Isihluthulelo sikhokelela ekuthobeleni kwaye sidonsa abangathobeliyo

Ingozi yimbonakaliso yexesha elizayo. Yiyo kuphela into enokwenzeka, okokuqala, indlela esiyijonga ngayo isiganeko esi sizathu. Kukho umzekeliso onjalo: Ixesha elizayo likhokelela ekuthobeleni kwaye ludonsa abangathobeliyo. Oku ku malunga nathi ngamnye. Ukhetho olunomdla aluyikuphela nje ubomi bethu, kodwa nexabiso lethu. Oku ngaphambi kokuba umfazi abelethe abantwana, yenza yonke imisebenzi ejikeleze indlu kwaye ungacingi malunga nesiphelo sabo. Owesifazane "ekhaya" akazange ahlonishwe ngendlela efanayo ne "nedomashnuyu." Ucwaningo, inzululwazi, "ukubeka impahla eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka." Umsebenzi, umsebenzi, "jikelele kwi-skirt." Ngokuphathelele umsebenzi wempi okanye wezopolitiko kwaye kwakungadingeki ukuba uthethe. Ngoku ngenxa yeziganeko ezithandekayo, sifuna amehlo kunye namehlo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenza okungaqhelekanga okuza kwenza ukuba siza kwenza ntoni kwiminyaka emashumi ezayo, ziziphi iinkolelo esiza kuzikhusela.

Ngoko, umzekelo, ukungahambi kakuhle kwandikhokelela kwi-freelancing. Akunanto yinto abayithetha ngayo ngexesha elizayo: bayakhokelela abaphulaphuleyo baze badibanise abo bangathobeliyo. Ukuba kukho utshintsho ebomini bakho -ngenise, okanye "kukudonsa". Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba simele sivumelane neentlanga. Njengomthetho, yintoni isigqibo sethu esincinane, esincinci ngakumbi kunezinto ngoku.

Isithintelo esincinci - kwaye kuya kuwe ukugqiba, uqokelele amandla kwaye "gxuma", okanye uhlale apho ukhona.

Kuthekani ukuba umsebenzi wam ozithandayo awuyi kuzisa imali? Ukumisa nokulinda "isimo sezulu elwandle", ukukhalaza ngabahlobo abacebileyo kunye nezihlobo ezifumana kunzima ukufumana uxhulumaniso olufanelekileyo? Amava am aphakamisa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukuthembela kwihlabathi kwaye uqaphele amathuba anika.

Iingcali zincinci yintlanzi. Oku kubi ngaphezu kwenqama yenkomo. Isilwanyana, ubuncinane, sinomsebenzi, esinikezelwe yendalo, esiya kuzaliseka ngandlela-thile. Kwaye umntu unzima kakhulu.

Umsebenzi "oqhelekileyo" wesifazana ukutshata ngempumelelo, iyunivesiti (kuba ngamadoda, ngokuqinisekileyo, inhlonipho encinane, kodwa unokufumana umhlolokazi ocebileyo) akuyona indlela engcono yokuphuma. Kuquka ukuzithemba, ukunciphisa ngamabomu ibha yokufuna.

Njengomcebisi osemncinci, ndingathembela kumvuzo we-100 bucks ngenyanga. Kwakhona wayesazi, ukuba umhlobo wam ukukhanya kwenyanga "kwindawo ethile apho, kwi-Intanethi". Ndaya kwi-exchangeet ye-freelance eyayidala kwi-runet, ndakhangela, ayizange ndiyiqonde into kwaye ndaphuma.

Emva koko kwenzeka into yokuba ndibiza "ithuba elihle". Xa ndacinga malunga nokuba ndiza kuhamba emva kokugqitywa komsebenzi onyanzelekile kwindlu yokushicilela, ndabeka ii-questionnaires kwaye ndaphendula ngokukhawuleza izithuba. Kwaye-ngommangaliso! - ba ndibize kwaye bamema ukuba ndlebe nodliwano-ndlebe. Ukugqiba ukuba loo nto ayiyikuhlekisa, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba uyakhokelela ekuthobeleni, kodwa udibana nabangathobeliyo, ndilungele ngomoya kwaye ndaya kuxoxwa nodliwano-ndlebe.

Ngenxa yoko, uvavanyo lwolwazi lwam nolwazi lwaluqhutywa yintombazana yaseyunivesithi, kodwa iminyaka engama-2 emncinci. Kwakubuhlungu ngaphantsi kwebhanti, kodwa ndandinyamezela ndazibonakalisa ndingumntu ontle. Ngenxa yoko, ndichitha inyanga ndisebenza i-bucks eziyi-100, kwaye iveki kunye nesiqingatha zisebenzela i-magazine egxile, ifumana kathathu ngaphezulu.

Emva koko ndacinga malunga nokusebenza komsebenzi wam. Oku "kuqinisekisa" kwindawo ephambili yomsebenzi yintlanethi. Azikho zona ngokwenene. Kwaye ukuba umntu oza efuna ukwenza umsebenzi ofanayo, kodwa othe wancinci kunokuba ndiyenze-ndiya kufuneka 'ndiqhubele phambili.' Ukongezelela, kukho igama elinjalo - iBDB. Ngokuqhelekileyo ugula olude. Azingagcinwa emsebenzini, atshabalale ithuba lokuqala. Kwaye kukho amathuba-kuya kuba nomnqweno.

Isiqinisekiso esisodwa sokuba wonke umntu unezandla zakhe nentloko yakhe. Kwaye, ukuphela, njengoko uyaziyo, kukhokelela ekuthobeleni kwaye udibana nabangathobeliyo. Ngoko ke, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima izithintelo, apho kulula khona ukuba "gxuma" kunokuba, I-Fate, dragha kunye nabo ngokudonsela ...

Sisiphi isigqibo esinokubanjwa kule bali? Ewe, nantoni na.

Ngokumalunga nesiphumo esifanelekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, ngamanye amaxesha umcimbi omncinci okanye umonakalo ongenakwenzeka wokufumana uwanele ukuba umntu aphule iesile kwi-sofa aze enze into eyiluncedo kuye. Ngokomzekelo, waqala u-freelancing, kwaye akazange agxume kusihlwa phambi kweTV, "ukuphumla" kwimisebenzi yolungisa.

Ewe, ukwazi ukukwazi kwakho kubalulekile, kodwa eqinisweni, ukuzama ukulungelelanisa okulungileyo kwaye kulungile. "Ukwenza isigidimi ngasekupheleni konyaka" kukuphakamileyo. Yaye ufunde indlela yokufumana esinye isiqingatha okanye amaxesha aphindwe kabini, zinike iingubo zobomvu, umatshini wokuhlamba, okanye ufumane umthengi kwi-spa iminyaka. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ezi "zinto ezincinci" ezingenakuba ngaphandle kwemizamo yakho.

Mhlawumbi, esi sisigqibo esisisigxina. Kwaye bekungeze kubekho iphupha elikhulu lokwenza iiwebhusayithi ezininzi, zizuze, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngabaxhasi, ukuba kwakungekho msebenzi wokuqala ...

Ingakanani ebomini kuxhomekeke ekuthobeleni i-destiny yakho, nokuba yincinci - ukunyamezela ekunqobeni izithintelo zekhonkrithi!