Ukulungiselela intlanganiso
Okokuqala, ukulungiselela udliwano-ndlebe, kufuneka udibanise ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ungacingi nje ngodliwano-ndlebe njengentlanzi. Uya kwintetho phakathi kobuso obini obulinganayo! Emva kwakho konke, awuceli izibonelelo, kodwa unikezela ulwazi lwakho lolwazi kunye namava. Musa ukuzibamba, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ungaba neentloni ukubonisa iimpawu zakho zezo shishino. Ndibonise oko kukukwenza ngcono kunabanye! Ungakulibali ukuthabatha izinto ezilandelayo kunye nodliwano-ndlebe:
- iimvelaphi kunye neikopi zeziqinisekiso kunye nezatifikethi eziqinisekisa ubungcali bakho;
- iileta zengcebiso, kwakunye nabaqhagamshelana nabo babanike zona;
- Iipolfoliyo (amanqaku, iifoto kunye nokunye);
- zokubhala (kuya kukhangeleka, xa ungenayo ipeni).
Intetho enhle
Udliwano-ndlebe ngamanye amagama ukuzithethelela. Yazi ukuba umqeshi akaqwalasele kuphela ukuqala kwakhona kunye neepotifoliyo. Uphulaphula ngokucokisekileyo, njengoko uthethayo. Ngoko ke, ubuncinane ngeveki ngaphambi kokuba intlanganiso iqale ukuzikhupha kude kuzo zonke iintlobo ze-slang "Tipo" kunye nama-parasites "afana". Kwi-intanethi kuyinqweneleka ukuba abayivakala.
Ukuba unenkxalabo kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba oku kukuthintela ekwakheni intetho eqhelekileyo, ke ungesabi ukuthetha oku. Emva kwakho konke, ukuvuma omnye kuya kukunceda ukujamelana nemvakalelo. Kodwa akukho mfuneko ukuba ungene kwiinkcukacha malunga nempumelelo okanye ezinye izinto. Musa ukwenza lo mntu uvakalelwa kukuba unokuba luninzi. Okokuqala, gxininisa kwiimpawu zoshishino.
Kwixabiso - ngabanye
Xa udliwano ndlebe, ziba nguwe. Qonda ukuba baninzi, bezama ukwenza imbonakalo emihle, bazame ukwenza iimeko zabo, bafunde kwakhona amanqaku amaninzi malunga nendlela yokuziphatha ngodliwano-ndlebe. Kwaye ekupheleni baziphatha ngendlela efanayo. Musa ukukhangela into ekumele uyilandele. Mhlawumbi unabo kuphela iimpawu ukuba inkokheli ifuna kakhulu ukubona kumqeshwa omtsha. Ewe, kwaye ekugqibeleni, sonke singabantu. Ubume bendalo buhlala buninzi ngaphezu kobuchaphazelekayo.
Dlula iimbobe ngokuchanekileyo
Kwimibutho emininzi, ukuzama ukuvavanya ukuvavanya kusetyenziswa ukuhlola ukuba umntu unokuziphatha njani kwiimeko ezingavamile. Kufuneka ulungele oku! Sivele sicacile ngasentla ukuba akufanele ube yingxoxo. Impendulo yakho kumbuzo oceliwe ligosa labasebenzi akufanele lidlule enye imizuzu okanye emibini. Ukuba ngaba udliwano-ndlebe unogxininisa kuwe ngokuphendula kwaye uphucula umphulaphuli ophulaphule, oku akuthethi ukuba unokuthetha ngonaphakade. Khumbula ukuba ngale ndlela unganika ulwazi olungaphezulu kunyanzelekile.
Unokuvavanya kwakhona ukunyanzeliswa kwengcinezelo. Umzekelo, ucelwa ngendlebe nodliwano-ndlebe, uphendula. Kodwa umnxibelelwano uthi awuqondi. Emva kwempendulo elandelayo, impendulo efanayo. Musa ukulahlekelwa ukuzithiba kule meko. Le meko ayithethi ukuba uthetha into engalunganga okanye engaqondakaliyo. Mane uhlaziye ngokukhawuleza ukuba yintoni umceli-ndlebe engazange aziqonde, kwaye uchaze kwakhona. Okona kuninzi, ukuthula nokuthula kudala imeko ehlazo. Kwimeko apho umqeshi wakho engxamanga ukubuza umbuzo olandelayo, emva kokumisa, zibuze ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba unokongeza nayiphi na into ekuthethwe ngayo.
Thetha, ungafihli nto
Xa udliwano ndlebe, kungcono ukuba ungathethi kwaye ungabufihli nto, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uza kuthetha into ethile. Ukongeza, kukho iingcali ezichanekileyo ngokuchanileyo ukuba umntu ulala okanye cha. Ngoko ke, nangona uchithekile emsebenzini wakho wangaphambili, ungesabi ukutsho njalo. Ngethuba lethu le nto ayinakuthethelelwa. Umqeshi uyazi ukuba kunezizathu ezininzi zokuhamba, umzekelo, awuzange ujabule ngomvuzo. Kodwa oku akusiyo isizathu sokuphendula malunga nomsebenzi wangaphambili. Nangona kukho, enyanisweni, yayingenakubekezeleka. Akuyimfuneko ukunikezela umnxibelelwano kwiinkcukacha zobudlelwane kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zengxabano kunye nabangaphambili. Zama ukunciphisa umsebenzi wangaphambili kwibinzana: "Ndafumana amava amahle kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba ngoku ndiza kusebenza ngakumbi nangakumbi." Musa ukuhlazeka ukuqala ingxoxo kunye nomvuzo, ukuze emva kokuqeshwa, ungadani. Phakamisa le ngxaki ngexesha xa uqinisekile ukuba umqeshi unomdla kuwe.
Ekugqibeleni
Musa ukulibala ukubulela umnxibelelwano ngexesha elikunike lona. Wena ukususela ekuqaleni uya kuzibonakalisa njengomntu ophethwe kakuhle. Kwaye enye ingongoma: ungathathi ncokola kakhulu. Ukuba awuzange wamukelwe endaweni enye okanye ungavumelani nawe, oku akuthethi ukuba enye inketho iya kuba enye. Ukuchazwa kwangaphambili, ukulungiselela udliwano-ndlebe, kunokuba ungcono kunabanye. Ziziphi iimpawu zoshishino ezinokuba lunomdla kakhulu kumqeshi. Ungesabi - kwaye uya kuphumelela!