Inzondelelo izalwe kwi-subconscious yethu, iqala ngokukhawuleza kwaye amandla ayo, ngokusisiseko, kuxhomekeke kwiimvakalelo esizivakalelwa ngayo into yokukhanga. Ukuba lo luhlobo oluthandayo, ngoko umona ungaba nesimo esifanayo sonke. Nangona iinguqu zinokuba zininzi, kuba akusiyo sonke esilinganayo, kwaye iimvakalelo zethu zihlukile. Kukho amantombazana enomona ngokwenene bonke abafana: abo balungile kuye; abo babesandithanda; abo bathanda nje ngoku; kunye nabo bababona ngabahlobo bokwenene. Oku kubizwa - ukunyuka kwengqondo yobunini, kwaye, mhlawumbi, kubonakala kuninzi yamantombazana. Kwaye kukho amanye amantombazana angaba nomona nonke. Baye bathembela ngokupheleleyo amadoda abo, okanye bazithembele baze bazikholise kwaye bakholelwa ukuba akukho mntu uya kuwatshintshela omnye. Kwakhona, ngokusemgangathweni, akubi. Ekubeni umona - unokwenene okunene, unokutshabalalisa loo mvakalelo eye ishushu iminyaka. Uya kuzidla, azitshise, akushiye ekugqibeleni kwothando lwangaphambili - lusizi, lukhuni luvela emlonyeni kunye ne-soot. Uqala phi umona? Uthando luphela apho!
Kwaye uThixo akavumelekanga, uya kufumana esi sikweni senu into ekuthi, ngombono wakho, iya kubeka ubungqina kumntu wakho ngomnye umfazi-konke oko! Imfazwe inokuvakaliswa evulekile.
Le imfazwe iya kukukhokela kwindawo apho uthando luphela khona. Emva kwakho konke, endaweni yokuvalelwa kwothando, ukufudumala nokunyamekela, uya kuqala ukunika umntu wakho ukucaphuka nokungathembeki, uyayeka ukuziva ulwalamano lwemiphefumlo, eyakhankanywe ngaphambili. Cinga nje: awusabi ukulahlekelwa yinto yonke ekhuliswe ngenyameko iminyaka, ngenxa yomsindo wesikhwele, ngamanye amaxesha ungenasiseko kwaye ungavumelekanga? Sithandeka ukukholelwa kwiimbali eziqulunqwe nguwe-kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo zonke ezi mifanekiso zesikhwele, ezithatyathwe ngcamango yethu, azibandakani nento yokwenene.
Ngubani ongabiza umntu ngomnye ekuseni? Ewe, nabani na - ubuncinane abaphengululi beendaba ezingenasiphelo sokuba ngomso, ngosuku lokuphuma, kuya kufuneka ukuba uye emsebenzini. Umhlobo owaya kwi cafe waza wabuza ukuba amthabise ekhaya. Kutheni indoda ingena kwelinye igumbi? Ewe, ukuze ungasivuli, udinwe ngumhla kwimisebenzi enzima yendlu. I-SMS isiqingatha sakho sibeka phantsi kwephasiwedi ukwenzela ukuba oogxa be-ofisi bafunde i-correspondence yakho yothando, ukuba, njengokuba soloko, uyalibala ifowuni yefowuni etafileni. "Uxolo!" - cima ngamnye. Mhlawumbi zizathu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha izizathu zinyaniso ziyamangalisa ngokulula kwazo, ngelixa singakholelwa kuzo kwaye sicinga ngezigqibo zethu.
Kwaye le nto ingabonakali ukukwazi ukuzibulala, kufuneka isuswe ngezandla zakho, uchithe amandla amaninzi kunye namandla kule nkqubo. Yaye akubona bonke abambini abanamandla kunye nokuqonda ukunqoba le mqobo, ukunyuka phambili, kwixesha elizayo. Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba uvumele ulwalamano lwakho luqhekeke, cinga: ngaba unesizathu sokuba unomona, okanye ufike nayo yonke into? Ingaba unayo na ubungqina, ubungqina bokuvukela? Ukuba akunjalo-ke ukukhulula iingcamango ezimbi uze uthembele wakho othandekayo, kuba uthando alunyamezeli ukusola nokukhohlisa.
Ngoko gqibo ukuba uthando luphela emva kokuba umona ubhubhise lonke ubushushu bakho. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukuba umvumele, umona, ukuba athathe intliziyo yakho ngokukhululekile?