Kukho izicwangciso zengqondo ezikhethekileyo, ezilandelayo apho ungeke uphendule kuphela imibuzo ekhohlisayo uze ufake umdlali wakho kwisimo esingakhululekile, kodwa ujonge kakuhle. Ukuze ungabonakali ukunyaniseka kwimeko yangempela, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ezi zicwangciso uze ucele abahlobo okanye izalamane ukuba ziqeqeshe kunye nawe.
Iingcebiso ezivela kumprofeti kunye noSherlock Holmes
Xa umnxibelelwano ekubuza umbuzo othize, akumele uphendule kuyo ngendlela efanayo. Unokunika impendulo efanayo nomprofeti kwi-anecdote. Xa uSherlock Holmesletel ebhaleni waza walahlekelwa yindlela, wabuza, "Nkosi, uya kuthi usitsho ukuba siphi na?" Umprofeti waphendula ngobumnene wathi, "Mfundisi, usemkhatsini webhaluni." Nangona into yokuba impendulo ayifumananga ulwazi oluncedo, umprofeti waphendula inyaniso kwaye washiya imeko engathandeki kuye.
Kwakhona, unokunika impendulo epheleleyo eya kukukunceda ukuba uphume, kodwa awuyi kunikwa. Umzekelo, umbuzo othi "Unokuhlawulwa kangakanani?", Ungaphendula ngokuthi "Ndifumana umvuzo we-pootrasli."
Impembelelo ye-Mirror
Ukuba umnxibelelwano ucela umbuzo oyisichukuphulo okanye ongathandekiyo kuwe, unokuphuma kuloo mbuzo ngokumbuza umbuzo wokuphendula. Kule meko, unokusebenzisa enye yeendlela zobuqili.
Qulunqa umbuzo wempendulo nganoma yiphi na indlela, ukuze umdlali abe neentloni ngomdla wakhe ebomini bakho. Ukuqulunqa, ungasebenzisa ibinzana elikhethekileyo elithi "Ukuba ndiqonda kakuhle, ngoko ...", ekupheleni kwayo kuya kuxhomekeka kumbuzo owacelwayo, kwaye nokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nokuxhumana ngalesi sihloko okanye ufuna ukuyeka ingxoxo uze ungabuyeli kwesi sihloko .
Ukuba umnxibelelwano unomdla onentshiseko ebomini bakho, uthi "Ukuba ndiqonda ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko awubeki ikhandlela ebhedeni lam?" Okanye "Ukuba ndiqonda kakuhle, awukwazi ukulala uze ufunde iinkcukacha zobomi bam?"
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuthetha konke lokhu ngokuzithoba nangokuzithobayo, ilizwi kufuneka litshintshwe, akudingeki ukuba u-gesticulate. Ubuninzi obunakho ukukwazi ukuwukhawulela ukuphakamisa i-eyebrow.
Isicatshulwa sesibini kukunyusa inxaxheba kwingxoxo, kubuza umnxibelelwano olunjalo olubuqili-mibuzo. Umzekelo, ukuba umchasi uyabuza, "Uya kugqiba nini ekunikeni inkonzo?", Unokubuza ukuba "Ngaba ulahlekelwe ngengozi emsebenzini?"
Yiba ne talente yomdlali
Xa ubuzwa umbuzo ongathandekiyo, unokuhlala udlala indima, ngaphandle kokubonisa ubuhlobo bakho bokwenene kwingxaki. Kule meko, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhethwa kwimeko.
Ungadlala ithemba kwaye uthi ngelizwi elibuhlungu, "Ndiyakuncenga, ungaphinda uthethe ngawo." Ikhetho lesibini - uzive ungummeli wangempela kwinkomfa, uthi "Siyabonga, umbuzo olandelayo." Unokuphinda uphendule kwifomu yamahlaya "Le ngcaciso imfihlo, kwaye ifumaneka kuphela kubakhethiweyo".
Musa ukuzala
Nangona i-interlocutor ibuhlungu kakhulu, awukwazi ukubonisa ubuthathaka bakho naziphi na izinto. Esikhundleni sokuthukuthela, ukucaphukisa, ukumemeza, kungcono ukumomotheka nokunika impendulo enobungangamsha ngelizwi elingakhethi.
Beka umchasi wakho ekupheleni kokufa, uye kwiinkcukacha ezifihlakeleyo eziya kumenza adideke. Umzekelo:
"Uya kutshata nini na?"
- Umkhangeli wam uthi okokuqala kuyimfuneko ukhetha usuku olungileyo, ngaphandle koko umtshato uya kutshabalaliswa ngenxa yelinen. Ama-Ascendants kufuneka ahlangane, emva koko sibini siqonda ukuba sifanele sitshatile. Xa sivalelwa, ngosuku lokuqala olufanelekileyo lwekhalenda yenyanga, sitshata.
Zama ukuthetha ngengqondo eqondayo kunye nengenangqondo njengamazwi amaninzi kunye nemigqaliselo enokwenzeka, apho umnxibelelwano engaqondi ngokupheleleyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kufuna ukuqhubeka nencoko.
Joke
Amahlaya aseWitty anokuhlala ekunceda ukuba aphume kwimeko ephazamisayo.
"Ingakanani le ndleko ixabisa?"
- Ndaphoxisa umnyaka, kodwa kwafuneka ndibole imali ebhankini, kodwa akukho nto, ubuhle bufanele!
Iimpendulo kuzo zonke izihlandlo
Kwaye ngoku sizama ukuqokelela iimpendulo ezona zizonke eziza kunceda ukuphuma kwaye ziphephe imeko engathandekiyo.
- Ndiyathokoza nje nge talente yakho ukubuza imibuzo engalunganga!
"Kucelwa uthathe impumlo yakho. Ndiyifumene kwimicimbi yam."
Ngaba unomdla kakhulu ebomini bam? Ndivakalelwa njengenkwenkwezi yangempela. Ngaba uyazi ukuba iinkwenkwezi azikuthandi ukuvakalisa ishishini labo?
Kwaye ekugqibeleni. Amantombazana angatshatanga ngokuqinisekileyo ahlala esesichengeni xa eceliweyo. Ngesidima, unako ukuphuma kule meko ngokuphendula, "Ndiyazibuza ukuba nditshatile, ngaba ubuya kubuza xa ndiqhawule umtshato?"