Uthando ngokwecebo

Kukholelwa ukuba uthando luyinto engazelelwe kwaye ayilunganga. Into engenakuyibona kwaye yintoni esinikwe yona ngokusisithuba. Ngelishwa, iziganeko zanamhlanje zisitshela ngokuchaseneyo. Kwaye ukuba ulinde "imana yasezulwini", ngoko uncedo olungenakufumaneka. Ukongezelela, oku kukhaneka ngathi ngathi "kwaye ihashe iya kumisa kwi-gallop, kwaye ungene kwindawo yokutshisa", ngoko ke kufuneka sakhe isicwangciso sokufumana uthando size siyisebenzise.


Beka iinjongo

Umgomo ngamnye ophumeleleyo, njengomgaqo, uqala ngesicwangciso esicinga kakuhle. Akuyimfuneko ukusekela iinjongo eziphezulu, ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezilukhuni, ekufezekiseni kwithuba eliluncedo luza kunceda. Umnqweno wokuhlangabeza isikhulu esibubeleyo kunye ne-dorogaschimavtomobile kunye nelizwe elithile apho ikhabethe elipheleleyo lifakwe kwiingubo zeChanel akuyinjongo, kodwa elinye lala maphupha angenakwenzekayo ngamanye amaxesha ahluthe amantombazana ngaphambi kokuba iphupha. Injongo, umzekelo, umnqweno wokutshata intloko yenkampani enemfundo enjalo. Ukukhula kwi-180 cm, uthanda ukuxuma.

Emva kokuba uqonde uhlobo luni lomntu oluyidingayo, thobela ingqalelo. Ukubonakala kwakho neempawu zangaphakathi kufuneka zifanane namadoda akhethiweyo. Kule meko unomdla kumntu onjalo. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ube mnqweno kwaye ube nezinga eliphezulu lobunzima. Kodwa musa ukuyidlula. Nabani na oya kunkwantyiswa ngokugqithiseleka kwemiyalelo yegama elimnandi. Ukuba ungokobuhle kwaye unengqiqo, loo njongo iya kuba yinto yakho, ukuba ayifumaneki lula, ngoko ke ubuninzi bayo abuyi kuba "buhlungu" nayo. Ukuba kunjalo, kuya kubakho ukutyalomali-mali oluthile ekuphuculeni ukubonakala kwayo kwangaphandle. Kwinqanaba lokuqala, ubuyekeze ikhabethe lakho. Ukuqala, faka iingubo ezimbalwa ezithandekayo. Thenga izicumbiso ezilungileyo. Makube mncinane, kodwa kuya kuba ngumgangatho ophezulu. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, sebenza kumfanekiso wakho.

Emva kwesabelo sezinto ezifunwayo kunye nangoko kunokwenzeka, misela ixesha apho injongo iya kufezwa khona. Kwinyanga, kwisiqingatha sonyaka okanye ngonyaka?

Emva koko, icebo kufuneka lihlulwe libe ngamalungu amaninzi: iimali, ukuthengisa nokusetyenziswa.

Ukuthengisa

Okokuqala, hlalutya imarike, oko kukuthi, fumana impendulo kumbuzo othi "Ndingadibana nani na umntu onokuthanda ukuyibona kwindlalifa yekhethiweyo." Ngokomzekelo, kwezinye iindawo, iivenkile okanye amanye amaziko, apho, ngombono wakho, unomdla kuye.

I-Dalelezduet ifumanisa ukuba yiyiphi imilinganiselo le nto inayo kwaye ibhalise kulo uluhlu lweminqweno yabantu. Akudingeki ukuba ufunde ngokuphangaleleyo nayiphi na indawo. Kwanele ukubonisa umdla kunye nolwazi malunga nento. Ukufunda idatha ethile, umzekelo, kwisihloko seshishini okanye ibhasi, kuxhomekeke kwinto enomdla kuyo. Ngoko unomdla kwaye uncedise incoko. Ukongezelela, amadoda amaninzi afana xa umfazi engayiqondi into kwaye umcele ukuba achaze konke kuye.

ZeMali

Iindleko ezichaphazelekayo azikwazi ukunqandwa. Ekubeni esi sicwangciso sinika ukuhlaziywa ngezihlandlo ze-wardrobe ngeempahla ezintle, ezithenywayo, ukuthengwa kweziqhumiso kunye neziqholo ezilungileyo, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba unayo imali eyaneleyo. Ungagcina imali ethile kwibhokisi nganye, ukuze ungayichitha yonke into kwizinto onokuzenza ngaphandle. Ukuzigcina uzimele, akudingeki ukuba uvakashele isikhungo sempilo kathathu ngeveki. Kwaye kunzima ukwenza ishedyuli yakho ukuze ukwazi ukufumana ixesha lezinto zonke: umsebenzi, uhambo lokuthengwa kunye nokutyelela rhoqo kwi-gym. Olu hlobo lokugqibela luyakuthatyathwa kwaye lube nolweqoqosho ngokwexesha kunye neendlela. Ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kwamanqatha kunye nemveliso yefure. Yenza ngokwakho ekhaya. Ukuba unemali eyongezelelweyo, unokwenza i-shell kunye ne-natrenazher. Okuncinci kutya, i-yoga ngaphezulu kwaye akukho zindleko ezongezelelweyo kule cwangciso, awudingi.

Ukuba awuyi kucinga ukusebenzisa imali eyongezelelweyo okanye cha, ungahamba uhambo. Kwi-salon yeklasi yokuqala kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhelane nomnini-shishini ocebileyo.

Fanisa kwaye ungene kwisangqa soqhagamshelwano oluyidingayo ngendlela efana neyeshishini, ngaphandle kokunyaniseka. Ukuzihlukanisa ngokuphantse kumanqanaba alinganayo, oko kukuthi, umbonise ukuba ucinga ukuba uhlakaniphile. Cela uncedo okanye iingcebiso kwimiba ethile.

Kuloo nto ibhinqa yoshishino lwanomnye wemisebenzi enzima kakhulu kukuba bahlale bekhumbuza ukuba awukwazi ukubonisa ngokukhawuleza lonke ulwazi lwakho, ukubonakalisa ukuqonda kwakho kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Zama ukunikezela ngolwazi oluncinci, ungammangaleli kumntu onokuthi ube ngumyeni we-sraksprosami malunga nobomi bakhe. Ingxoxo kufuneka ibe yendalo ngokwemvelo.

Eminye Imisebenzi

Uhanjiswe ekuphuhliseni isicwangciso. Kungcono ukucinga malunga neendlela ezimbini zokuphuhliswa kweemeko kunye nendlela oya kusabela ngayo kubo. Isiqili esona sikhokelo sinika uphuhliso lweemeko ngokwezicwangciso. Isicwangciso esithile siza kuhlangula xa zonke izinto zingekho ngendlela ozimisele ngayo. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela onke amaxesha apho umthunywa angabanjwa. Ekubeni le isisicwangciso soshishino, akuyiyo imvakalelo yokusombulula le mbambano, njengabesifazane abaninzi, kodwa ukuxhomekeka. Ngoko ke, xa kwenzeka ukungaphumeleli kwiplani A, unokuhlala usebenzise isicwangciso B, ungakhathazeki ngethuba.

Ngoku, ukuba uqhelane nokulandelelana kunye nemithetho yokufezekisa iinjongo ezibekiweyo, unokwenza isifiso ngokukhuselekileyo uze uqale ukuphumeza. Uyakhutshwa ngaphandle ukuba ucinga ukuba ngokuqaphela nje umnqweno kwaye uhlale ulindele ummangaliso, uya kufezekisa into ethile. Umnqweno kuphela, inzondelelo kwaye usebenze ngokwakho kuya kunceda ufezekise oko ucebileyo.