nento eyenzekayo phakathi kwesibini esibonisa uthando.
Ngubani owaziyo ukuba yintoni into enokuyenza ibe "intambo" kwingxoxo phakathi ezimbini - umcebisi kwaye enganeliseki ngobomi bomntu? Oku kwaziwa ngabani na bathathi-nxaxheba kwingxoxo, makungabikho ngaphandle kwabangaboni. Ngoko, ukuzama ukuphazamisa le nkqubo akunakuncedo kwaye ayinanto.
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