Isibhengezo esihle sothando ngomfana
Inketho yendabuko, eye yathandwa iminyaka emininzi-ukunika i-valentine, kwaye kuyo ukuxelela malunga neemvakalelo zabo. Unokwenza ngokwakho, ngoko esi sipho siya kuthinta.
Indlela enothando kakhulu ukumthumela ileta ngeposi. Nangona uhlala kwisixeko esifanayo. Kwihlabathi lamanje, abantu bayeka ukubhalela iileta zangempela, ngokunyusa ukubeka endaweni yabo ngekhompyutha. Kwaye ukuba uthumela le ncwadi kumfana wakho othandekayo, ebhalwe ngesandla sakho, kuya kuba mnandi kwaye akhumbule kuye.
Mema umfana kwisidlo sothando - enye inketho yokuvuma kuye kwiimvakalelo zabo. Kakade, akufuneki ukumxelela ngothando lwakho ngokuthe ngqo. Umoya wothando oya kuguquka ngexesha lesidlo uya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo kuyo ukuba unemizwa engathandekiyo kuye.
Musa ukulibala malunga nendlela enjengokuqonda kwivesi. Le ndlela ayisoze yaphela, kuba isibongo sisoloko sihambisa iimvakalelo zabantu ngamandla abo bonke. Khetha ukuvuma kwakho okuthandayo kwivesi, okanye ubhale phantsi ukuba unako ukwenza okunjalo kwaye uyithumele ngeposi okanye kwiposi eliza kuvela kuwe.
Ukuba ufuna ukuxelela umntu obathandayo ngeemvakalelo zakho, ungesabi. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, imida yento intombazana enokuyenza kwaye yintoni umfana oye wachithwa ixesha elide. Yaye ukuba wenza isifungo esihle kumntu, akuyi kuba nayintloni. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda ulwalamano lwakho. Nokuba uyasichukumisa umfana ukuba enze isenzo esisebenzayo ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zihambelana, okanye uya kuqonda ukuba akufanele uchithe ixesha lakho kulo mntu.