Sifanele side sifunde esi sifundo: naluphi na ukuyeka ukutshintsha ixesha lethu elixabisekileyo. Izifundo zibonise ukuba ukukhawuleza kwezi zinto ezincinci kuseziintyatyambo. Izinto ezininzi kakhulu ziqala ngezinto ezincinci. Xa senze, njengoko kubonakala ngathi, iphutha elincinci, sinokukhupha umphumo omkhulu.
Umzekelo, ukuhlawula emva kwexesha kwexesha. Ngomhla wokulibaziseka, ihlawuliswa imali, kwaye le yimali oyilahlekileyo. Ukuhlehlisela uhambo kugqirha, sibeka umngcipheko wempilo, kodwa ngaphandle kokubiza unina, silahlekelwa ithuba lokuthetha naye, nangona engelula. Abantu abacothayo basengozini yabo impilo kunye nolonwabo. Kodwa, ukuba ulungele ukutshintsha ubomi bakho, ungafunda indlela yokulahla ukunyameka kwangoku.
1. SUTSHINTSHA IZICWANGCISO ZOKUQALA NOKUPHEPHA
Xa ekugqibeleni kunomsebenzi onzima omele uxazululwe, ngamanye amaxesha umfazi oqinileyo kunye onenjongo kakhulu uya kucinga: "Ndiya kuhamba ndize ndibe iinyawo zam". Esikhundleni sokuthukuthela malunga nokuphela, gxininisa kwisinyathelo sokuqala. Ewe, uya kufuna ixesha lokucinga malunga nokuba uqale kuphi. Kodwa ukucinga ngento ethile kukuqala into. Ukuze uphumelele ekulweni nobutyebi, thabatha ikhefu, ungaziboni ekudakaleni. Zibuze nje: "Ndiyaqhubeka nini na?"
Ingongoma yokugxila koqeqesho kukuba iya kukuvumela ukuba ugweme ukwesaba ukuxazulula ingxaki. Kuthekani ukuba ndiyaphumeleli? Kuthekani ukuba umsebenzi wam ungamkholisi nabani na? Mhlawumbi omnye umntu unokukwenza ngcono? Imibuzo enjalo ibonakala ingekho ndawo ukuba inxulumene nokucoca ngokuqhelekileyo endlwini. Kodwa sonke sifuna ukuba nayiphi na imisebenzi esenzayo iphelele. Yilapho le mibuzo ivela khona. Emva koko, musa ukuzigxeka, wonke umntu unelungelo lokwenza iimpazamo. Ukuze ufike ekupheleni, kufuneka ubhekisise izinto, oko kukuthi, khangela ubuchule bakho ngobuchule. Ukuba uya kudla, cinga, akukuhle ukuqala ngeveki ezayo, xa iiholide zidlulile. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuhlala etafileni, wenza zonke iintlobo zezidlo, ufumane ubunzima kwaye ekugqibeleni ulahle. Nantsi enye yeyona mithetho ephambili: hlukanisa into emininzi kwimigangatho emininzi. Yaye khumbula: ebomini akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kuba kuya kubakho into embi ngakumbi.
2. YENZA IMALI
Vumela okungenani imizuzu emihlanu umsebenzi onzima. Ukuba akunakuze ubekezeleleke, phazamisa into ethile. Into eyona nto kukukwenza njalo, kodwa kwiindawo ezincinci. Yiloo nto i-psychologists ebiza i-jerks. Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, awusoze ukhathala ngenxa yokusebenza, kuba yile nto ungayi kuba nexesha. Qala ngembuzo: ndiza kuqala phi? Ndingenza ntoni?
Ukuba ufuna ukudibanisa izinto kwi-pantry, thatha imizuzu yokuqala emihlanu ukupakisha amathoyizi endala. Setha ixesha-imizuzu emihlanu imbalwa. Emva koko uphazamise into ethile, emva kwexesha, uhlambulule kwakhona. Kwaye ngoko-ke le nto iya kuhamba. Sonke siyazi: into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqala! Akumangalisi bathi: amehlo aboyika, kodwa izandla zabo zenza. Ingxaki ininzi lethu kukuba asiyazi indlela yokwenza isinyathelo sokuqala-kunzima kakhulu. Ukuba wenza okokuqala, oko kungumphumo. Sinokucinga ukuba iqhwa iqalile ukuhamba.
Ngaphezu koko, ungaqala kwaye ungayi kuyeka, izenzo ziya kubambelela emva kokunye. Uza kucinga: ngoku, ekubeni ndiqalisile, ndiya kwenza kwaye ... kwaye ngaphandle (cinga nje), emva kwayo yonke imizuzu emihlanu ininzi. Unokuzibuza ukuba unako ukwenza ntoni ngeli xesha. Qiniseka ukuba akukho nto inokwenzeka.
3. UNGAKHULU IZICWANGCISO ZAMAGANDI
Ngubani wethu ongazithembisi ukuba uya kuqala ukuhlawula ekuseni? Yaye yaphela njani? Kakade, uhlala uhlehliswa: "Ndiza kuqala ngoMvulo. Hayi, kungcono ukususela ngoLwesibili ... ", njl njl. Ngelo ndlela, uyazitshabalalisa ukuba ungaphumeleli. Ngamanye amaxesha siyayeka ukuqala kwesicwangciso, silinde ixesha elithile elifanelekileyo, kodwa le nto ayiyiyo. Enyanisweni, sichitha nje ixesha.
Ukulungelelana nokulawula ngokufanelekileyo kobuvila, ungenza ngokwakho inkqubo yonke yemisebenzi. Okokuqala, yenza uluhlu lwezinto onokuzifeza ngokwenene kwiiyure ezingama-24. Esikhundleni sokuba "Bhatala iirisiti zezindlu," bhala: "Fumana iirisithi, zizalise, ubeke kwindawo evelele." Esikhundleni sokuba "uthenge ibhedi entsha egumbini lendodana yakhe" - "Yibiza ifenitshala uze ubuze malunga nokufumaneka kweentsana zomntwana, khangela kwi-intanethi." Qala encinci. Ukuze ufikelele phezulu, udinga ukunqoba zonke iindawo.
4. UKUQHUBA
Masithi ufuna ukujonga i-imeyile yakho. Yiza kwi-portal yakho, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ufumana isikhangiso: "Imbali ecacileyo kakhulu yeKirikorov" okanye into enjalo, uqala ukuphazamiseka, ngoko khumbula ukuba ufuna ukufumana iidlebhe zokupheka ngeeapulo, kwaye ukhohlwa malunga nokujonga ibhokisi leposi. Ngoko ihlala ixesha elide, yonke imihla uya kuhlala kwikompyutha ufunde iileta, kodwa ekugqibeleni awuyi kwenza. Yintoni le? Ulibala? Okanye mhlawumbi, ukukhubazeka kokuqala ukulungiselela ixesha labo?
Namhlanje, kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokusiphazamisa kwisizathu, ukusuka kwinjongo yethu, ekuthintela ukuba siphumelele. Abantu abazange baphuphe. Kubonakala ngathi kufuneka sihlambe ngokukhawuleza izitya, kodwa akukho, sihlala siphazamiseka, emva koko, xa kungekho zicwecwe ezicocekileyo, sinquma ukuhlamba ubuncinane. Ukuba uphazamiseka ngetengiso, vele ufake i-block spam kwikompyutha yakho. Ukuba ingqalelo yakho ithandwa yiTV, yithatha kwaye uyikhuphe.
5. UKUSEBENZA KWI-PLACE YOKUQALA
Ukucutha kunokubangela ukuba ubomi buya kudlulela, kwaye awuyi kuba nexesha lokulifumana. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba abantu abadlala imidlalo badlala ixesha kunye nabahlobo, benza imisebenzi yabo ngokukhawuleza kunabo bahlala ekhaya ixesha elininzi, benza izinto ezincinci. Ekubeni ubomi bomsebenzi wokugqibela, akukho nto eyenzekayo. Bavale ngaphakathi kwabo kunye nokuhlushwa okufanayo. Kwaye baninzi kubo bathi: "Andifane ndikwazi ukuphumla kakuhle. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ndixakekile imini yonke kwaye ngenxa yoko ndiziva ndikhathala. Kodwa xa ndifuna ukuphazanyiswa kwiinkxalabo, ngoko ke akuyi kuphuma kuyo. "
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukubeka ukuphumla kwindawo yokuqala, ungasebenzi. Kodwa oko kwakungumhlobo womvuzo wokusebenza. Vumela ukunyuka kwi-bar kunye nabahlobo ibe yisipho sakho. Ukuthatha umsebenzi olandelayo, musa ukukhalaza ngobomi, khumbula ukuba ekupheleni kwetoni nganye kukho ukukhanya, yenza iholide ngokuqhelekileyo. Xa uqala ishishini, uya kufuna ukuwugqiba ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyazi ukuba uyavuzwa.
6. FUMA UKUBA KWAKHO
Ukunyamezela kwethu kukutya ukwesaba ukungaqiniseki emehlweni abanye. Sinoyiko lokuba umntu uya kukunyamekela ubuntu bethu. Uloyiko olunjalo luyakwazi ukubeka phambi kwakho umqobo onamandla wengqondo, kwaye awuyi kuze ukwazi ukuzibonakalisa. Ukuba unomuvo wokuba ukwesaba, zibuze yona umbuzo: yintoni enye into eyona nto enokuthi yenzeke kum? Emva koko cingisisa ngemiphumo enokwenzeka kwaye nendlela oya kwenza ngayo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki. Uya kumangaliswa ngethuba elingakanani abantu abagqithisa iingxaki zabo.
Masithi uyalelwa ukuba wenze inkcazo encinci malunga nenkampani osebenza kuyo. Masithi ungaphumeleli, awuphumelelanga le projekthi. Yintoni elandelayo? Umphathi wakho unomsindo kwaye awusoze ukhuthazwe. Ngoko ... kwaye uya kwenza njani? Ewe, siya kuqhubeka sihlala, sihleka, sivuyayo kwaye senza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Ukunyaniseka nawe, ekugqibeleni uya kuqonda: kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani (ususiwe, iinqebengu ozenzile ngosuku lokuzalwa kwendodana yakho azidliwayo ... Asizange sibe nexesha lokulahlekelwa ama-kilo e-5 ngaphambi komtshato wentombi ...), ubomi bakho kulo iphelile. Zonke iintsilelo ziya kudlulela, kwaye kwikamva uza kuzihleka, ukhumbule ezi zinto. Ungesabi ukulwa nobuvila, ukuphumelela. Kufuneka ube ngaphezu kwalokhu, ngoko uya kuphumelela.