Abafazi bamadoda amakhulu

Ingakanani imbali iyazi izibonelo zenkalipho yokwenene, imodeli efanelekileyo yokuxelisa izigidi, umgangatho wobungqina bamntu, isibindi nokuzimisela okubonakalayo kweli hlabathi?

Kodwa ke abantu abancinci beNapoleon abanamandla, ubuchule obubi bembali ye-Adolf Hitler okanye i-antipode yakhe, u-Oswald Schindler, bayazi amandla okufihla kwalaba balwi ngeengcamango zabo. Kodwa emva kwamadoda onke, akhazimuliswa ngeenkulungwane ngeentshukumo zakhe, wema - uthando lobomi bakhe, umnyuzi, umgcini weemfihlelo zakhe kunye nomfazi onomdla - umfazi omkhulu wendoda enkulu.

Uthando ngumthombo wokuphefumlelwa kumdali.

Enye yeendaba ezithintekayo kakhulu zothando, iqhawe lalo livusa ukwesaba ezintliziyweni zabamkeli bakhe, kwaye i heroine ingomnye wabafazi abambalwa bamadoda amakhulu, abangafihliwe ngumthunzi wabakhethiweyo abanetalente. USalvador Dali kunye nomfazi wakhe ongekekile uGala. Ukuxhamla, ukuqhayisa, ukubonakalisa kunye nesigulane, - iminyaka engama-53 wayigungqa inkosi yakhe ngononophelo kwaye ingqalelo. Nangona i-age difference (iminyaka eyi-11 ubudala, uDali osemncinane wahlukana neGala ekhulile xa behlanganisene), iimvakalelo zabo zazingqamana kakhulu kangangokuba namhlanje ziyabonakala kwimisebenzi engapheliyo yomculi ophefumlelweyo.

Ibali lekhanuko phakathi kukaSalvador Dali kunye nomncedisi wakhe, amandla akhe kunye nobuthathaka, umphefumleli wakhe ongenasiphako, wawusenzeka. Xa bedibana, uGala wayesele esatshatile. Kodwa oku akuzange kubenqande ukuba bangene kwisenzo esilahlwa ngumntu ngelo xesha kunye nokudibanisa iinjongo zabo kunye nezibophelelo zomtshato wokwenene - ukudibanisa imiphefumlo, iminqweno, iiminqweno kunye neengcamango. UGala akazange azame ukulwa nendima yakhe njengomfazi ongaqhelekanga womdali odumile. Wayengumhlobo wakhe, ummemezeli othembekileyo kunye nomgxeki. Kodwa ukusingqongileyo kwambona nje ngokumhlonela umyeni wakhe, umnqweno wokukhusela umphefumlo wakhe osengozini ekuhlaselweni ezininzi kunye nomnqweno wokumthanda - ukuthanda ngokungenamthetho.

Omnye umdali, umfazi wakhe, ngokungafani neGala, wakhetha ukuhlala esitfini sakhe kwaye angaziwa kuluntu jikelele - ososayensi, ifilosofi, inkosi enkulu yamagama kunye nengcamango, uKarl Marx. Intsapho yakhe yayihlala ebuthathaka, ngenxa yokuguquka rhoqo kwendawo yokuhlala, umfazi wayengenakufumana umsebenzi osisigxina ukuze ahlawule ngandlela-thile ukungahambi kwenzululwazi ephefumlelweyo. UJenny Marks von Westfalen ngumfazi omkhulu ngexesha lonke, kuba kwakungekho ukunyamezela kuphela ukulahlwa, ukulamba, ukugula kwendoda yakhe kunye nokunyamezela kwakhe. Kwakudingeka aphile abantwana bakhe, efa esemncinci kuphela kuba kungekho mali yokunyanga kwabo kwintsapho kaMarx. Kodwa akazange akhuphe: bonke ubomi bakhe, uJenny wanikela umyeni wakhe ukuba angamlahli ukunyaniseka kwakhe kwenene. Wabuyisela kwimisebenzi ebhaliweyo, xa wayexinzelelekile, wayefuna ukutshabalalisa imbangela yobomi bakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha yena ngokwakhe ubhala kwakhona imisebenzi ethile, ukuze ngandlela-thile enze lula umsebenzi wakhe. Yonke imicimbi yezoqoqosho, ukukhangela amathuba okufumana imali kunye nokunyamekela umyeni wakhe kwakunamahlombe athathaka kaJenny. Kwaye wayithwala umthwalo wakhe, ephakamisa intloko kunye nokumomotheka emlonyeni wakhe, eyenzelwe ukuphefumula kwinduduzo yomyeni wakhe, amandla kunye nokholo kwimpumelelo.

U-Queenkazi usezibane ezikhanyayo.

Akuzange kube nomfazi omdala ovumelekile ukuba acinge ngokumshiya umthandi wakhe ngexesha lobunzima. Ngokuchasene noko, kwakukho ngexesha lokunciphisa kunye nentsebenziswano phakathi kwowesifazane kunye nomyeni wakhe omkhulu womelezwa. Ukumomotheka ngokukhawuleza, ngaphaya kweyodwa abantu abasondeleyo kuye babona ingxenyenye yokukhathala kunye nokungabaza kwamakhono abo-loo ntokazi yayingumyeni wayo kungekhona nje umhlobo kunye nomhlobo, kodwa naye ungumgcini weemfihlelo zakhe.

Imizekelo yale mibhinqa yamabhinqa ebalulekileyo iyazi kakhulu. U-Josephine uyinkwenkwezi kaNapoleon, ubuthathaka bakhe kunye nomthombo wamandla akhe, engapheliyo elukholweni lwakhe kwaye ehlala ekhangayo kwimifanekiso yakhe. U-Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon ungomnye wabasetyhini abasetyhini kunye nesigulane kakhulu enkundleni yesiNgesi, unina kaMalekazi waseBrithani omkhulu kunye nomfazi wookumkani abakhulu, okwazi ukubuyisela ukuzingca nokuziqhayisa kwelizwe lakhe. Amakhosikazi ookumkani bawo, i-museums of their kings, iindlovu zabo kunye namaphupha akude awo oomkhulu, aba bafazi bahlale behle. Kwaye kuphela bayazi ukuba zintoni ezisebenzayo ezazisenziwa ukugcina imbonakalo yazo ebomvu ngaphandle kokuphula le nto ibalulekileyo-phakathi kwakhe kunye nabamdumisayo bendoda yakhe. Ephantse okanye ngasemva, kodwa kungekudala, aba bhinqa baxhasa ngobuchule amandla abo amaqhawe abo, babumba uluvo loluntu malunga nesimo sabo kwaye abazange bakhononde malunga nesimo sabo.

Ziyintoni - abafazi bamadoda amakhulu.

Kakade ke, abafazi abathandekayo bamaqhawe embali babethandekayo. Akusoloko ubuhle babo bufaneleke kwisakhelo esaziwayo senkqubo yokuvavanya. I-Gala, umzekelo, ubuhle bobuso kwindlela yokufunda engafaniyo, kodwa ukufezeka kwemilo yomfanekiso wakhe ngaphezu kokuhlawulwa kuzo zonke ezinye iziphoso. Abafazi abanjalo babesimangalisa isigulane. Intombi kaMikhail Bulgakov - umfazi wakhe wokugcina u-Elena, owaba ngumzobo we Margarita odumileyo ovela kwi "Master and Margarita" - wahlala ethembekile kuye emzimbeni nangomphefumlo iminyaka engama-30 emva kokufa komyeni wakhe omkhulu. Kwaye umlingane ka-Aleksandro Omkhulu wamlinda iminyaka engaphezu kwe-7, ngoxa wawayisa amazwe amatsha. Waye walinda kuphela ukubona ukufa kwakhe.

Ukunyamezela, ubuhle, ukukwazi ukuhlala ebantwini, ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka okungekho mfuneko - kuphela inxalenye encinci yamabhinqa amadoda amakhulu. Babenobulumko ngaphezu kweminyaka. Ngokwezinye iimithombo zembali. Uninzi lweengcamango ezintle zikaCharles de Gaulle ekuphuhlisweni kweendlela zakhe ezidumileyo zempi zazingumfazi wakhe ongathuli. Abafazi bamadoda abaye bakwazi ukuqhubela phambili amagama abo kwimbali yomhlaba wonke, bakwazi ukufumana indlela abayeni babo. Bayazi xa kwakufuneka ukuba bahlale bodwa, kwaye xa-bafuna ukuxhaswa kwabasetyhini kuphela.

Phantse onke amadoda amakhulu ekunyanisekeni kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini awazange agcine. Kwaye abakhethiweyo babo abazange bahlale bengumzimba ozinikele kuphela kumyeni omnye. UGala, ngokukhethekileyo, sele esele watshata noDali, akazange afihle intando yakhe eninzi evela kumyeni wakhe. Yaye akazange abagwebe. Kucetyiswa, ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane obunyanisekileyo buvulekile, buvulekile. Kodwa ukunyaniseka kwenyaniso-ukunyaniseka kwemiphefumlo-bekuhlala kusekhona phakathi kwamadoda amakhulu kunye nabasetyhini babo abangenasiphelo. Ikhono labafazi ukuxolela abayeni babo phantse bonke bafumana ukubonga okukhulu entliziyweni yomntu omkhulu. Ngamagama abakhethiweyo babo, babulala empini, esibhedlele esibhedlele, emngceleni wendlu okanye kwisihlwele sabantu abathandayo. Hayi, imifanekiso yala mabhinqa amangalisayo kwimbali ayizange igcinwe, kodwa unokubona ukubonakala kwazo ngokoqobo kwiintlobo zamadoda abo.