Kutheni iimpumlo ziphuma?
Kwincwadi yokuphupha yombhalo kuthiwa igazi eliphuma ekhaleni liphupha ukuba umnqweno wakho wokufezekisa umnjongo oyifunayo uya kuvuzwa, kodwa kuya kufuneka wenze imizamo eninzi. Ukwahlula okwesibini ukuchazwa yinto yokuba amandla okuphila ashiya umphupha, oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ahlawule ingqalelo ngokukodwa kwiimeko zempilo.
Kwincwadi encinci yephupha iVeles ukubona igazi elivela ekhaleni lakho kwiqonga lokuba kufuneka uqwalasele ngokunyamekileyo izenzo zakho uze uthathe izigqibo ezinzima.
Incwadi yephupha yekhulu lama-21 ibonisa impumelelo kunye nobomi obonwabileyo ukuba awuzange uzive ukhululekile xa uphala.
Iphupha apho awukwazi ukumisa ukuhamba kwegazi kwiempumlo zakho zibi. Unokuthi, ngokukhawuleza uza kufuneka unyamezele isifo esibi okanye umntu ohlala kwintsapho yakho uya kuba neengxaki ezininzi, ekunqobeni okuza kubandakanyeka ngqo. Zama ukubonana, okanye ubuncinane ubize izihlobo zakho - mhlawumbi ziya kufuna uncedo lwakho.
Uphupha ukuba igazi eliphuma ekhaleni liphuma kwiingxaki zakho? Unokulindela ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba umchasi wakho okanye umchasi uya kutshabalalisa ngokukhawuleza ekuboneni kwaye akuyeke ukucaphukisa. Ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, kubonakala ukuba oku kwenzekile kuwe, ngoko oku kunokubonisa ingozi ebomini bakho.
Ezinye ukutolika kwegazi
- Incwadi yephupha likaMiller, le ncazelo yokulala ibanikezelwa, apho unakho ukuphuza: mhlawumbi uye waphumelela ukuphakanyiswa kwesinye isikhundla, lungiselela ntoni kwikamva elikufutshane ungancishiswa ngenxa yeemeko zobomi. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukubonakalisa ukuqina komoya kunye nokuqonda - qaphela ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ngoko umbono awuyi kuzaliseka.
- Ukuphuma kwegazi kunokuqikelela ukuba kuya kufuneka ube ngumthengisi. Kwimeko nayiphi na, nangona unyanzelekile ukuba wenze oku, kufuneka ushiye lo myalelo, kuba ekugqibeleni, ukudumazeka kunye nokulahlekelwa kuphela kuya kulindeleke kuwe.
- Ixabiso lobu bomi lingahluka ngokuxhomekeka kwixesha. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba igazi elivela ekhaleni uphupha ehlobo, ngoko kungekudala uza kuba neentloni ezininzi. Yilungiselele ubuninzi beengcinezelo emsebenzini onokunyusa impilo yakho, kunye nokuba unyango luyakuthi lube lukhulile kwaye lunzima.
- Iphupha lika-Azar lithembisa ukuba unxulumana ngokukhawuleza kunye nabadala abaqhelana nabo, obani na ukukhulumisana nabo belahlekile, kwaye awubonanga ixesha elide.
- Incwadi yephupha yaseBritani iguqulela iphupha ngegazi elivela ekhaleni ngendlela elandelayo: okokuqala, iphupha elinjalo lingabonakalisa ukulahlekelwa kwemali enkulu; Okwesibini, kukho ithuba eliphakamileyo lokuba kusondele umntu othandekayo kuwe okanye ngenye indlela ushiye ubomi bakho.
- Ukuba ubonile ukuba igazi elivela ekhaleni linempahla engcolileyo - yibonononophelo kwaye uqaphele - kukho iintshaba ezifihlakeleyo ezizama ukukhusela inkqubela yakho kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Zama ukuba ungathethi nabanye, ubuncinane emsebenzini. Xa kwenzeka ukuphuma kwegazi, kubandakanywa nezandla, lungiselela iindwendwe ezingahambelwanga ezokukuvakashela kungekudala.
Uninzi lweenguqulelo zeencwadi zephupha ngegazi ezisuka ekhaleni ziqwalaselwa nje ngezilumkiso malunga neengozi kunye nobunzima obusondeleyo. Ngoko ke, hlalutye ngokucokisekileyo imiqondiso enjalo kwaye musa ukuwahoxisa ukuba uphumelele ukuphepha iingxaki.