Umona weentombi
Ukuba umntu uphazamisa impumelelo yakho kunye nempumelelo, ngoko unokuyibheka kwindlela yokujonga, ngoko ke impumelelo yakho ibaluleke kwaye umntu angathanda ukuphumelela njengawe, ngoko ke umona. Mhlawumbi, ngamnye wethu unomhlobo othi, embonweni wengubo yakho entsha, ukugcoba okanye uboya bezinwele, uqala ukuthetha ukuba wayesebenye inwele efanayo, kwaye wahamba kakhulu kwaye wamjikeleza kuphela ngeenwele zakhe wathi . Musa ukuthukuthela ngala mazwi uze usebenze ukulungisa iincwele zakho. Ininzi, mhlawumbi, kwathiwa ngomona, ukwenzela ukuba ungakhange ukhangelelene nawe ucebile kwaye uhle kakhulu othe tye kwaye uphumelele.
Umona onina
Ngenxa yomona umama azive ngayo ngentombi yakhe, yonke into iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Unyoko akazukufumana umntwana omncinci ngeminyaka, ixesha apho wayeselula kwaye utyuma sele sele ehamba kancane kancane, kodwa kubonakala ngathi akakwazi ukuwamkela oku. Zama ukuba ungamcaphukisi, unokukunqwenela ngokunyanisekileyo unoyolo nolungileyo, kodwa ngelo xesha uhlala e ngumfazi. Kwaye ngamnye umfazi ufuna ukuba abe ngcono kwaye abe mnandi kunabanye, kwintombi yakhe. Yimvelo yethu. Ukunyamezela unina, kungekhona amandla akhe okubuyisela ulutsha. Cinga ngelinye ilanga uya kuba kwindawo yalo, kwaye ke awuyi kuba ngumqhubi weentombi zakho ezikhulile kunye nentle. Nangona kunjalo, into yokuba unyoko ufuna ukuba ubuncinci ahlale kwaye abukeka enhle njengoko ngaphambili efanelwe inhlonipho. Ngoko mhlawumbi kufuneka uhambe uthenge kunye kunye nokhetho olutsha kuMama? Myeke aqhube umlenze wobudala bakhe aze akhe amehlo oontanga bakho abaza kukutyelela indebe yeeyi.
Inomdla ngabathandekayo
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, inketho enzima kakhulu: umona uphaphama kumfana wakho oselula. Kwaye le sizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba ucinge ngobuhlobo bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba ngoku ixesha elinzima kangaka ebomini bakhe, mhlawumbi iingxaki emsebenzini okanye ezinye izinto azinakulinganiswa, okanye unemeko embi ngalobu busuku. Mhlawumbi ukholelwa kuwe, kodwa waphonsa ibinzana elingenangqondo, ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kokucinga kungekhona ngokubi, kodwa ngokukhathala, umzekelo. Kodwa ukuba oku akusiyo isiganeko esicacile kuye, kwaye oku kuphindaphindiweyo ngezikhathi ezithile, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ubhale ukuziphatha okunjalo kwezinye izinto zangaphandle, ke kukho enye indlela yokuphuma-ukubaleka ngaphandle kokujonga emva kweso sikhulu. Akukho nto enhle kumntu onjalo ebomini ayiyi kuba.
Imigaqo yokukhusela
Ngoko ke unokwenza ntoni ukuze uzihlukanise kwaye ungathathi umona womnye umntu entliziyweni yakho? Masenze imisebenzi ethile.
- Umthetho owodwa: musa ukuvumela umntu ukuba achithe ukholo lwakho kuwe. Yaye wonke umntu makangcangcazelise into ayifunayo, ungaliphulaphuli ulwimi olubi, ube ngaphezu kwabo. Golden aphorism "Smile - iyacaphukisa wonke umntu!" Ngaba ihlaya.
- Ummiselo ombini: yiba nefuthe kakhulu kwaye uqaphele kwiingxelo, ngakumbi kwiintsapho zakho. Uyazi ukuba bunjani ubunzima babo ngoku. Ngamanye amaxesha impumelelo yakho imele ibe yinto encinci, ukwenzela ukuba ingabangeli buhlungu imvakalelo yabantu abasondeleyo. Kwaye xa kufika umzuzu omuhle, unokuxelela izinto ezibalulekileyo kunye ezibalulekileyo kuwe, ngoko kuya kubonakala ngokuhlukileyo.
- Umthetho wesithathu: Ukuba ukuthetha nabanye abantu kukuncintisa, kungcono ukunciphisa ize. Ukuba ngaba nomona ngenxa yeso sizathu, ukuqala ngento yokuba ukwazi ukufikelela kwi-premiere yefilimu kwaye uphela ngomvuzo kumncintiswano wobuhle kwikati yakho, ngoko awukho endleleni efanayo nabantu abanjalo.
Ngoko into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuzithemba kunye namandla akho. Yaye inzondo yabanye ingakuchukumisa ukuba uphumelele ukuphumelela kwintsha kwaye akukho mntu unokukuthintela ekuphumezeni iinjongo zakho.