1. Khawuleza ukwenza okulungileyo kubantu. Ukuba yonke into efanelekileyo ebomini, yibonge ngokuzayo kwaye uncede omnye xa umntu engonwabileyo. Ekugqibeleni, lo mkhwa uza kuhamba kakuhle kuwe. 2. Mva kaninzi ngaphezu kwesithandwa. Yenza oku xa ushiya, uye emsebenzini, kwaye xa udibana emva komsebenzi. Ngokwezibalo, abo baqabane abangazelayo kunye neentlanganiso, bahlala bengaphantsi kwee-30% kunezo zibini ezilinganiselwe kumagama athi "bye", "hello".
3. Kubalulekile ukufaka imilinganiselo efanelekileyo kubantwana. Ukufunyanwa kwemilinganiselo enhle akubizi nto kumntwana, kufuneke ukuba kwenziwe umzamo ovela kubazali. Nangona kunjalo, konke oku kulungile: emva koko, imilinganiselo emihle, le yimfundo enhle. Umntwana ulingisa wena, uphinda into ephindwe ngunyoko nonina. Kuba ufumana indumiso, abazali bachaze isizathu sokuba ufune ukutshiza amazinyo kwaye ufunde indlela yokubonga.
4. Kufuneka ufunde indlela yokubala imali. Yonke imini ikhuphe i-10% yemali enayo, iya kuba yesikhwama sakho sokugcina. Nangona unemivuzo ephantsi, unokukwenza ngaphandle kokunciphisa indlela yakho yokuphila. Funda ukukhokela ukuhlaziywa kwekhaya lakho. Thumela indoda ukuba idle ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa, emva kokumnika uluhlu lokuthenga. Konke oku kuya kufikelela kwi-30% yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali, olwabiwe ekutya.
5. Ziqhelise ukuba uhlambulule ubuso bakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhathele kangakanani kusihlwa kwaye ungabi msinya ukusa kusasa, yenza njalo 2 ngosuku. Abo bafazi abaphendulele le nkqubo ibe ngumkhwa, jonga iminyaka engama-3-4 emncinane kunontanga yabo abangahlambululi ubuso babo. Sebenzisa i-gel-gel yokuhlamba, ukuhlamba, nokuhlambulula iimveliso kunye nolusu lwakho luya kuba luphilile kwaye luhlambuluke.
6. Fundisa izinto ezintle ebomini bakho. Ukulahla imikhwa emibi: umzekelo, ukutya ngokutya, ukutshaya. Qala ukuvuka uze ulale ngexesha ngamanye amaxesha. Ngentsasa kunomso wokusela wekhofi, kwaye ngokuhlwa kusikhundla seti, ukusela i-kefir. Qala ukuhlamba endaweni yokuhlamba. Esikhundleni sendlela eqhelekileyo, umsebenzi wendlu, yenza indawo ephakathi kwendawo yokupaka, i-cafe, i-vernissage.
7. Zama ukutya ngokufanelekileyo. Lo mkhwa osebenzayo uza kukunika uncedo oluhle, unqeni oluqhekezayo, kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuhlala iminyaka engama-6.6. Yenza i-vitamin breakfast, isidlo esinempilo, isidlo esilungileyo nje.
8. Hlangana nabahlobo bakho. Ubomi bakho, mhlawumbi unabangane obaluleke kuwe. Emva kokuqhagamshelana nabahlobo kunciphisa izinga loxinzelelo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba iingxoxo kwifowuni nakwiintlanganiso kwiindawo aziqwalaselwa.
9. Ekugqibeleni, ungene kwimidlalo. Ukuze ugcine ukuvumelanisa kweefom kunye nokuthokoza komoya, ungathenga ukubhalisa kwiinkcukacha ezemidlalo, okanye ekhaya ukulungiselela igumbi lokufaneleka. Oku kuyindlela yokwenza uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, uya kufuna umbhoxo wokuqeqesha, ukunqumla intambo. Eyona nto ilungileyo yokucwangcisa isicwangciso, ukuqhuba izihlandlo ezi-3 ngeveki imizuzu engama-30. Kule mkhuba inqunyiwe, iingcali ziya kufuna iintsuku ezingama-21.
10. Thinta intle. Ngubani ozama ukuhamba kunye nabantwana kwiindawo zokudlala, egcina ubudlelwane bokholo kunye nabo xa bekhula.