Kutheni ndilahlekelwa ngamazinyo?

Ziziphi amaphupha kwaye zivela njani? Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo abantu baphupha ukuphazamisa iminqweno yamaphupha, ukuzama ukutolika imifanekiso abayibona ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukulala ngenye yemithombo ebalulekileyo yolwazi umntu afumanayo kwifom "ebhaliweyo". Eyona nto ihlala ephupha, sibona izinto eziqhelekileyo neziqhelekileyo zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ngokomzekelo, kutheni unayo ukulahlekelwa izinyo? Ukubona iphupha elifanayo, kufuneka uzame ukukhumbula ngokubanzi: phantsi kweemeko zenze ntoni, nokuba kukho intlungu okanye igazi. Emva koko, ukuchazwa ngokuthe ngqo kuxhomekeke kule mizuzu.

Kutheni ndilahlekelwa ngamazinyo?

Lezinyo luphawu lwezempilo kunye nobukhulu. Njengomthetho, inyolo yehla ephupheni ithetha nayiphi na ilahleko, amava, ukubandezeleka. Ngaphezu koko, iziganeko ezongezelelweyo ezihamba nale nkqubo zibaluleke kakhulu. Makhe sibone indlela yokuphatha ukuwa komntwana.

Kwiphupha, amazinyo awela ngaphandle kwegazi kunye nentlungu

Njengoko abantu abazizilumko bathi, akukhathazeki - amazinyo awela ephupheni ngegazi kunye nentlungu okanye ngaphandle-kuseyibizo. Ngokomzekelo, ngokutsho kwincwadi yephupha eyaziwa nguMiller, ukubona kwiphupha eliliwayo okanye elibhubhisayo amazinyo kuthetha ukujamelana neengxaki kunye nezifo. Mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo kuya kuba nomhlangano ongajabulisi. Ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo ngaphandle kwegazi kunye neentlungu kungabonakalisa ukufa komntu ongeyena osondeleyo. Ukuba ephupheni amazinyo akho aphukile okanye akhululekile, kuthetha ukudinwa kwamandla emzimbeni nokuziphatha - ixesha lokuphumla!

Ulahlekelwe inyo elinye ephupheni? Lungiselela ukuva iindaba ezibuhlungu. Kodwa ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo amabini okanye ngaphezulu kunokutolika njengokuba kunokwenzeka ukutshatyalaliswa kobomi obukhulu (ukuxabana nezihlobo, ukunyuka kweemeko zezimali).

Ukuchazwa kwamhlanje, ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo kuthetha umonakalo emzimbeni kwinqanaba lezamandla, ukubonakala "kokuphulwa" kwimikhosi yokukhusela.

Olunye uguqulelo lobuthongo malunga nokulahlekelwa kwezinyo ngaphandle kwegazi kunye nentlungu kukuba akunakunzima ukujamelana neengxaki zobomi. Kodwa ukubona umntu ongenamazinyo ephupheni, ngokuchaseneyo, ngumqondiso omhle. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ngokuhlonipha kuya kumelana nazo zonke izilingo, kwaye zonke iinkcaso zeentshaba zakho zihluleka.

Ukulala malunga nokulahlekelwa kwamazinyo ngegazi

Ukubona ephupheni ukulahleka kwezinyo, ezihamba kunye nentlungu kunye negazi, kwiincwadi ezininzi zephupha ziphathwa njengelahleko ezayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kungathetha ezinye iziganeko ezingathandekiyo: ukulahleka komsebenzi, ukuxabana nomntu othandekayo, utshintsho lweendawo zokuhlala. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba nobudlelwane obuhlungu bubudlelwane obusondelene nabo, ukungcatshiswa okungalindelekanga komntu othandekayo okanye umhlobo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu ephupheni ubona kulula ukuba ahlakulele amazinyo akhe ahlayo ngegazi, aze aziva ekhululekile. Kule meko, unokulindela utshintsho olungcono, mhlawumbi nakwixesha elizayo elizayo.

Kwenzeka ukuba emva kweenyawo ngegazi emlonyeni akukho "lumen", kwaye akukho nto yokuzisola ngokulahlekelwa. Zithini iincwadi zephupha? Mhlawumbi, kungekudala uza kuba nentlanganiso yentsapho, eya kubakho umntu onobangela weengxaki ezininzi kunye nokungaphumeleli. Ukulala ucebisa ukuba kungcono ukulahla intlanganiso enjalo.

Ukuba umntu oqolileyo ubona inyosi ephuma ephupheni ngegazi, evezwa emlonyeni wakhe, kodwa ayifumani ukuyikhupha okanye ihlabe eminwe yakhe - oku kuphawu olubi. Mhlawumbi, awazi ukuba ubomi bakho uphakamisa igazi lomnye umntu. Ngomfana oselula, iphupha libonisa ukungathembeki komntu othandekayo.

Kutheni inyolo iphuma kwizinyo?

Ngaphambi kokutolika elo phupha, umntu kufuneka akhumbule ixesha lomlindi: ukubonakala kwitywina, ubukho (okanye ukungabikho) kwentlungu kunye negazi ngexesha lokuwa. Njengomthetho, iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukulahleka komntu osondeleyo, kwaye ukubonakala kwegazi kubonisa amava amaninzi ephuphayo.

Ukuba ukulahlekelwa kwetywina kwakungahambisani nentlungu, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, iingxaki ezincinci zinokwenzeka - emsebenzini, ukuxabana nabamelwane kunye nokungaqondani. Olu bunzima aluyi kushiya ulandelelwano olunzulu kwaye luza kulungiswa ngempumelelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukulahlekelwa yintlungu yezinyo ephupheni kuthetha ukubonakala komntu onamandla kumntu ophuphayo.

Ukuze ibhinqa libone uphawu lokuwa ephupheni luphawu olubi. Kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu othandekayo uya kutshintsha kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye ukuba inyolo idibene kwaye ilahleke kunye nokuzaliswa, kufuneka ulindele iingxaki ezinkulu eziya kuba "raked" kuphela.

Ukulala apho umi phambi kwesibuko uze ubukele indlela amazinyo akho aphuma ngayo ukuzaliswa, ngokukhawuleza "ukutyhila" zonke iimpazamo - malunga neengxaki ezizayo. Kungaba buhlwempu, ukugula, ukutshatyalaliswa kwabathandekayo kunye nabahlobo.

Kulo phupha, amazinyo omntwana aphuma

Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko iphupha lokulahleka kwezinyo eliqikelela ukuba utshintsho olungathandekiyo ebomini. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ephupheni amazinyo omntwana aphelile, oku kuthetha ukutshintshwa kwinqanaba elitsha lophuhliso ngokomoya nokukhula komntu. Kwaye i-molar entsha ekhulile kwindawo ephuma ebisi yiphupha elifanelekileyo esandleni. Oku kubonisa ukuqina ekufezekiseni injongo kunye nobungqina obungavamile bomphuphi.

Olunye uguqulelo lwalolu phupha: ekubeni amazinyo obisi ayingqamana kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo awela kuminyaka eyisixhenxe yomntwana, iphupha elinjalo li lumkisa malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zelahleko kunye namava ngenxa yokuziphatha "kwengane" yephupha.

Ukuwa kwezinyo ezibolile kuphupha - kuthini ukuthini?

Njengomthetho, iphupha malunga nokuwa kwezinyo ezibolile kunomntu othe tye. Mhlawumbi ulindele ukubuyiswa kwexesha elide kulesi sifo, ukuphelisa iingxaki ezide, iingcinga ezimbi okanye ubudlelwane obungadingekile. Ukuba onke amazinyo abolileyo aphupha ephupheni, ngoko uyavuya - ngubani owaziyo, unokugqiba umsebenzi kwaye uya kufumana ibhonasi okanye ukunyuswa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi.

Ukuwa phantsi kwezinyo ezibolile ephupheni kunokubonakalisa ukuqhawula kwangaphambili kwizibini ezithandanayo kule mcimbi. Eli phupha libonisa utshintsho olubukhali kwiimeko eziphathekayo - kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane ilifa elingalindelekanga ukusuka kwisihlobo esivela kude okanye iinqununu ezinkulu.

Ngoko, kutheni ulahlekelwe ngamazinyo? Ngokuqinisekileyo, utshintsho lobomi lukulindele wena, kodwa oluhle okanye olubi - khumbula iinkcukacha ezihamba kunye nephupha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ungathathi ngokuchanekileyo amaphupha. Kungenzeka ukuba ngoncedo lwephupha malunga nelizinyo eliwela umzimba umane "ukhuthaza" malunga nesidingo sokutyelela ugqirha wamazinyo.