Ewe, lowo ngumfana onyanisekileyo. Ndaya kuwe ngelinye ilanga, ngokunjalo phezu kwembongolo: "Hayi, ndinomnye! Ndiyathemba ukuba awuyiqondi? " Kwaye kulungile ukuba awunayo ipeni enkulu yokupanda apha ngeli xesha, ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukuyenza ngepini yokucoca. Emva kwegama lakho (nangona kungenangqiqo ukuyibiza ngoku "yakho" ... kunokuba - "kunye neyakho"), kungcono ukuba umfana asebenze, ngokukhawuleza kwaye engakhange abuke emva. Yaye uya kupholisa, khumbula ukuba yiyiphi injongo enyanisekileyo uyidinga ipaka yokucima kwaye ucinge ngale meko: ukuba umntu uthi unomnye - njani ukungena kweli, kungekhona, kungekhona imeko elula? Emva kwakho konke, awufuni ukuya emlothweni, ulahlekelwe yimisipha yakho yokugqibela, ugule uze ufe ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yesifo senhliziyo ngenxa yokuba lo mntu, owamnika intliziyo yakho, wayitshintsha kwenye intliziyo. Okanye kwenye inxalenye yomzimba - andazi i nkcukacha, ngoko andiyi kuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa, nakwiphi na indlela ucinga ngayo ukuphendula le meko, ndibona ezimbini kuphela. Eyokuqala kubo ukuqonda. Ndixolele, ndicinga ukuba. Ukufezekisa, kwimfazwe, ngokubanzi - ukulwa kunye nokuba unganiki nawuphi na umntu. Inketho yesibini kukuvumela ukuba uhambe. Ukukhaba, ukukhupha, ukukhangela iso ngenxa yokuhlambalazwa okubangelwayo.
Masiqale sibone oko kuthetha ntoni kuwe? Kwenene? Ngaba oko kuthetha ntoni? Mhlawumbi amakhiwane kunye naye, uyaxolisa ngenxa yokunyaniseka?
Wena, mhlawumbi, ngoku uthi: "UThixo wam, kodwa uyazi konke malunga nam! Umhla wokuzalwa, umbala wee-thongs zam, ifilimu yam intandokazi ... kwaye wandibona kusasa, engenziwanga-kwaye akazange abaleke, uthando! ".. Ewe, ndiyazama ukuzikhusela. Bantwana, ngaba uyazi ngamaphupha akho abucala? Ngaba uyazi ukuba zingaphi iintsana ozifunayo? Kwikhosi, yena, indlela yokuzolalisa iinyembezi, kunye nokubaluleke ngakumbi -ukuthintela njani ukuba kwenzeke? Ngaba wayazi wena nabazali bakhe? Uyazi, zikhona iinkcukacha zezigidi kwihlabathi, ezibangelwa ngumfanekiso wenene lonwabo. Cinga nje: ngaba wakunikela ezi zinto ezincinane zothando kunye nokufudumala?
Ekugqibeleni, ukungcatsha, nantoni, malunga nento ethi. Ngokuchanekileyo, uthetha kakhulu. Into ephosakeleyo kuwe ngobuhlobo, into ayisebenziyo, ayiyikukhula kunye. Mhlawumbi ude umkhathele-kwaye ufumene enye inkanuko. Emva kwakho konke, amadoda abaluleke kakhulu ukuba bazive njengabanqobi, abaxhamlayo, bahlale behlala ekuzingeleni nasekufuneni umdlalo, umbingelelo. Mhlawumbi indoda yakho injalo nje? Umgijimini ongunaphakade, omoya kunye nomoya ongeyena, kwaye ubengokubamba nje ngokulandelayo? Ewe, andiyithandi izinto ezintle, kodwa ubomi bethu abukotshani ushukela, bathululelwa ngendlela ye-cockerel.
Ngoko ke, ukuba ucinga ngako, ufikile kwisigqibo sokuba, empeleni, ubudlelwane bakho kunye namaqanda oyidlayo akufanelekanga - ngoko umbiza ngokucacileyo kwaye umxelele ukuba ukususela kwangoku ufana nomoya okhululekile kwaye ukhululekile ukuhamba kwaye usasaze onke amanqatha aphikisayo . Yenza kakuhle kwaye uziqhenyce, nangona ikati itshaya emphefumlweni. Kwaye baqhekeza nayiphi na imeko, nangona i-cold blood-sounded ingqiqo isilumkisa ukuba singasebenzisi imali ngakumbi kumntu. Umkhwa uyinto enamandla.
Ngoku masithethe ngolu hlobo: ukuba umntu uthi unomhlobo - kufuneka ndiyenze ntoni ukuba uyamthanda ngempela? Ewe, yindlela ongenakukucinga ngayo ubomi ngaphandle kwayo. Uyabona ukuba akukho nto engaphezu kokushiya ngaphandle kwakhe, evuka ebhedeni elibandayo kwaye wenze ikhofi kusasa kuphela. Kwaye akunjalo umkhwa, hayi, uyayithanda ngokwenene. Yintoni enokuyenza ukuba kule ngcaciso entsha malunga nobomi bakhe bomntu, ingentliziyo yakho ilungele ukugqitywa?
Ngoko, ndixelele, wakubonakala njani kuwe ngexesha lakuxelela yona ngenye? Ngaba wayecaphukile, ecindezelekile okanye, mhlawumbi, uyonwabile? Oku kuya kulungelelanisa ulwalathiso lwezenzo zakho. Mhlawumbi, oko, enye-nje yinto yokuhlala yodwa, i-hobby yeyure enye phantsi kwebhokisi ye-vodka emva kokuxabana kwakho okukhulu? Mhlawumbi uguquke ngokwenene, uzive enetyala elikhulu kwaye ufuna ufuna ukuxolelwa. Kuye kuwe ukugqiba ukuba ngaba unokufumana amandla okudibanisa kunye nokungcatsha. Emva kwayo yonke into, kunzima-inkumbulo enengqondo, inokuyicima kakhulu, kodwa iya kushiya ngonaphakade yonke i-acrid kwaye ibuhlungu. Kwaye kukhokelela, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Uyazi, esihogweni ubomi bakho buya kuvela phi, ingakumbi ukuba unqwenela ukucinga? Ngoko waya emsebenzini, kwaye sele sele unemiqondo enemibala malunga nokuba udibana njani na ngoku ngokubhaliweyo unobhala ongciniweyo kwi-skirt emfutshane kunye ne-blouse ene-neckcline. Kwaye ngoku akakwazanga ukummelana naye, kwaye ... u-brr, yintoni into enyanyekayo, kutheni ucinga ngako konke oku? Uyayiqonda kwaye uxolele? Okanye kungenjalo ..? Ngokubanzi, ulwalathiso lwengcinga yam uyayiqonda: kunzima ukulibala ukukrexeza, kwaye ungamlandeli i-paranoia rhoqo malunga nokungcatsha kwamadoda akhe. Ngaphezu koko, izazi-ntsapho kunye nezocansi zithi abo bantu babesoloko beza kumngcatsha, ngubani na owabahamba nabo ngenxa yokuqonda okunjalo kwaye akuyiyo inxalenye engqubanayo, babuye babuyele ekusebenziseni kwabo. Ngenxa yokuba bathemba ngokupheleleyo ukungathobeli kwabo kunye nelokuba abafazi abanako ukuhlala ngaphandle kwabo.
Ewe, owokugqibela eluhlu lwam uluhlu lwentengiso kwiimeko apho ufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho linomntu - lo ngumzabalazo wamalungelo omntu oyedwa. Okukugqibela kuba, mna, inketho engafanelekanga. Nangona ndiyazi ntoni ngobudlelwane kunye nothando?
Ngoko, unakho ukukhuphisana nentombazana kuyo yonke into, ukuze umntu wakho aqonde ukuphakama kwakho phezu kwakhe. Zizinakekele ngokukhawuleza, zikhokele i-marathas, ubuyekeze i-wardrobe, uye kwiiklasi zokutya. Zenzele amaqabane ambalwa ayeza kukuhambisa ekungeneni kwezimbali ze-roses ebomvu, nangaphambi kwekhwenkwe yakho. Kwaye ke ubuza kuye kwaye ngoko, ngengozi, yayiza kuphosa ngokungaqhelekanga: "Uyazi, ndithandekile, kodwa ke ndinomnye. Kwaye kwaneyesithathu, ngoko sisekubalweni! ". Ngaba unokucinga ukuba uluhlobo luni lomsindo nomona onokuphakamisa ngezenzo zakho? Enyanisweni, kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli. Nangona kunjalo le ndoda ejongene namibini kufuneka ibone ukuba usenomsebenzi ongeyomdla kunye nabalandeli. Emva koko, ukuba uyakuxabisa kwaye uyakuxabisa, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqonda impazamo yakhe kwaye aqhubekele kuwe emadolweni kunye nemifuno emazinyo akhe. Ungaphendulela impumlo yakho encinci ukuba uqinisekile ukuba oku kuya kunika ukushisa komnqweno wakhe wokubuyela kuwe. Kwaye ukuba awuqinisekanga, thatha ngeengalo ezivulekileyo uze uxhoma isicatshulwa esivakalayo kuso ukuze ezinye zeemeko zingabikho kwakhona.
Nangona kunjalo, sifuna kakhulu ukuba sikholwe ngokunyaniseka nokuzinikela kwamadoda ethu, kwinto yokuba abayi kuze babambe iesilwanyana somntu kwaye abayi kukwazi ukunqoba le nkama inkunzi ukuze banelise izifiso zabo zesilisa.