Shayela kwenye indawo ngeveki
Eli cebiso alithethi uhambo oluqhelekileyo ukuya kwindawo yeholide ngeempelaveki. Kuyavuma, akunakwenzeka ukuba oku kunokukunceda uhlaziye ulwalamano. Kungcono ukuya kwindawo ethile apho ungakaze ube khona, umzekelo, kwindlela yokutyelela kwindawo ethile ekude. Njengekhetho - ungaya apho, apho babeye baphumla ndawonye, apho kugcwele khona iikhumbuzo, bahlala kwindlu enye okanye kwihotele, njengoko. Oku kungabonakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa uhambo olunjalo luya kunceda ekuvuseleleni iimvakalelo.
Yenza umangaliso
Awunakuze ucinge ukuba unako ukuvuselela njani isimo sengqondo sakho ngezinto ezintle ezingalindelekanga. Musa ukuzikhawulela kwimihla ekhunjulwayo okanye iholide, kodwa unike into ethile kumlingane wakho njengothusayo. Ukuba isipho singalindelekanga, ngoko luzuza ngakumbi ngaphezu kwezinto eziqhelekileyo. Isipho sinokuba nayiphi na - nokuba yiphokoledi phantsi komlambo, nangona iposikhadi oxelela ngayo iqabane lakho ukuba liyithande kangakanani kuwe.
Buza imibuzo
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuba sisondele, abantu abatshatileyo banomdla kwimicimbi yesiqingatha sabo sesibini, kungekho ngaphezu kweesentimitha ezintlanu zexesha lokuthetha. Zama ukuhlakulela umkhwa wokubuza umlingane wakho ukuba wabuya njani, wintoni owamkholisa ngayo, yintoni eyamkhathaza. Qalisa iintlanganiso ezincinane zasemaphandleni ekhitshini ngenkobe yeti kunye nentetho enomdla. Into ephambili ayikuthi ithathwe - ukuba umnxibelelwano ukhathele, akufanele uhlale naye, uqhubeke nencoko, engasayi kukuzonwabisa, kodwa iyakhathaza.
Chukumisa
Uqhagamshelwano alubandakanyi amagama kuphela. Chukumisa isiqingatha sesibini ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka kwaye ngaphezulu. Qala ngemisebenzi elula-hlala kufuphi nawe, faka intloko yakho ehlombe lakho, udibanise, uhlabe iinwele zakho. Ezi zibonakaliso zengqalelo ziza kunceda iqabane lakho ukuba liphumle kancinci emsebenzini womsebenzi onzima.
Thetha ngawe
Musa ukuthula. Ukuba kukho into ekukhathazayo, ngokuqinisekileyo uchaze iingcinga zakho neemvakalelo zakho, nangona unesiqinisekiso sokuba umntu othetha naye akavumelaniyo. Unganqikazi ukubonisa iqabane lakho ukuba unomthi.
Zinakekele
Musa ukuzigijima! Enye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo zokuvuselela ubudlelwane kukunyamekela ukubonakala kwakho. Ukuba uqaphela iikhilogram ezingaphezulu kwinqaba - ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Jonga izinwele zakho, ukubonakala kwakho jikelele - iqabane lakho lihle kakhulu kukubona ngumbono ophezulu, kunokuba ungabonakali.
Shintsha indawo
Ukuba ufuna ukuhlaziya ubuhlobo bakho obusondeleyo, ngoko ukhumbule ukuba igumbi lokulala aliyena yodwa indawo endlwini apho unokuzinikela kwizinto eziphathekayo zesondo. Ungazami ukucwangcisa into ngaphambili-zama ukutshatyalaliswa ngentshiseko, ngokuqhelekileyo kulunge ngakumbi kunaphambili.
Hlala ulale
Eli cebiso linikezwa ngumfundi weengqondo-wase-United States waseMerika uMark Goulston. Uxela ukuba ukuba isibini silala ndawonye, sibanika ithuba lokungazi kakuhle into ababeziva ngayo kwiminyaka yokuqala yomtshato wabo, belala ndawonye. Isazi sengqondo sithi ngokwemiqathango yakhe, uninzi lwabatshatileyo abatshatayo baziphatha ngokufanayo, nokuba bafanele bavuke ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo.
Chaza ngothando
Ingaba ucinga ukuba le nto ibhalwa okanye ibhalwa, iphakanyiswe emingxeni? Le ngenye yezinto ezilula kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo ukuhlaziya ubuhlobo - xelela nje iqabane elimthandayo, ukuba unomdla kuwe njengasekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, njengomhla wokuqala komhla.