Ukubonakala komntwana kuzisa uvuyo endlwini, ekugqibeleni ukufumana izithandwa ezimbini kwiintsapho. Kodwa apho kukho uvuyo, ngokubhekiselele kulo kuxanduva, ukuphakamisa izidingo, ukunakekelwa okhethekileyo ... Umntwana uza emhlabeni evela kwenye "iplanethi" yakhe, kwaye yonke into elapha apha entsha, ininzi yokufunda, ukulungelelanisa izinto ezininzi. Kwaye ngaphandle koluncedo lwabadala abadala nabanamandla - akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle koluncedo. Kwaye silindele umntwana!
Njengomthetho, emva kokufunda malunga nokukhulelwa kwakhe, umfazi uzama ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe kunye neendawo ezizungezile ukuya kwindawo ephilileyo. Umama ozayo uhlaziya isondlo sakhe sokondla, ukhetha iimveliso ezilula, ezokusingqongileyo. Ngokufanelekileyo, isondlo sayo sisilungile: akubandakanyi ukutshaya, utywa, utywe, utyhefu, utyeshe kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo "konke okusolisayo." Kodwa kukho imifuno nemifuno, ukutya kweeprotheni, imifino. Kwaye ngoku i-salads ayinayo i-mayonnaise, kodwa ngeoli yeoli, kwaye kunokuba i-cutlets edikiweyo, iintlanzi zisetyenziselwa isibini.
Ukuqhubela phambili umbala wexesha elizayo umama uya endleleni yakhe yobomi. Okuhamba phambili emoyeni omtsha, ukungapheli nto kunye nokunyamezela, jonga entle, cinga ngezinto ezilungileyo. Ngaphakathi kwenceba!
Endaweni ethile ukusuka kwi-trimester yesibini, xa ukuphazamiseka kokuqala kunye nokwesaba kusemva, abafazi bavakalisa ngelungiselelo lesidleke somntwana. Ulungiso luqala! Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ityala liyimfuneko, kodwa kwelinye - lusizi kwaye lengozi. Mhlawumbi umfazi okhulelwe uyaxhomekeka kwiimeko ezinje, kufuneka akhumbule: indima yakhe kulo mbandela iyinjongo: ukuphosa umunwe wakhe kwisisombululo sangaphakathi kwiphephancwadi, khetha iphepha lodonga kunye nombala wemibala kwi-palette yombala, kwaye uthathe inxaxheba-hayi-no. Ehlabathini elungileyo, abazali (okanye ubuncinci bamama) bafudukela ixesha lokulungiswa kwindawo yokuhlala eqeshwe okanye kwiintsapho. Kodwa ngokwenene akusoloko esebenza ngale ndlela. Kwaye kuyimfuneko kummelwane osetyhini okhulelweyo ekwakheni imithi, iingubo "eziqhumayo" kunye neengxowa zomhlaba othuliweyo. Ngaba awukwazi ukuhamba? Ncitshiswe ingozi yomntwana kwisisu. Ngexesha eliyingozi kakhulu - umzobo weendonga, iibhetri, njl., Usasahamba iintsuku ezimbalwa ukusuka kumqulu. Ukuphunga emibini yemibala kuyingozi! Yenza yonke into ibe yicwecwe, ihlambuluke kwaye ihlolwe, kwaye emva koko ungabuyela ekhaya. Kuyafana okufanayo malunga nexesha elibi kakhulu-xa iindonga ziqothulwe, iindonga ziyachithwa. Konke oku kuthuli kwendawo kubonakala kunobungozi. Xa ukhetha izinto zokulungisa, qwa lasela ulwalamano lwendalo kunye nobume bendalo. Ukubonelelwe ukuba uluhlu oluninzi olukhoyo kwii-shelves, ukukhetha okukhuselekileyo akuyi kuba nzima. Ngoko, endaweni ye-linoleum kuyimfuneko ukubeka ipakethe okanye ubuncinane i-laminate, kungcono ukhethe iphepha lodonga olungelona lucwecwe kwaye lingenakunakho, kodwa iphepha, iingubo okanye imifuno. Ewe, siya kuphinda, sopende, glue iphepha lodonga, okanye weqa umgca we-stepladder awukwazi. Yiyeke kwiingcali. Ewe, okanye njengesigqibo sokugqibela, iqela labangane abaholwa ngumyeni olungele ukwenza imisebenzi.
Ufana nomntwana ococekileyo
Ukuba uthembekile ngokwenene, umntwana akadingi igumbi elilodwa. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala uza kuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabazali bakhe. Kodwa ukuba ubukhulu bendawo buvumela, umncinci uya kuba wanikwa igumbi ukususela ekuqaleni. Yenze kube lula kwaye kuphephile kuye. Ukulawulwa kobuhlobo bemvelo kwindawo yezingane kufuneka kube nzima nakakhulu kunamanye amagumbi. Ubuninzi bemvelo, ubuncinci bomgangatho!
Xa incoko iphathelene ne-nursery, idla ngokukhawuleza, yintoni okufanele ibe yimibala ekhanyayo okanye e-pastel. Bathethekisa. Isisombululo se-"colorful" sithetha ukuba umntwana uhlukanisa kuphela imibala emine eyimvelaphi ekuzalweni (obomvu, obomvu, obuluhlaza, ophuzi), obuntwaneni ngokwawo - lixesha lokukhanyisa, ngoko kufuneka uhlobise umntwana ngokuzala. Kwaye abo bemibala emihle, baqinisekise ukuba akukho nto ijikeleze umntwana akufanele icaphukise, kwaye i-shades ekhanyayo inomsindo onamandla. Inyaniso kukuba, ngokusoloko, kwindawo ethile phakathi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukwenza imibala ephambili yobomvu obomvu okanye obusibhakabhaka ayifanelekanga, izicwangciso ezichaseneyo - ayinayo inketho. Kodwa ukunciphisa yonke into kwisiqwenga esityebileyo, i-tender-light-light green or blue-blue-bust. Ukujonga ngapha kwekamelo, umntwana akanayo into yokubamba. Ngoko ke, kukufanelekile ukufaka iinkcukacha ezikhanyayo okanye izinto zokusebenza (imifanekiso, amathoyizi, umzekelo).
Yintoni akufanele ibe yindawo yokulala?
- ifenitshala kunye neziganeko, iinkcukacha eziyinkimbinkimbi kunye neepatheni ezininzi - azinakwenzeka ukuba asule kwaye ngoko kunzima ukugcina ucocekile;
- "ubuhle" obungenamsebenzi ". Ngokomzekelo, umbhede onogqabha ukhangeleka kakhulu kumfanekiso kumaphephancwadi, kodwa ebomini loyilo oluyinkimbinkimbi luqokelela uthuli kwaye lufuna umgudu ongakumbi. Zonke iingubo ezikwigumbi labantwana kufuneka zisebenzise, kulula ukuzisusa kwaye zigugule;
- Iipatethi, iithayibhile ezinkulu ezithambileyo - olunye uchungechunge lwabaqokeleli basothuli abangenaluthintelo abanzima ukugcina bahlambulukile kwinqanaba elifunwa ngumntwana;
- Vula amashalofu kunye neencwadi ezininzi. Baqokelela uthuli, oko kungabangela ukuphazamiseka komzimba. Cinga malunga nokuba unako ukuhlambulula nokucoca nganye incwadi nganye ngeveki. Zingaphi iincwadi ezifunwa ngumntwana? Akuninzi. Ilayibrari yabantwana abaninzi banokuhlanganiswa kwigumbi lokuhlala.
Iingcali ze-feng shui zikholelwa ukuba kulungile ukuba umntwana abekwe kufuphi nomnyango wangaphambili njengoko kunokwenzeka. Ikamelo elikude kufuneka lihlale nabazali. Ngexesha elifanayo kuyinqweneleka ukuba iifestile zegumbi labantwana ziya empuma-oku kukhuthaza ukukhula nokuphuhliswa. Inendima ebalulekileyo inikwe isilwanyana somntwana. Akufanele kubekwe ngokumalunga nomnyango wangaphambili. Ungakhethi imodeli ephantsi okanye ngamabhokisi angezantsi-amandla amnandi ka-chi kufuneka ajikeleze ngokukhululekile phantsi kokubini ngaphantsi kwesikhalazo nangaphezulu. Ngaphezulu kwendawo yokulala, akufuneki kube nemigxobhozo, ilenga amashalofu.
Iingcali zeFeng Shui zicebisa ukuba zibaleke kwiibhedi zeblue, kunye nakwiimodyuli, apho iibhedi ikhona phezulu, kwaye phantsi kwayo - indawo yokufunda. Kwimeko yokuqala, ukuba luphakamileyo kakhulu, umntwana ungena kwindawo apho kukho amandla angama-qi, kwaye okwesibini - iba ngumthintelo wokudibanisa imisebenzi emibini ephikisanayo-ukulala kunye nomsebenzi. Ngenxa yoko, xa ufanele usebenze, umntwana uya kulala phezu kweencwadi ngenxa yempembelelo yokucindezela yendawo ephumayo ephezulu kwitheyibhile, kwaye ngokuhlwa, ukunyuka "kumgangatho wesibini", ixesha elide alikwazi ukulala, likhuthazwa ngamandla ommandla oqeqeshekileyo oqeqesho. Kungcono ukuba igumbi labantwana liza kubalwa - indawo yokuzonwabisa, indawo yokudlala, indawo yokufunda.
Khawula umkhonto!
Usana luqala ukukhahlela, kwaye ubomi bokuzola kwabazali buphela. Ngenxa yokuba ngoku ulahlile indlu yakhe yonke kwaye uyazikhethela apho kufuneka afune khona. Kwaye ukuba ukongeza kule nto into yokuba yonke into ezayo ngendlela ye-slider encinci, uzama ngentliziyo, nje ukusazela. Iingcebiso zokuqala ezinikezelwa kule meko kubazali abancinane zivakalayo zivakalayo: zime kuzo zonke iine kunye nokuqhaqhazela indlu. Ngaba ihlekisa? Kodwa kunjalo! Udinga ukuzithoba kumgangatho womntwana kwaye ujonge yonke into ngamehlo akhe. Kucetyiswa ngexesha elifanayo ukucinga ngathi. Ngokunjalo - ukucinga ukuba unokuthandana naye. Ngokomzekelo, qhasela kwisitya sokuhlambela, kwaye kukho izimbiza ezininzi eziqhakazileyo ezinezikhuni eziphazamisayo. Uze uzame kwintleko, mhlawumbi ufuna. Kwaye sinokuyiphi into yokuhlambela "kwindawo ephantsi"? I-toilet detergent, i-powders yohlamba kunye ne-air conditioners. Masisuse ngokukhawuleza! Kwaye siyithatha njengommiselo wokungashiyi emnyango ukuya kwindawo yokuhlambela kwaye indlu yangasese ivulekile. Ukuhla kuzo zonke ezine, uya kufumanisa into esemgangathweni yomntwana kuqala kwaye uhlole indlela ekhuselekile ngayo. Ukususela kumathelethi angaphantsi kufuneka kususwe phezulu kunencwadi, ngoko akudingeki ukuba umkhuphe umntwana ngokuthe rhoqo ("Musa!", "Ungachukumisi!") Okanye ukhathazeke ngenxa yenye incwadi eqhekekileyo. Siphakamisa kwaye sonke sibetha ngokulula izinto - izitya, izitya, izitya. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukukrazula izinto zokuhlobisa umgangatho, ezo zingatshatyalaliswa, zitshatyalaliswe, zitshintshwe. Hlola izinto ezikho kwii-shelf ezisezantsi ezivaliweyo kunye nabadwebi. Ingane iya kufunda ngokukhawuleza indlela yokuyivula nokuyixhaphaza, ungathandabuzeki. Ukongeza, uya kunika uvuyo oluninzi ukukhupha iziqulatho zazo. Kwakhona-into enokuqwengulwa, iya kuqothulwa, yintoni enokuthi igxothwe emlonyeni wakho, iya kulahlwa kwaye ihlolwe kwizinyo. Coca iikiti zokuncedisa okokuqala ngamachiza, izimonyo, amaxwebhu, i-albhamu yezithombe zentsapho. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, faka iifenitshala zefenitshala ezikhethekileyo (zithengiswa kwivenkile zezingane).
Sishiya ekhitshini size siphinde sihlole amashalofu angaphantsi. Susa izitya ezihlambulukileyo. Ungathengela ngokuthe ngqo izikhonkwane eziqhakazileyo zeemveliso zemibala eyahlukeneyo kunye nobukhulu kwaye uzifake kwiibhokisi ezisezantsi, kwaye ke umsebenzi wophando womntwana uya kuba ngumsebenzi ophuculisayo wokukhula, ngenxa yokuba umntwana (ngaphandle kokunceda kwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo) uya kuba nemibala, imiqondo "engaphantsi kweminye" kwaye t.