Izizathu zokuxabana
Izizathu zokuxabana kweentsapho zininzi. Lawa mabango omnye komnye kwizinto ezinqabileyo zansuku zonke, umona, ukukhathala, izikhalazo ezidlulileyo. Ikhwele mhlawumbi iyona nto ixhaphakileyo. Ukumangalelwa komnye wabatshatileyo, ukungaqiniseki kwakhe kuye kunye nemvakalelo yeqabane, kunye neengxaki zomhlaba ngokugqithiseleyo zihlala zixabana.
Ukuba isi sibini siphila ndawonye ixesha elide, i-romancetic haze ekugqibeleni iwa kunye nobomi bubonakala kubo ngendlela ehlukile. Kubalulekile nje ukubanga kunye neengxoxo kuze kube sekuseni, kodwa kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo ukhohliwe izinto esihlalweni, isifo sezinyosi esasiphalaza nge-toothpaste kwindawo yokuhlamba, izitya ezingatshwanga emva kokutya. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimeko ezinjalo bathi - impilo ka-zael. Ukuxhamla ubomi kunye nokunyamezela kuyindawo enemveliso yokuphuhliswa kwemibango.
Izibini ezininzi ziqala ukuxabana nokufika kwabantwana. Kwaye akumangalisi - iimfuno kunye nemikhwa yabantu abadala baya kwimvelaphi, kwaye umntwana uba yinkangala yentsapho apho yonke into enomdla ihamba ngayo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lolo hlobo lwentsapho lugxininisa izihlobo. Xa bezama ukunceda, ukudibanisa abafazi, baba yimbangela yeengxabano ezinkulu kunye nezikhalazo.
Ubunzima obunzima kunye nobomi obungenakunyakaziswa abuchaphazeli uxolo kwintsapho. Iingxaki ngezindlu, ukungabi nemali, ukungakwazi komnye womtshato ukuba anelise iimfuno zabo-konke oku kukhokelela ekuxabaneni okungenakugwema.
Ingxabano eyakhayo
Abantu abadala abakwazi ukuxabana, ekugqibeleni, sonke sashiya ebuntwaneni ixesha elide, xa kukho iingxaki ezazisombulula iingxabano - ngokwazo, izihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Nayiphi na ingxabano inokuguqulwa ibe yimbambano eyakhayo kwaye ibonise izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
Khawukhumbule, kunye naluphi ukuxabana kwintsapho yakho kuqala. Kungenzeka ukuba kuvela ukuba ngamabango kunye kunye nokuhlambalaza. Abatshatileyo bathetha izinto ezinokubambisana, bengakhathaleli iimvakalelo zomnye. Zama ukuphepha oku. Akuyimfuneko ukuxelela umlingane "usoloko ulahla iisokisi zakho!", Kungcono ukuchazela ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi uhlambulula izinto zakhe, kodwa ngelo xesha ungenza into ebaluleke ngakumbi kwaye iyonwabise. Ngokuqhelekileyo ethule, izicelo ezifanelekileyo zisebenza bhetele kunezityholo ezinobundlobongela.
Into elandelayo eyenza ingxabano esele isele ikhala. Nceda uqaphele ukuba intetho ephakamileyo yamathoni ayisayi kusebenza. Ukumemeza kukugwenxa, kwenza omnye umntu azikhusele ngendlela yakho, oko kukuthi, khala. Ngenxa yoko, abatshatileyo ezintliziyweni zabo bakhawuleza baphosa kumhlobo wonke umsindo, zonke iimvakalelo ezingekho phantsi kwazo ezingenakho nantoni na engayenzayo neengxaki zentsapho. Ngoko zama ukuhlala uxolo uze ubuze umlingane wakho ngokufanayo.
Ukuba ujolise kwingxabano eyakhayo, kunokuba ube nokuxabana, uze uthathe ikhefu kwingxoxo xa uvakalelwa kukuba ukuthanda kwakho kushushu.
Enye indlela yokungayifaki into ekumangaliseni ukungazihlanganisi izikhalazo kunye neemvakalelo ezintle kwiiveki, iinyanga kunye neminyaka, ngaphandle koko ngolunye usuku kuya kupheliswa ngxabano enkulu. Ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo okanye eyaphukisa, thetha ngeemvakalelo zakho kanyekanye. Thetha malunga noko kukubangela ukuba udangele, kunye noko uvakalelwa xa uyenza.
Ukupheliswa kwemiphumo
Ngelishwa, abantu bayazikholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba abayi kuba neengxabano kwintsapho yabo nonke, okanye bathatha ingxaki ekuxazululeni iingxaki xa ezi ngxabano sele zikhulu. Ubudlelwane buhlolwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, iingxabano kunye neengxabano, kubandakanyeka, nangona kunjalo, emva kwezinto ezixhatshazwayo ixesha elide kukho ukuvakalelwa kunye nentukuthelo. Okokuqala kuqala ngento encinci - ngegama elihle elihlambalazayo, ngoko abafazi bavumela ukukhala okukrakra, ukunyanzeliswa okukhulu kunye nokuthuka. Kukunzima ukuyeka, kungenxa yoko ukuxabana phakathi kweentsapho ezininzi kunjengezenzo zempi ngokubhekiselele kwinqanaba lobundlobongela nokutshabalalisa.
Ukuba ushiya yonke into njengoko ikhona, amaphupha entlalontle yoluntu aya kuhlala ephupha. Kunzima kakhulu ukunandipha ubomi, xa umntu osondeleyo engabangeli iimvakalelo ezimnandi, inhlonipho kunye nomdlali ongeyiphi na ingxabano, xa kufuneka ixhaswe. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukufunda ukuzola, uxoxisane kunye kunye nokuphulaphula uluvo lwabantu bonke.
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba ukuxabana kwakho kudla ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye imizamo yokudibanisa iyayilahla. Zama ukuvuma ukuba intsapho kunye nolwalamano lwakho lubaluleke ngaphezu kweengxaki, kwaye uxolo kwintsapho lubaluleke ngaphezu kweengxabano ezingenangqondo kunye nezikhalazo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba omnye wabafazi afune enye into embi, kutheni ekhubekisa umthandayo? Njalo khumbula ukuba phambi kwakho - umntu ophilayo ongenakho ukungaphumeleli, kodwa nguye oyithandayo. Emva koko umnqweno wokuxabana uya kuvela rhoqo. Funda ukufuna unetyala, kodwa iindlela zokusombulula ingxabano, ngoko uya kukwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle.
Ukuxabana kwentsapho kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuhlukana. Benza intlungu eninzi kungekhona kuphela kubafazi, kodwa kubo bonke abantu abasondeleyo-abantwana, abazali, abahlobo. Iimbambano eziqhekezayo rhoqo, zenza umntu utshintshe okubhetele, kubonakala kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Kodwa iingxabano zentsapho zinyamalale ukuba abantu ababini bayabonisana, nokuba kunjalo, ukuxabana kungabangela iingxoxo ngeengxaki-ngaphandle kweenkathazo, iinyembezi kunye nentlungu.