Into kukuba ukugcina indoda, akuyimfuneko ukuba ube intombazana entle kunye nobuhle. Kwanele nje ukufunda indlela yokuphatha amadoda. Kwaye oko kuyakufuneka ukuba ufunde ngokucophelela amandla abo kunye nobuthathaka babo, badlala ngobuchule kwiimpawu zomntu wabo, njengomculi we-virtuoso kwi-cello.
Indlela yokuxhaphaza yamadoda
Kakade, bonke abantu bahluke, kodwa izakhono ezithile zisebenza kuzo zonke ngaphandle ngaphandle. Ngokomzekelo, ukhetho lokuphumelela kukukhetha enye imiboniso yamandla kunye nobuthathaka. Ukungafani okuqhubekayo kuya kukuguqulela ibe yindoda engunaphakade, kwaye akukho nto ibangelisayo njengento engaqondakaliyo.
Enye inqubo engayi kukuvumela ukuba ukwesaba ukushiywa ngasemva kukuba ube namandla, ukwanele kwaye uzimeleyo. Hayi, kungekhona njengomntu, kodwa ngendlela yakhe, njengowesifazane. Zama ukumbonisa uthando lwakho ngamaxesha onke, ungaphindi igama: "Awuyi kundishiya? Ngaba awuyeke ukuwa othandweni? Andiyi kuphila! "Makhe acinge ukuba uyamdinga ngaphezu koko akufunayo. Unokuzithanda ngothando nabanye abantu abambalwa phambi kwakhe - umzekelo, kwiqela okanye kude (akufuneki ukuba uhambe kakhulu).
Umthetho wesithathu uhlala ubomi bakho! Vumela ukuba uphumelele emsebenzini wakho, usebenzise ngentshiseko umsebenzi, ufunde iilwimi zangaphandle. Yenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi nje ngaleyo ndlela, kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela kubukho bobopheleleko bomntu. Isiqingatha esomeleleyo kakhulu siyabaxabisa abafazi abazithembekileyo nabaphumelelayo, aba bafazi abahambi.
Umgaqo wesine: qi niseka ukuba ufunde ukupheka! Amadoda aye ahlala emthanda aze athande ukutya ngokumnandi. Ngoko ke mayeke ukulungiswa kokutya kuphenduke ubuqili! Ungamondli nge-banal borscht ne-vareniki, bonisa ukucinga kunye nobuchule. Buza izitya zokupheka ngokusekelwe kwi-aphrodisiacs - i-shrimp, i-mussels, i-oyster, i-honey, i-nut, njl. Yilungiselela into evela kwi-Mexican okanye yaseChina.
Ulawulo lwesihlanu: musa ukwesaba uvavanyo lwezesondo nomntu oyintanda! Zama ukuvumelana naluphi na iziphakamiso zakhe - mhlawumbi uyaziqonda iingcamango zakhe, kodwa sele ekhona nomnye umntu.
Umthetho wesithandathu: umdumise umyeni wakho ngokungapheli, udla ngokumdumisa njengomntu omnye, kunye nezihlobo, abahlobo, abahlobo. Amazwi amnandi kukuba bonke abantu bathanda kakhulu, abaqhelekanga. Batshele into emnandi - kubasetyhini abanjalo, amadoda ahambe.
Ukuba wahamba
Kwaye ngoku uzama ukucinga ukuba uselishiyile. Kodwa wazama kakhulu ukwenza konke oku ngasentla! Kodwa cinga: kutheni engenalo ilungelo lokushiya, ayeke ukuthanda uze uthandane nomnye? Emva koko, nayiphi na indoda, nokuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, inelungelo lokonwaba. Musa ukushiya amadoda nonke, kuphela xa behlala entolongweni.
Zama ukugxila kule ngxaki: "iya kuhamba-ayiyi kuhamba." Ukuba ukhathele uluntu lwakho - akukho tricks apha aluyi kunceda. Ukuba uthe wenza ngale ndlela, uya kushiya. Ngoko, akudingeki ukuba udideke kuzo zonke, apho abafazi abangenako ukuhamba khona, ngaba ukhangeleka njengowesifazane? ... Cinga njalo: ukuba akushiye, makabe mbi kuye. Emva kwayo yonke into yalahlekelwa ngumfazi oyingqayizivele, engazange ahlangane nanini na!