Unxibelelwano lomama nomntwana omncinci

Yincinci, iyinyameko kwaye inhle kakhulu. Kodwa engabonakaliyo. Unako ukuziva nokuva yonke into. Kodwa akathethi. Ngubani lo? Umntwana wakho ofuna ukuthetha. Unxibelelwano nomama onomntwana omncinci luhlobo lwesithethe.

Cinga nje! Sekudlulileyo kwiiveki ezintathu, intliziyo iqala ukubetha kwi-crumb, iinjongo zenziwa isithandathu. Ngenyanga umntwana uya kufunda ukuvula umlomo, ngoko-ukucima nokucima iikhamera. Kwaye ngeveki ye-13 kuya kuba kukuvuyela ukunyundela umunwe. Kakade, oku akusiyo yonke ... Ukubeka isandla sakhe esiswini, awukwazi nje ukuvuthwa kwincinci, kodwa umcele ukuba axoxe.

Yonke into eyenzekayo entliziyweni yomama ivakalelwa yintsana. Namava onke amava kunye nawe. Kakade, yonke imvakalelo yeemvakalelo zomntu ayifumanekanga kuye, kodwa onke amava akho aguqulelwe kwi-hormone yolwimi kunye nokugqithisa okanye ukungabi namandla oksijini egazini. Unayo enye yegazi! Yaye xa utyhafile ngumsindo, uziva esengozini ngenxa yokunciphisa izinga le-oxygen. Kwaye xa usuqhaqhayisa, i-hormone yolonwabo i-endorphins igxininiswe kwi-nirvana neyincinci. Ngoko ke, fundani ukuphulaphula iimvakalelo zenu, baqonde ulwimi oluthile lokuhamba komntwana. Ngombulelo, uya kukuxelela ukuba yiphi ixesha lemihla ayithandayo, ukuthetha naye onomdla ngaye, yintoni umculo ayithandayo.


Ngaphandle kwengxolo kunye nokumemeza

I-Sharp, izandi ezingenayo i-dissonant izithandane aziyithandi umntwana. Uhlala engenasiphelo: uyawa ngesisu sakho, uyakhonkqoza ngezithende zakhe. Khusela omncinane kangako kumculo ovakalayo ukusuka kwi-cacophony, ingxolo, ukukhala. Ewe, ukuba ungena kwi-maelstrom yezandi ezingathandekiyo, emva koko, thetha kwi-crumb, uzonqabile, uchaze oko kwakunjalo, ngoncedo lwemifanekiso emihle, ukunxibelelana ngumama kunye nomntwana omncinci kuququzelelwe okokuqala ngethuba elihle lomama.

Beka isandla sakho kwisisu sakho kwaye uhlabelele ingoma yakho oyintandokazi ngokuzenzekelayo, xelela ukubala-phantsi, ukubetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuphosa apho uvakalelwa khona. Ndikholelwe, i-karapuz iya kufunda: Umama uhlala naye, uyaqonda yonke into, uyayikhusela, ayikhuphe. Umntwana omncinci uya kukuphendula ngokuqinisekileyo. Njani? Ngubani owaziyo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza yena ngeli xesha liza kukubetha isundu sakho ...


Iindaba zobusuku

Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana usebenza xa umama elala. Ewe, iingxoxo zasebusuku ziya kukunceda kuphela. Awazi ukuba ungaqala njani incoko ngelanga lakho? Zama ukuzisa. Tshela umntwana malunga nobuntwaneni bakho, malunga nonyoko, into othanda ukuyidlala kunye nendlela. Unomdla kuwe? Kulungile, ke ubuncinane ufunde le ncwadi ngokuvakalayo. Ufuna ngokwenene ukuva ilizwi lakho.


Ubomi buhle! Okanye akunjalo?

Konke oko umntwana aya kukuva ngaphambi kokudibana nehlabathi elingaziwa ligcinwe ngegolide. Njengemivalo yokuqala yokuxubha kwinqwelo ecocekileyo.

Nangona iimbambano ezincinci phakathi kwabazali zishiya umkhondo kumntwana wengqondo ngenxa yokunxibelelana nomama onomntwana omncinci. Kwaye emva kokuzalwa emva kokuzalwa, uya kukukhumbula indlela amazwi akho angamangalanga ngayo? Ngoko ke, uxinzelelo olungaphantsi kobudlelwane kunye namagama athile athando abhekiswe kumntwana! Musa ukulibala: kukho umntwana omncinci kwaye akafuni ukuva indlela olwa ngayo.


Yintoni esiyiphulaphulayo?

Kwi-trimester yesibini umntwana uqala ukuqonda umculo. Mxelele ngoku! Mkholise!

Ngokusebenzisa inkqubo ye-neuroendocrine, umculo uthinta phantse zonke iinkqubo kunye nezitho zentsana: ukuvakala kokuphefumla, ithoni yeesisundu, izakhono zokuhamba zesisu kunye namathumbu atshintsha. Ukongezelela, phantsi kweempembelelo zomculo, inqanaba lomzwelo lwakhiwa, ubuchule bengqondo buphuculwe, uvakalelwa kukuba ubuhle bobuhle. Umculo wangempela awukho okwesigaba, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuba "i-Nutcracker" uTchaikovsky akasayikuthakazelisa njengoko ebuntwaneni bakhe, kwaye phantsi kweVivaldi baninzi befuna ukukhala, musa ukuziphoqa. Ingane iya kuthanda loo mi sebenzi ethandekayo kuwe. Nangona kukho udidi olulodwa: omncinci kwisisu uthanda ukuphulaphula amazwi omntwana kwaye akayithandi izandi ezantsi, izandi.


Ndikunika uvuyo!

Imvakalelo engeyiyo (ukwesaba, umsindo) kungeyona nje imeko yakho yempilo, kodwa kunye nombuso womntwana. Uvuyo luya kundibetha!

Hlakulela inzolo yolwazi kwaye uyithumele umntwana wakho ngokuthetha nomama onomntwana omncinci. Kuya kugqitywa kwiiseli zomzimba womntwana. Kulula ukuthi: "Yonwaba!" Kwaye ukuba ngexesha lokutshintsha kwe-hormone imeko yakho yengqondo, ukuyibeka ngokuthobeka, engaqiniseki kwaye nayiphi na into encinci emehlweni akho yintlekele? AmaShayina akholelwa ukuba emzimbeni womfazi okhulelweyo umzila wezonxibelelwano phakathi kwentliziyo yakhe kunye nentliziyo ye-crumb evulekile. Ngoko ke, zonke iinkxalabo, ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba kuhanjiswa kwintsana. Amandla entliziyo nomoya anceda ukuhlakulela umntwana ongakazalwa.

Oogqirha bathi ukuhamba kwamandla angundoqo kunokuxhaswa ngongcamango wengcamango, ukuphumla okunzulu kunye nokucinga okulungileyo. Funda ukuphazamiseka, tshintshe ingqalelo. Ziqaphele kuba kuyacaphukisa. Khusela umntwana! Intliziyo yakhe encinci akufanele ibethe ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yokuba umama uhlamba iingcamango eziphazamisayo. Siyaqonda, kunzima ukuzityha kunye kunye nokuzola.


Zama i Yoga

Iimpawu zakhe ezikhethekileyo-asanas kunye nezindlela zokuphefumula ziphucula impilo yenyama, zichaphazela isimo sengqondo kwaye zomeleze i-chakra yenhliziyo. Yinto nje oyifunayo okwangoku! Ukongezelela, ivuselela kakuhle, inciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ukhulume ngengqondo kunye nobuchule bomntwana. Akukho into yokuba kukholelwa ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umfazi uyazifumana kwakhona. Amathenda abonakalisiwe. Ukususela kwimiba ethile yimbongo, imifanekiso ibhaliwe, zokupheka kwee-salads ezimnandi kunye nee-pie zicingwa. Umgqugquzeli nguye, umntwana wakho. Zisebenzise ezi zinto zendalo, zidale uze usebenze! Wena ngokwakho awuyi kuqaphela, ukuba ngaphantsi kompompo wezithethe okanye i-rustle yebhayisiki ekuxhaseni uxolo noxolo kuya kubusa. Kwaye kubangela ukuba ukwesaba nomsindo kubonakala kubancinci kwaye akufanelekanga ingqalelo.


Ubaba e fowuni

Iipapas ezizayo ziqinileyo kwaye zincinci, zibukhali yaye zihlazo. Kodwa bonke bayakhuthaza xa bethetha ngeemvumba zabesifazane abakhulelweyo.

Kuchukumisa! Ungesabi ukubonisa iimvakalelo. Ingane iya kuvuyela ukuthetha nawe kwaye iphulaphule ilizwi lakho. U-Mamina wayethandaza kunye nentetho epholileyo eyaziwayo. Uyakwazi ukudibanisa kwaye udibanise ngokuthe kancinci lawa "mafufu". Musa ukumangaliswa, umntwana uyahlula ngokucacileyo phakathi kobawo nonina. Yaye iya kunxibelelana nawe kwisitayela esiseduze nawe. Kwaye ukuba ube nohlobo oluqinileyo nomntu onokuphendula ngokuphendula ngokunyamezela kwakho, ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokukubona kwisikrini somatshini we-ultrasound. Bhalisa nomthandi wakho kwiikhosi zabazali bexesha elizayo. Apho awufumani nje kuphela ulwandle oluyimfuneko nolwazi olunomdla (kufuneka ulondoloze imeko phantsi kolawulo!), Kodwa udibanise kunye nabo banenhlanhla njengawe.