Iimeko xa abatshatileyo beqhuba ishishini lentsapho elidibeneyo okanye baqeshwe kweshishini elifanayo, bahlala bedideka. Ukuthandana kweenkonzo phakathi kwabasebenzi osebenza nabo bekuye kwabonwa kakubi, kodwa kuthekani ukuba indoda nomfazi basebenza kunye? Ingaba umtshato wakho uya kuba namandla ngenxa yokuba ungenakulinganiswa nangoko yonke imini, okanye ngokuphambene nanjalo, kuya kuba luvavanyo olunzulu kuye? Ayikho impendulo engafanelekanga, nangona kulungele ukuqwalasela zonke iingcambu ezintle nezimbi.
Iinkonzo zomsebenzi kunye nomlingane
Ngako-ke, kwindawo yokukhuphisana kakhulu nabasebenzi basebenzi bamanamhlanje, indoda kunye nomfazi emsebenzini baya kuhlala benomdla othembekileyo, osebenza naye ongeke azame ukusinda, akhohlise, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo uya kuxhaswa kwimeko enzima kwaye akayi kuthatha isivumelwano esilinde ixesha elide.
Intsapho isebenza kunye, njengendlela enye, apho baqonda kwaye bancedana. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuziva unentembelo ekusebenzisaneni, nangona utsha.
Ekubeni usapho linye iqela, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwikomiti ukwabelana ngolwazi, kubandakanywa nolwazi, kwaye ukuba lilahliwe kakuhle, unokufumana ezininzi iinzuzo. Ngexesha lesidlo, awukwazi ukuzonwabisa kunye kunye kuphela, kodwa utshintshisane nolwazi oqhelekileyo abahlala bengabelana ngalo. Oku kungaba yiindaba zekonkontileka ezilungiselelwe okanye malunga nokunciphisa abasebenzi kwixesha elizayo. Kodwa nangona ulwazi oluqhelekileyo malunga nexesha lokunika umvuzo okanye kwimiba engakanani namhlanje ukuba amagunya anako ukusetyenziswa.
Iingxaki zokusebenza kunye kunye nezindlela zokuzisombulula
Ingxaki ingenzeka ukuba isibini esitshatileyo esihlala kunye sisisebenzisana ngokuvisisana sinokuqonda njengento epheleleyo. Ukuba impumelelo yomlingane iqala ukuba kubangelwa yimivumba, ke le nto yinto enye, kodwa yintoni enokuyenza ngokungahambiyo ukuba indoda okanye umfazi wenza iphutha lobugcisa. Emva koko, konke oku kuya kubakho ukwahlula kwisiqingatha. Yaye ukuba umhlobo onobubele angabi ngabahlobo bakho, ngoko ke abacebisi bakhe baya kuzama ukukuphinda. Iimeko ezinjalo ziphazamisa umsebenzi kwaye zifumanisa ukuvisisana kwengqondo. Ukuze ugweme oku, kufuneka ubonise iqela ukuba wena, nangona usapho, kodwa unobuntu obuhlukeneyo obuhlukeneyo. Vula kwisangqa sakho esilungileyo, ubenze oonxibelelwano kunye nabo osebenza nabo.
Iingxaki ezininzi, ukuba isibini sisebenzisana kunye, sinokuzisa umkhwa wabantu ukuba baxoxe nabo kunye nobudlelwane. Kuyinto engathandekiyo ukuphulaphula inkohliso malunga nendoda yakhe kwiilwimi ezimbi kwindawo yokusebenzela kwaye nangona ulwazi aluyinyaniso, i-vseravno ingaba vavanyo lokwenene lokuthembela komnye nomnye.
Kodwa ukuba awukwazi ukuphulaphula ingxolo, ngoko iimpazamo zomlingane, nokuba zincinci, ekusebenziseni okufutshane kunzima ukuzinyamekela. Kwaye akusiyo nje i-mood spoiled. Iingcali zengqondo zithi abantu bafumana ukukhangwa ngokwesini kumlingani ophumelelayo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba igunya labo liwela emehlweni ethu, umnqweno ungashenxisa. Ngaphandle kokuqonda, thina, ekubeni kwindawo enye yomsebenzi, siqala ukulandelela impumelelo kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kwesiqingatha sethu sesibini. Kwaye ukuba umlingane unomsebenzi wokunciphisa umsebenzi, unokunciphisa umdla wakhe wesini kunye nokukhokelela ekungavumelani kwimpilo ebusondeleyo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abatshatileyo abasebenza kwintsimi enye yobugcisa banokuthathwa kakhulu, baphumelele kwimpumelelo kwaye ke ukhuphiswano olunamandla luya kuphazamisana phakathi kwabo, ukuba yiziphi iingozi ezihambisa ubomi bobugcisa kwintsapho enye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubomi bentsapho ngokuchasene nalo bunokuchaphazela kakubi ubugcisa. Ukuba uhlala kwi-loggerheads kunye neqabane lakho, ke ekusebenziseni ukufihla ukucaphuka kwakho nomsindo kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Akunakunyulwa ukuba uya kuqhubeka ukucaciswa ngokubambisana kobudlelwane kwindawo yomsebenzi okanye ngakumbi, uya kumcaphukisa umhlobo. Amacandelo amancinci amancinci akwazi ukuphazamisa kuphela isimo sengqondo, kodwa esinciphisa ukusebenza kakuhle.
Ukuba indoda nomfazi basebenzisana kunye, basengozini "yokuzisa ikhaya", oko kukuthi, beza ekhaya, baqhubeke becinga baze baxoxisane kuphela ngemicimbi esebenzayo.
Ukuthintela impembelelo enjalo yomsebenzi emoyeni kwintsapho yakho, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo phakathi kobomi basekhaya kunye nobugcisa. Xa iingcango zeeofisi zivale emva kwakho, zama ukunqamula "uchwepheshe" entloko yakho kwaye uyeke ukukhangela umntu, obuyela kuye njengomntu osebenza naye ongakhange ahambise enye ingxelo kuwe. Thetha kuye ngezihloko ezingabonakaliyo-imozulu, iipolitiki, ukufudumala kwehlabathi, ukuba akukho nto ichaphazelekayo emsebenzini. Yiya kwisitoreji kunye kwaye nixoxe ngezicwangciso ezihlangeneyo ngokuhlwa. Kwaye kungcono - ubuncinane ngezinye izikhathi ukuya ekhaya. Makube nexesha lakho lokuphumla kunye nokuthetha kunye nabahlobo ngokwahlukileyo. Akunjalo, ukuba ngeeholide ubuncinane ubuncinane beentsuku ziya kuhlaselwa. Emva koko, emva kwekhefu elifutshane ekunxibelelaneni, ukubuyela ekhaya kunye, i-double ithabile kakhulu.