Yintoni thina, abafazi, ngokusemthethweni sifuna? Abantwana abaphilileyo, ihostela apho umntu ahlala khona, mhlawumbi ubuncinane ubuncinane beemithathu, imoto enokuthi iqhutywe, imoto engaphandle, ukuhlala kunye nabahlobo bethu nobomi, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu indoda eyayiza kusinika konke oku. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukhetho lwethu luwela kulabo abangenakusinika omnye okanye omnye, kodwa banokunika abantwana ... kwaye abantwana kufuneka bakhuliswe kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo. Ewe, yintoni enokuyenza, ukuba singabafazi besilumko. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka sikhuphe amadoda ethu, afundise kwaye afundise indlela yokwenza imali. Kuthiwani ukuba sakhula indoda kwaye simkhulula inkululeko? Kuthiwani ukuba umthandi wangaphambili unokusinika yonke into, kwaye akukho nto ayikho - nto. Kutheni ndifuna umntu owayengumthandi - isihloko sesihloko sethu.
Kwaye ngoku ubiza kwaye uthi uyifumene umsebenzi obalaseleyo, apho ekhanyeni ephezulu emazulwini. Ibiza elinye ixesha kwaye ithi uyathenga imoto-imoto yangaphandle, kwaye ingekho inkunkuma apho. Iyakhonkotha okwesithathu kwaye ithi uya kuthenga indlu, kwaye ayikho igumbi elilodwa, kodwa isakhiwo esineqhekeza ezintathu. Kwaye lithetha ntoni le mibi? Mhlawumbi le nto inomdla wokubuyisela ubuhlobo, ubuze umbuzo-Kutheni ndifuna umntu owayesithandayo - nje ngokuba wamenza umntu ophumelelayo? Kwaye uya kumthanda kuphela oko? Uya kukuthanda aze akuhloniphe? Okanye mhlawumbi ucinga nje ungumhlobo, kwaye ubiza kwaye ahlanganyele naye uvuyo kunye nomhlobo, kuba xa uthe wahlukana, uthe "Ndiyaxolisa, masihlale sihlobo" kwaye uyazithoba emva kwesicelo sakho. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukukubonisa igolide elahlekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba ulume iingqamlezo zakho?
Kwaye makhe sithethe malunga noko uvakalelwa ngoku kuye nendlela yokunyanga ngayo. Ewe, i-female ego ithi "ndenze njalo ngale ndlela, kwaye konke akwenzayo, kufuneka ayenze kum," kodwa uziva ntoni kuye? Akukho nto, inzondo kuphela kunye nokuhaha, ngokuqinisekileyo, asifuni ukunika elinye igolide kwintombi, awunayo imvakalelo efudumele kuye, kwaye awuqinisekanga ukuba loo mvakalelo yayingaphambili. Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Singabesifazane! Nangona ubudenge kunye ne-naivete, sinobuqili kwaye sinokuhlala sifumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko engenakwenzeka. Into ephambili yokukhumbula kukuba sonke sinakho. Kunokwenzeka ukusuka kumthandi wamanje ohlala entliziyweni yakho, ukwenza okufanelekileyo, ukufundisa nokuqonda into oyifunayo kuye okufuneka uhlale kwixesha elizayo kunye naye, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ngobuninzi.
Phantse bonke abantu bakholelwa ukuba amabhinqa angamadalwa enkohliso abafuna kubo kuphela imali kunye nobutyebi, iimoto kunye neadayimane, kuphela abaziqondi ukuba kutheni sifuna. Ubume sele sele bubekiwe kuthi konke oku kubekayo, kuba ukuba ubukela i-Animal Animals Plan, zibonisa into efanayo. Umzekelo, inkunzi yesibini ikhetha indoda eneempondo ezinkulu, kuba izimpondo ezinkulu zibonisa ubungangamsha negunya lendoda, iintlanzi ezininzi zeentombi zikhetha amadoda kunye nombala oqhakazileyo wezikali, iingonyama ziyingonyama ezinezinkumbi ezinkulu eziphethe indawo, kwaye amabhinqa akhetha amadoda anekhredithi enkulu , kunye nemoto enkulu kunye neendlu ezinkulu, kwaye kunjalo, ngokumthanda kakhulu.
Abantu abaninzi baphikisa ukuba isondo sisidalwa sezilwanyana, okanye sithetha ngezinye iintlobo zezilwanyana zasendle, kunye nabasetyhini - lethu ikamva elicebileyo libonakaliso lendalo yesilwanyana, esele ivela kubafazi. Ngoko ke, ukuba abantu abayiqondi le nto, kuba asikwazi ukulwa nale nto, kwaye asiyi kuhamba, kuba kufuneka sinikezelwe yonke into eyimfuneko kuthi, kuba sizalela abantwana kubo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba abantwana - oku kuqhubeka kwabo, kungekhona yethu.
Kwaye ke, sibuyele apho siqalise khona. Ukubuyela emva akukufanelekanga, kwaye ukuzama ukubuyisela umthandi wangaphambili akufanelekanga, kuba umntu onovuyo kuphela uphindela emuva, kwaye ngaloo ndlela uyakudlula ixesha elizayo. Khangela phambili kwaye ungaphuthelwa yinto enokukunika konke oku okwangoku. Yiba nesineke nomntu okhethiweyo, kuba ukuhlambalaza kwinqanaba lakho kuya kwandisa ingxaki yakho. Kuyimfuneko ukuyichukumisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuchanekileyo kwikamva elikhanyayo, kuba akuyiyo into ayithethayo ngokuthi "uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza". Yithande okwangoku, kwaye uyabanakekele, unike indoda yakho yonke uthando lwakhe, kwaye uya kuphosa kwiinyawo zakho konke ofuna, ikusasa eliqaqambileyo kubandakanya. Kutheni ufuna umntu owayethandana naye xa unesimo esibuhlungu kunye nesimo sangoku?