Xa umona uqala-kukho ukuphela kokuthanda

Amandla okubhubhisa omona ayengaziwa ngokuphulaphula ngamnye wethu. Ngubani na ombiza Ngenye intsasa kwaye kutheni eya kwelinye igumbi? Kutheni ufuna ukususa yonke iifowuni kunye ne-SMS? Kutheni ubeka iphasiwedi kumaphepha akho kwi computer? Ewe, wayenemfihlelo, kwaye iimfihlelo-kuthetha, inkosikazi! Oku, ekubonweni kokuqala, ikhonkco enengqiqo inamathuba amaninzi kunye neengxabano kunye neengxabano kwiindawo zokuhlala zothando. Kodwa ngaba yinyani ukuba bathi xa umona uqala, uthando luphela apho? Masizame ukuqaphela oku.

Inzondelelo izalwe kwi-subconscious yethu, iqala ngokukhawuleza kwaye amandla ayo, ngokusisiseko, kuxhomekeke kwiimvakalelo esizivakalelwa ngayo into yokukhanga. Ukuba lo luhlobo oluthandayo, ngoko umona ungaba nesimo esifanayo sonke. Nangona iinguqu zinokuba zininzi, kuba akusiyo sonke esilinganayo, kwaye iimvakalelo zethu zihlukile. Kukho amantombazana enomona ngokwenene bonke abafana: abo balungile kuye; abo babesandithanda; abo bathanda nje ngoku; kunye nabo bababona ngabahlobo bokwenene. Oku kubizwa - ukunyuka kwengqondo yobunini, kwaye, mhlawumbi, kubonakala kuninzi yamantombazana. Kwaye kukho amanye amantombazana angaba nomona nonke. Baye bathembela ngokupheleleyo amadoda abo, okanye bazithembele baze bazikholise kwaye bakholelwa ukuba akukho mntu uya kuwatshintshela omnye. Kwakhona, ngokusemgangathweni, akubi. Ekubeni umona - unokwenene okunene, unokutshabalalisa loo mvakalelo eye ishushu iminyaka. Uya kuzidla, azitshise, akushiye ekugqibeleni kwothando lwangaphambili - lusizi, lukhuni luvela emlonyeni kunye ne-soot. Uqala phi umona? Uthando luphela apho!

Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Inyani kukuba umona uyingqayizivele ukukhupha ngaphakathi. Kubonakala ngathi imeko yaxoxwa ngayo, intanda ethandekayo yonke into. Imeko kwaye yabonisa ukuba ndiyinyaniso kuwe. Kodwa iimbumba zokungabaza zihleli, kuya kuphucula umphefumlo wakho ixesha elide, ngakumbi ukuba ungokoqobo ukuzondla. Kwaye ke ngaphakathi kwakho kuqala ingxabano ekhula, njengebhola lebhola. Ulahlekelwa yithemba kumntu oyintanda kwaye uqale ukummangalisa konke. Gcina nganye amehlo akhe, uphonse kwicala lenu, kwaye nilumke ngokukrakra kwinto yokuba idlulileyo elidlulileyo lentombi kunye nemilenze inhle kunawe, kwaye isifuba sikhulu. Kwaye ngokubanzi liphupha lendoda, kunye neqabane lakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kungekudala emva koko le meko iya kuqala ukucaphukisa umphefumlo wakho. Emva koko, le ntombazana iya kuthi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, iqinisekise ukulawula ngokupheleleyo apho ikhona khona, kwaye umnxeba kunye neenyawo zakhe ziya kufakwa kwindawo yakhe. Kodwa akubona bonke abantu abakwazi ukujongana nale nto ngokuqhelekileyo.

Kwaye uThixo akavumelekanga, uya kufumana esi sikweni senu into ekuthi, ngombono wakho, iya kubeka ubungqina kumntu wakho ngomnye umfazi-konke oko! Imfazwe inokuvakaliswa evulekile.

Le imfazwe iya kukukhokela kwindawo apho uthando luphela khona. Emva kwakho konke, endaweni yokuvalelwa kwothando, ukufudumala nokunyamekela, uya kuqala ukunika umntu wakho ukucaphuka nokungathembeki, uyayeka ukuziva ulwalamano lwemiphefumlo, eyakhankanywe ngaphambili. Cinga nje: awusabi ukulahlekelwa yinto yonke ekhuliswe ngenyameko iminyaka, ngenxa yomsindo wesikhwele, ngamanye amaxesha ungenasiseko kwaye ungavumelekanga? Sithandeka ukukholelwa kwiimbali eziqulunqwe nguwe-kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo zonke ezi mifanekiso zesikhwele, ezithatyathwe ngcamango yethu, azibandakani nento yokwenene.

Ngubani ongabiza umntu ngomnye ekuseni? Ewe, nabani na - ubuncinane abaphengululi beendaba ezingenasiphelo sokuba ngomso, ngosuku lokuphuma, kuya kufuneka ukuba uye emsebenzini. Umhlobo owaya kwi cafe waza wabuza ukuba amthabise ekhaya. Kutheni indoda ingena kwelinye igumbi? Ewe, ukuze ungasivuli, udinwe ngumhla kwimisebenzi enzima yendlu. I-SMS isiqingatha sakho sibeka phantsi kwephasiwedi ukwenzela ukuba oogxa be-ofisi bafunde i-correspondence yakho yothando, ukuba, njengokuba soloko, uyalibala ifowuni yefowuni etafileni. "Uxolo!" - cima ngamnye. Mhlawumbi zizathu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha izizathu zinyaniso ziyamangalisa ngokulula kwazo, ngelixa singakholelwa kuzo kwaye sicinga ngezigqibo zethu.

Ewe, uyazi ukuba amadoda akho angcono - kwaye akwazi ukwahlula ubuxoki inyaniso. Ukholelwa ngokusicatshulwa isiqingatha sakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakulungele, kodwa ukuba ubone emva kwexesha lokutshatyalaliswa kwexesha elizayo-oku kuyenzeka kakhulu kunokwakho isibini sakho. Iimbambano azizange zihlangane kunye nentsapho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba utsho ugogo nomkhulu, bathi, "abathandekayo baxeliswa - bayagxotha nje." Ewe, akukho zimbini ezifanelekileyo, kwaye wonke umntu ufunga, kodwa nje ukufunga ngokuphindaphindiweyo nothando olungunaphakade kwaye abeke kwiindlela ezintle kakhulu. Kodwa xa kuziwa kumona wonke onomdla - ke oku kungumngcipheko oqaqambileyo oqala kwinqanaba eliyisiseko sobudlelwane - ukuthembela. Ngenxa yokulahlekelwa yithemba, akunakwenzeka ukuba uvuselele ukufudumala okudibeneyo kwaye wanikezela ngokuvisisana, ngaphandle kokuba luthando luba phi

Kwaye le nto ingabonakali ukukwazi ukuzibulala, kufuneka isuswe ngezandla zakho, uchithe amandla amaninzi kunye namandla kule nkqubo. Yaye akubona bonke abambini abanamandla kunye nokuqonda ukunqoba le mqobo, ukunyuka phambili, kwixesha elizayo. Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba uvumele ulwalamano lwakho luqhekeke, cinga: ngaba unesizathu sokuba unomona, okanye ufike nayo yonke into? Ingaba unayo na ubungqina, ubungqina bokuvukela? Ukuba akunjalo-ke ukukhulula iingcamango ezimbi uze uthembele wakho othandekayo, kuba uthando alunyamezeli ukusola nokukhohlisa.

Kodwa ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuthi esinye isiqingatha sitshintshela kuwe, ngoko ishishini lithatha ukujika okuhluke ngokupheleleyo. Nangona kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphuhlisa iziganeko. Umntu olila ngenyameko ubuhlobo, eqonda ukuba abanalo ikamva. Kwaye umntu uxolela ngomonde, kuba uthando lwakhe alupheli, kwaye ngaphandle komthandayo, luya kuba lubi kakhulu. Kodwa, kwakhona, le nkomo kakhulu yokungabaza ihleli. Kodwa ukuba umntu wakho akakunikeli isizathu esithile sokuba nomona - sisenokungcono. Kodwa ukuba kuba ngumkhwa ... Njengoko, mfazi wam, zonke iintetho zam zixolele, ndiyesaba ukulahlekelwa. Emva koko luhlobo luni lothando olukhona-ukuzidela ngokupheleleyo, okuxutywe nomkhwa.

Ngoko gqibo ukuba uthando luphela emva kokuba umona ubhubhise lonke ubushushu bakho. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukuba umvumele, umona, ukuba athathe intliziyo yakho ngokukhululekile?