Kule meko, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokusombulula le ngxaki, umzekelo, omnye wabo, wenze inoveli ngapha nangapha, kwaye ufumane ukukhohlakeleyo okushiywe kwiintsapho zakho. Kule nqaku, siya kuqwalasela ukuba kuyafaneleka yini ukutshintsha kumyeni wakhe.
Okokuqala, kuya kubakho ukuxoxa ngezinto ezincinci, asiyi kuthintela kwicala lokuziphatha nelokuziphatha kulo mbandela. Kwakhona, asinakuthatyathwa ngexesha elilodwa, utshintsho olungahleliyo (emva kweenkwenkwezi ezimbalwa kwiqela okanye ukuphikisana nokuziphindiselela, kuba kunzima ukuzibiza ngokuzikhethela), siya kuqwalasela ukuba ubudlelwane nomthandi esiya kujonga kwaye angagqithanga omnye okanye ezimbini maxesha.
Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba uphendule umbuzo, nokuba ufanelekile ukutshintsha okanye akunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba yintoni imbangela yokungcatsha, njengoko, njengoko kubhaliwe ngasentla, sicinga ngala ma-infidels oya kuyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isizathu sokunyamekela, zizinto ezilandelayo: umnqweno wokukrazula iingxaki zakho, ukungabi nesondo kwindawo yobomi bentsapho kunye nomyeni wakho, ukungabikho kwengqalelo kunye nokufudumala kumyeni wakhe. Makhe sijonge nganye kwezi zizathu ngokubanzi kwaye uzame ukufumanisa ukuba kuyafuneka yini ukuguqula kuye.
Umnqweno wokukrazula imizwa yakho.
Njengoko siqonda, isiqhamo esinqatshelwe siyancipha. Kwaye kwimeko yokungcatsha, ngokukodwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bekucingwe njani kwaye kucetywayo, kunokuhlala kusengumngcipheko, akukho mntu uphezulu. Zonke ezi ntetho ziyimfihlo, zibiza, iintlanganiso, izindlu ezifihlakeleyo, njl., Konke oku kunokwenza iimbilini zakho zenzeke, kunye nabasetyhini abaninzi banje. Musa ukufumana ulonwabo olungenangqondo, kodwa kunye nesabelo se-adrenaline, ngenxa yokuqonda ukuba wenza isenzo esinqatshelwe, kwaye oku kumluthayo. Kodwa umbuzo wukuthi, nokuba kungenxa yokungabi nantloni ebomini ukutshintsha indoda, kwindlela yam, impendulo iyabonakala - ayifanele. Emva koko, i-adrenaline efanayo iyafumaneka ngezinye iindlela (imidlalo embi kakhulu, umzekelo) kwaye akufuneki ukukopela umyeni wakho kwaye uyitshintshe. Ngexesha elifanayo akusayi kuthatha, kwaye izisongelo kumtshato wakho ziya kuba ngaphantsi.
Ukungabi nobuhlobo obusondeleyo.
Hayi, ah, kungekhona yonke into ebomini obungunaphakade, kwaye ubuchule bomyeni wakho, nokuba kunjalo, buhlungu, kuba, njengoko kwaziwa, ubudlelwane obuhambelana ngokupheleleyo, akukho ukuvumelanisa ebhedini. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko? Kungakhathaliseki ukusilela ukungabi ngesondo ebomini bakho, okanye uzame ukuyigcwalisa. Kule meko, into engasondeli, eyaziwayo, indoda engatshatanga kunye neendawo ezihlukeneyo kunye nefuthe elihle kakhulu lifanelekileyo. Kulo krexu akukho nto ngaphandle kobudlelwane bokwenyama, iintlanganiso zinokuthi zingaphelanga kakuhle, zihlandlo eziliqela ngenyanga, akukho. Ngelo xesha, ulwalamano lwakho nomyeni wakho luya kugcinwa, kwaye ukungabi noluvo lweemvakalelo luhlawulelwa. Ngoko ke lo mzekelo uvumelekile ukukhaphela umyeni wakho.
Kodwa apha simele sigxininise ukuba unokuya kule nyathelo kuphela ukuba awukwazi ukubuyisela ifom yakho yokulwa evamile kumyeni wakho, okanye kufuna ukuba unyango olude (ngoko ngexesha lokunyanga, unokufumana inveli kumacala).
Ukungabi nobuhlobo bokomoya kunye nokuqwalasela.
Njengoko siqonda, yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini, kwaye ukuba uyatshatile, umyeni wakho ungumphathi oqhelekileyo kwaye unokunikela ixesha elingakumbi kuwe, ngoko xa ephakama kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kwaba nzima ngakumbi. Kwale meko, amaninzi amabhinqa afuna ukutshata ngecala, le nto ayinayo intshaba ezinomdla, kodwa zinika ukufudumala ongafumaniyo kwintsapho. Ubuqhetseba ngenxa yesi sizathu, ngombono wam, kuvunyelwe, kodwa olu dlelwane alufanele lugcine ixesha elide, umzekelo, ngesimo sencwadana encinci yokubhuka.
Ukucaphula konke oku ngasentla, sinokugqiba ukuba kwezinye iimeko, utshintsho luvumelekile, kodwa akufanele usebenzise kakubi le nto.