Ulwalamano oluhle kunye nesoka elide

Ifoto engqambileyo kunye nesiqingatha sangaphambili, iinyembezi emlanjeni, kwaye ilanga likhanya ngaphandle kwefestile, kwaye izibini zothando zihamba ngokumamatheka, ngokucacileyo, kwiimvakalelo ezinzima.

Kutheni kwenzeka konke, uyazibuza? Mhlawumbi lo bubomi, rhoqo ukuvavanya amandla ngokusebenzisa iindlela zayo ezikhohlakeleyo. Musa ukubulawa kwaye wenze iinzame zokuya kwiindwendwe. Kubalulekile ukuqonda le ngxaki, ulinganise yonke into, kwaye, nxamnye nayo! Kwaye ukuba akukho miphumo, ngoko kuphela kule ngxaki, unokuzama kwi-cue monastic, nangona kunjalo, akunakuze ifike kule nto.

Ingxaki yobudlelwane nabangaphambili ayisoloko iyingxaki. Ewe, ewe! Kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nokuba ngaba akufanelekile ukugcina ukudibanisa nomntu owayengumfana. Siza kuhlalutya iimeko ezininzi zemihla ngemihla. Umzekelo, phantsi kweemeko ezithile kwakhiwa iqela. Babengumhlobo ixesha elide, ngoko baqala ukudibana, ngoko baqonda ukuba abayifuni nto leyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayizange isebenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi into engavumelani nayo, mhlawumbi baqonda ukuba bahlukile. Kwaye umnqweno womtshato uyahlukana, ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza, ngokuthula, ngokuthula. Nayi imeko xa abantu beyazi into abayifunayo kunye neengxaki zokuhlukana, kuba kuphela isenzo esinentsingiselo, ukuvumela ukuba ubeke umtshato wakho umlingane.

Kule fom, ulwalamano oluhle kunye nenkwenkwe yangaphambili inokukhula ngokukhawuleza ibe ngubuhlobo, nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba kwixesha elizayo, intlanzi ebenzileyo ndawonye okokuqala iyakwazi ukutshaya kwakhona. Ngoku khawucinge ngomnye umzekelo, oqhelekileyo, nakwezinye iimeko phantsi kwezinye iimeko kwakukho esinye isibini, sasithandana, kwaye sagqiba ukudibana, emva kwexeshana kuvela ukuba loo nto intombazana yayisinye sinomdla, kwaye iimvakalelo eziphakanyisiweyo akuzange isebenze. Kodwa intombazana yazalwa ngokufanayo inceba efanayo, nangona mhlawumbi ayinalo uthando, kodwa uthando, oluqhelekileyo kakhulu, kodwa nangona kunjalo, kukho iinyembezi ngenxa yokuqhuma, ukunganakwa kubonakala ubomi, kwaye ihlabathi lonke liba i-brown-brown-raspberry ebhokisini.

Kule meko, akuvumelekanga ukuba afune ubuhlobo kunye nalo mfana ngokuthe ngqo! Kwaye akukho mfuneko! Kungenxa yokuba nangona uba ngumhlobo kuye, ngokuqinisekileyo akuyi kuhombisa entle. Ewe, yintoni enye? Intombazana ethandweni ilungele ukwenza nantoni "inkosana" yakhe, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ibuyele kulo, kwaye oku kulungile! Kwaye kunzima, susa nje iinyawo zakho, okanye unciphise isithunzi sakho samantombazana ngaphantsi kwe-sewer city, nangona "i-arthropod" ezinqabile, kodwa njengoko zithethayo, ngokufanelekileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, ubudlelwane kunye ne-ex-boyfriend kufuneka nje ukutshangatshisa ihekethi, inokukhutshwa, kwaye uyibale njengephupha elibi.

Ngokwemvelo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ulungelelanise bonke ubudlelwane obuyekile ukuya kule mizekelo emibini, imeko nganye yintlungu. Kodwa oku akusiyo isizathu sokumotheka. Nangona kunjalo ukuba amatyala kunye nemigaqo eyahlukileyo, imigaqo kuwo iyafana. Awufuni ukuba yivili lesithathu, elibizwa ngokuba yi-spare (icacile icacile?), Shiya yedwa. Ukuba ufuna ubuhlobo, kakuhle, ukuba uyayifuna ngokwenene lo mntu, gcina kwizinga elifanelekileyo, ungahambi ngezansi uze uzibhinqe kwaye ungazivumeli phantsi! Yintoni engabonakaliyo kunye nokuzimeleyo, uya kubonakala, umdla oza kuwufezekisa.

Kubalulekile ukuqonda into elandelayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubuhlobo obunjani kunye nomntu owayesakuba ngumntu, kusele, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuhlala kusekho! Kwaye ke, akudingeki ukuba uphonywe, kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukutshintsha, ubomi ngethuba alinakuthatha ixesha elide ukuba litshintshwe. Ayikho enye - enye enye - "Indawo engcwele ayinalutho!".