Namhlanje singathanda ukuthetha ngokuphuhliswa kweentsana, oko kukuthi, iimoto zengqondo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umama uyazi ukuba umntwana ohambayo usempilweni, ngenxa yoko ubonakalise umdla kumhlaba ojikeleze kuye kwaye ufuna ukumazi. Kusuka kwinqaku lethu uya kufunda malunga nokuphuhliswa komntwana ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kunyaka kufuneka kwenzeke.
Ukunyamekela umntwana wakhe, ngunyaka wokuqala wobomi, abazali bayaqaphela indlela ukuziphatha kwakhe kwemoto kuguquka ngayo. Ukuphakamisa kwinkqubo yokusebenzisana nomama, zonke izakhono zomntwana ziphuhliswa: inzwa (ukukwazi ukuqonda), imoto, iimvakalelo zengqondo, iinkqubo zokuqonda kunye nentetho.
Iimpendulo zokuqala zentsana zisekelwe kwiingcamango ezingenanto. Kuyixesha eliqhelekileyo ukuqonda izinto ezifakwe kwisibambo, zifuna ngomlomo kwaye ziyelise, zifake isandi esibukhali, ukukhanya, ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza, ukuyeka ukujonga isihloko esibanjwe kwintsimi yombono, ukuthatha isikhundla esithile kwindawo ethile, njl.
Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesibini yobomi, usana luyakwazi ukulawula ukuhamba kwamehlo, ukuwayeka kwizinto ezinomdla, kwaye ulandelele, ngokukhawuleza ukuba zihamba ngokukhawuleza, ukuhamba kwezinto ezicothayo. Iingcamango ezingenakunqunyulwa, ezifana ne-reflexes yokukhawulela, i-gait ngokuzenzekelayo, i-reflexes ye-cervical-tonic engabonakaliyo, iqalisa ukucima iingcamango ezingenanto, inani leentshukumo eziqhubekayo landa kwaye i-tonus kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwemisipha yamalungu angaphezulu kuyahla.
Ekuqaleni kwenyanga yesithathu, umntwana unengcamango evumela imilenze kunye neengalo ukuba zingagxili, kunye ne-reflex symmetrical reflex (ngokukodwa ivakaliswe kwiinyanga ezi-ezine), ukuze i-karapuz iphakamise ibhinqa elipheleleyo kunye nentloko.
Ngexesha leyesithathu neyesine zenyanga zobomi, umntwana uqala ukulungelelanisa imoto: elele emhlane wakhe, inkunzi iphakamisa izibambo ebusweni kwaye ihlolisise ngokukhawuleza, ijonge ukuhamba kwezinto ize ifike kubo, ikhuthazwa ukubona izinto ezithakazelisayo xa zifumaneka umgama. Ukuphuhliswa kokubambisana nokuhamba kwezandla kunye nokulawulwa kombono kunika umntwana ithuba lokwenza izinto ezinenjongo (ukukhutshulwa okusebenzayo kwamathoyizi).
Xa uneminyaka engamahlanu ubudala, umntwana usenokubuya ukusuka kumqolo ngokwawo. Ngosizo lomntu omdala uhlala phantsi, kwaye iinyanga ezintandathu zihlala zodwa. Kwiinyanga ezisixhenxe, ukunyuka kwemisipha kwandipha, ukuphendulwa kwenkxaso kubonakala, kunye nefuthe le-extensor liyaqhubeka. Kwiinyanga ezisibhozo, umqhubi wemveliso ukwanda ngokukhawuleza: ufikelela kuzo zonke ezine, uhlala phantsi, uguqula intloko yakhe ngokuzithemba, uphendulele kwisisu sakhe nangemuva. Kwizinto eziphathekayo zezifundo, zombini izandla zithatha inxaxheba, ithatha izinto. Ngeenyanga ezilisithoba ubudala inyana izama ukuvuka, iyinceda ngeepenji, idonsa, ivule ngamadolo. Kwiinyanga ezilishumi uvuka ngaphandle koluncedo lomntu omdala, kodwa uyawa. Udlala kunye neetayimu ixesha elide, ngexesha elifanayo, ngokokuqala ngqa, iminwe yesibini neyesithathu ibandakanyeka ngamandla emsebenzini wezandla. Ekuqaleni konyaka wesibini wobomi, ezininzi iintsana zihamba, zigcina ibhalansi engaqinisekanga.
Ngenxa yoko, umntwana unako ukulawula ukuhamba kwentloko, i-trunk nezandla, okumvumela ukuba ahlale, ahambe, avule aze abambe intloko. Yiyo le mpendulo evumela umntwana ukuba wandise amasimu ekujonga kunye nokubonakala kweefom zomsebenzi wakhe wenjongo. Ukungabikho kwabo ekuziphatheni komntwana oneminyaka elilodwa kufuneka baqaphele abazali ukuba, ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka badibane ne-neurologist yezilwanyana okanye i-psychoneurologist.
Bazali, jongani ngenkuthalo yentuthuko yomntwana wakho, kwaye xa kuyimfuneko, dibana nodokotela. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yayo, kuthatha umzamo omkhulu. Wena ungumkhokeli womntwana ebomini. Yenze ikhanyise kwaye inomdla!