Ixesha elihle
Ukudibanisa kukuthatha ukusebenzela umhlobo othembekileyo, uninzi. Uyamazi kakuhle umntu, uyamthemba, uyazi zonke iingxaki kunye nokuqhatha, kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba unokuhlala uvuma.
- Umhlobo uya kuhlala ehlangothini lwakho.
Ayikho imfihlo yokuba kukho iingxaki zengquzulwano emsebenzini kwaye akusoloko kusecaleni lakho kuninzi. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho unxulumene noxinzelelo oluqhubekayo, ngoko-ke inxalenye ethembekileyo ecaleni kwayo kukunceda. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, awuyi kuba yedwa kwimbono yakho, ngenxa yokuba intombi, inokwenzeka ukuba, iya kuma eceleni kwakho.
- Umhlobo uhlala evuma ukusebenzisana.
Nangona ufuna ukuba akunakwenzeka, nangona uphosakele, kulula ukuba uvumelane nomhlobo. Kunzima ukucela ukutshintsha indawo yakho kunye nomnye osebenza naye xa ulwalamano olubi. Umhlobo akanakuze anqande uncedo.
- Umhlobo uqikeleleka.
Kwimisebenzi ayikho into embi ngaphezu kweengxaki ezingalindelekanga. Uyazi umhlobo ukususela ebuntwaneni. Uyazi oko akwaziyo, apho izikhwepha zakhe ziphi na apho ziindawo ezibuthathaka. Ekugqibeleni, kulula ukulawula umhlobo, kuba unempembelelo enkulu kuye kunanoma yimuphi omunye umntu ongenanto ongayenzayo kodwa usebenze.
- Umhlobo uthembekile.
Ukuba uqesha omnye wabahlobo bakho, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo uyaqiniseka ukuba lo mntu akayi kunikhaphela. Ngako oko, musa ukwesaba ukuhleka ngasemva kwakho, uzama ukuhlala, uqalise inzondo.
Kuvela ukuba umsebenzi kunye nabahlobo banokwenziwa komnye nomnye. Ukuba ungumphathi, ngumhlobo wakho onokuba ngumnene wakho. Unako ukuhlala uthembele kuye, kulula ukuvala amehlo akho kwiintsilelo emisebenzini. Ekugqibeleni, kulula ukuba uxoxe nomhlobo, kwaye uzive ukhululekile kunye nenkampani yakhe, nangona kukho iingxaki emsebenzini.
Kodwa ukuba yonke into ibuhlungu, ngoko kutheni abaninzi benqaba ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nabahlobo? Ngaba zikhona na iingcingo kulo mbandela?
Iingxaki zokusebenza nabangani
-Imigaqo.
Into yokuqala ehlala ejongene nenyaniso yokuba umhlobo we-boss usebenza ukusebenza. Uya kumvumela intombi ukuba ihambe emva kwexesha, kuba uyazi ukuba uhlala kude nomsebenzi, ukuba ugijime ngekusasa, ukuba ufuna ixesha elide lokwenza izinwele zakhe. Ngamehlo akho, oku kubonakala ngathi kulungelelaniso lwemvelo lokuphulwa komsebenzi wangaphakathi. Intombi iya kuphumla kwaye ayiyi kwenza nayiphi na umzamo ukuvela ngexesha kwiofisi, ingxelo ngethuba.
-Gosses.
Akukho nto iba ngumhlaba onobuhle wokuhleba njengento yokuqhagamshelana phakathi komphathi kunye nabangaphantsi. Enoba ubuhlobo obusondeleyo okanye ubuhlobo nje, ngokukhawuleza bonke abantu baya kukwazi malunga nalo. Akufuneki ukuba ulwalamano nomqeshwa onjalo, oqashwe ngumntu owaziwayo, aluyi kuba luhle kakhulu? Nangona umhlobo wakho unomntu onomsebenzi onoxanduva, uya kufuneka abonise ubungakanani bexesha elide lokuba wathathwe kule post, kungekhona nje ngenxa ye-blat.
-Ubukhulu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abahlobo, abo sithatha ukuya emsebenzini ngexesha elibunzima ebomini babo, ngokukhawuleza basebenzise ukuzinza kwaye baqale ukufuna ngaphezulu. Kungokwemvelo-ukufuna ukukhushulwa. Kodwa umhlobo akanako ukuhlala, ngoko unokuba nomona nje. Yiyiphi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayifaki ukuvumelanisa kulwalamano.
-Ingxelo.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, into eyoyikrakra kwaye engathandekiyo eyenzekayo phakathi kokungcatsha. Ukuba umntu osebenza ngaphandle wenza umsebenzi ombi, akubi, kodwa uyanyamezela kwaye ulindeleke. Kodwa xa umhlobo uthengisa, kuyingozi kakhulu. Isizathu sinokuthi sisebenze nantoni na - kunye nomona, kunye neengcikivo zabalingane, kunye nezenzo ezibangelwa kakubi, kodwa inyaniso ihlala - kumhlobo wohlobo abahlali bengabangani.
Kubonakala ukuba, umsebenzi kunye nabahlobo yinto ofuna ukudibanisa kakhulu, kodwa le nto ayinakudibana ngokulula. Unokuqasha intombazana ukuba uyaqiniseka ngaye, ukuba ungathandabuzi iimpawu zakhe zobungcali kwaye ukuba uyifumana indawo yokukhula ngaphandle kokulimaza. Ukuba le miqathango idibeneyo, ubuhlobo bakho abuyi kuhlupheka ngenxa yomsebenzi. Ukuba naliphi na umzuzu olahlekileyo, ngoko unokuqiniseka, ixesha liza kufika xa intombazana iyayeka ukuba nguye. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukucinga ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokunikela kwisilingo nokuvula iingcango zeofisi yakho kubahlobo.