Ulawulo loBomi

Ngoku kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphucula. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ukuze uphumelele kwaye ujabule, kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nezakhono ezininzi ezinobulumko, ngaphezu kobugcisa. Umzekelo, kubalulekile ukulungiswa, ukuqokelelwa, ukukwazi ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo kwiinguqu kwaye ungesabi ubunzima. Lawula ubomi bakho ukuze kufike umphumo ontle, mhlawumbi. Oku kufundisa ulawulo lobomi - isayensi yesizukulwana esitsha.

Yintoni yoLawulo loBomi?

Ulawulo lobomi yinkqubo yezixhobo ezahlukeneyo kunye nezindlela ezenzelwe lula lula ubomi bomntu ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngumgangatho walo. Le yenzululwazi yonke efundisa umntu kuphela umbutho ochanekileyo womsebenzi okanye ukuzonwabisa, ukulawula ixesha, kodwa kunye nobugcisa bokulawula iimvakalelo, ukuxhathisa uxinzelelo, ukuthetha nabantu, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuzikhuhlisa.

Ulawulo lobomi lusetyenziswe ukunceda umntu akhule ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye namandla kulo. Emva kokuba ufunde ezinye zeendlela, umntu unokufikelela kwiziphumo ezinkulu ngeendleko eziphantsi kakhulu kunobomi obuqhelekileyo. Ngosizo lolu sayensi, umntu ngamnye uya kukwazi ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso sakhe sokuphila kwaye, ngokubambelela kuyo, uye kwiinjongo ezijoliswe kuyo.

Usebenza njani?

Ulawulo lobomi lusebenza ngokulula, njengabo bonke abanengqondo, kodwa akukho nto ngaphandle kwentando yomntu kunye namandla. Kwanele nje ukufuna ukutshintsha ubomi bakho ukuba bube bhetele, ziqonde wena kunye neminqweno yakho, uqaphele ukuba mangaphi amathuba angaphoswa kwaye sele angaphiwa. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngendlela efanelekileyo, ulawulo lobomi lunokuba lula lula ubomi.

Umntu ngokwakhe uvelisa isicwangciso senzalo ngokwakhe kwaye uqala ukuphila ngokuhambelana nayo. Ngaloo ndlela, umkhwa wenziwa, owaziwayo, ngokukhawuleza ube yinto yesibini. Umntu usetyenziselwa indlela yokuphila evumela ukuba asebenze, aphumule, athande, ahlakulele kwaye aphile ngokusemandleni onke, njengoko akakwazanga ngaphambili.

Indlela yokufunda?

Izifundo ezizodwa, apho zifundisa ukuphathwa koBomi, akukho. Kukho iincwadi ezimbalwa kunye nokuqeqesha, kodwa unako ukwenza ngaphandle kwabo, kuba le nzu lulwazi lwakhiwe kuphela kwiminqweno nokuzimela. Oko kukuthi, izakhono ezisebenzayo zibalulekile, kwaye akusiyo inkolelo eyomileyo.

Kodwa kuqala kufuneka usebenze nentloko yakho. Isinyathelo sokuqala kukuziqonda kwaye ubeke phambili. Umntu ngamnye unamaphupha akhe kunye neminqweno. Khumbula, ebuntwaneni abaninzi bephupha ukuba babe yi-cosmonauts? Amaxesha ashintshile, siye sakhula, kwaye ngoku sifuna izinto ezahlukeneyo-ukuba siphile kwimpumelelo, ukwazi nokwazi okuninzi, ukuvula kwaye wenze i-ishishini lakho liphumelele, ube nekhaya elungileyo, imoto, intsapho. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kwisigaba sokuqala ukwenza uluhlu oluthile lweminqweno yakho. Yonke iminqweno ifanele ibhalwe ngokubhekiselele.
- Ndifuna ukutyeba - indlela engalunganga.
-Ifuna ukufumana umsebenzi omtsha okanye ukuvula ibhizinisi lam - ukhetho luhle lungcono.
-Ndifuna ukuqamba i-resume ekhangayo okanye isicwangciso soshishino sisebenzayo-inketho efanelekileyo.

Qalisa ngeenkcazo ezicacileyo eziza kubumba ngokupheleleyo-ukusuka ekuqhubeni ukuya kumsebenzi ophumeleleyo, kwisicwangciso seshishini kwi-shishini elinenzuzo. Cacisa zonke iinkalo zobomi, kungekhona enye. Bhalisa yonke into: kwiingxaki zakho kunye nendlela othanda ukuzibona ngayo kwixesha elizayo, kwiimpembelelo ozenzayo rhoqo kwiindlela ezijikelezayo. Ingcaciso ecacileyo kwesi sicwangciso kukuba, ezininzi iinkalo zobomi ziya kuchaphazela, bhetele uya kuzicingela apho ufuna ukuhamba khona.

Emva koko phawula ixesha. Umsebenzi ngamnye kufuneka ugqitywe kwisithuba esithile, ngaphandle koko kuya kuba nzima ukuyeka yonke into emva kwexesha. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba wazi ukuba ukhululekile, amaxesha angcono akasoze afika. Kukho rhoqo izizathu zokuyeka ukutshaya, ungayifumani imfundo, musa ukudala intsapho, ungadlala imidlalo, ungayi guquli iphupha lakho. Kufuneka ube namandla kuneemeko kwaye wenze ngokumelene nabo. Mhlawumbi, uthando kuphela alukwazi ukuba lusexeshana, kuba awukwazi ukuthandana nomyalelo. Kodwa ukuba izicwangciso zakho ziza kudibana nomphefumlo wakho, uza kwenza umzamo ukuthatha amanyathelo okumhlangabeza.

Emva kokuba isicwangciso sobomi bakho esitsha siphelile, kuya kufuneka ufumane umoya kuphela esifubeni sakho kwaye uqale ukuhlala. Kubalulekile ukunamathela kwesi sicwangciso, kodwa ukuba ungaziphihli ithuba lokutshintsha into ethile kuyo, kuba ngezinye iimeko kwenzeka ukuba iindlela zokufezekisa utshintsho endleleni eya kwinjongo ephambili, kwaye kwenzeka ukuba injongo ngokwayo ilahlekelwa yimpumelelo yayo. Kubalulekile ukugcina imilinganiselo, ukuphuhlisa inkqubo yokukhuthaza kunye nezohlwayo, eziza kukukhuthaza ukuba ungagcini umendo. Kwaye kubalulekile ukukhumbula - esi sicwangciso sobomi akufanele sikunqande, kukudala kuphela ukuyila ubomi bakho kunye neminqweno yakho. Le yimfihlo yolawulo lobomi.