Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngale ndlela, siyaxwayiswa malunga naziphi na iziganeko ezimbi ezifanele zenzeke kuthi. Enyanisweni, kukho ukungafani, konke kuxhomekeke kwiinkcukacha ezininzi zeengozi yemoto ephuphayo.
Kutheni iingozi zomoto ziphupha?
- xa umphupha ebona ukufa komhlobo engozini-oku kungachaza isimo sengqondo esibi esifihlakeleyo kulo mntu: ugonyamelo, umona, ukugatya ukunxibelelana naye;
- xa kwenzeka ingozi ephupheni, ngenxa yoko wenzakaliswe-uphawu lokuba esikhathini esizayo ulindele ukudumala, inkathazo okanye ubunzima ebomini bakho;
- ukuba ukuqhuma kweemoto kwenzeke elwandle, ulwandle lubhekisela kuwe, kungekudala, lujoliswe ekufumaneni uthando lwakho. Ukuba utshatile, unokwazi ukwahlula ubudlelwane obukhoyo, emva koko uya kudibana nomnye, ulungele ngokomoya;
- xa usweleka engozini, okanye ukuba ubone ukufa kwabantu - ulindele iingxaki kwisangqa sezihlobo zawo. Kubalulekile ukuba uvinjelwe kwaye ungabonakali ukucasula kwakho kunye nobudlova, kungenjalo kunokuba nemiphumo emibi kakhulu;
- ukuba ibhinqa elenzakaliswe engozini-oku kuthetha ukuwa ngokukhawuleza kwesicwangciso. Kungenzeka ukuba izicwangciso oye wazakhela ngaphezu kweenyanga okanye nangonyaka, aziyi kuzaliseka;
- xa intombazana ibona ingozi, kodwa ayiyi kuthatha inxaxheba kuyo - ibhuku lephupha lichazwa njengengxaki eyinto eyenzekayo kwenye yezihlobo ezilungileyo. Mhlawumbi uya kukulimaza;
- kodwa ukuba umphuphi uthintele ingozi - lo uphawu oluhle olusixelela malunga nesisombululo esiseduze kuzo zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki ozihlangabezane nazo okanye uhlangabezane nazo;
- Ukufumana engozini apho kwimoto kwakukho izihlobo ezilahleke ixesha elide - lithetha ukuba ngendlela ikwazi ukujamelana neengxaki. Ukuxazulula ingxaki kuza kuthatha ixesha elininzi, kodwa ngenxa yoko, inhlekelele ayenzekanga, unokuqhubeka nomendo;
- Ukuqhuma kweemoto ezininzi ezibandakanya iimoto ezininzi kungabangela isilumkiso apho umntu uxwayisa ngesidingo sokuthembela ekuxazululeni ubunzima kuphela kuwe. Musa ukubeka iimbopheleleko komnye umntu, uya kukuvumela;
- ukuba ujamelana nomnye umatshini wokungabikho kwengqondo-uphawu lokuba unokufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba utyhalele. Oku akubhekiselelwe kwindlela, kodwa emsebenzini, ngobomi bomntu, ngokubhekiselele kwintanda yakhe okanye othandekayo, izalamane;
- Ukulahlekelwa ukulawula kwimoto, ukuhluleka ukulawula - musa ukukhawuleza kwimicimbi yabo, ukusombulula nayiphi na ingxaki, hamba kakuhle, ungaphondi yonke into;
- xa ngenxa yengozi yemoto ephupheni imoto iyaqhuma - oku kunokuthetha ukugxeka okukhulu kwintsapho;
- kwimeko apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ugweme ingozi kwiphupha - uphawu oluthetha ngobunzima obukhawulezayo obunokumisela kwaye luya kuzuza kuyo.
Abaninzi babo baphupha ingozi yemoto kungeyona nto, njengobomi bokwenene. Yiyo imeko xa unokuqhathanisa lula iphupha kunye neemeko zangempela zezinto. Iincwadi ezininzi zokuphupha azicebisi ukuqhuba okanye ukuqhuba kwelinye isithuthi ngosuku apho iphupha liphupha into enjalo. Kuhlala kusethemba kwizinto ezilungileyo, kuba akupheli onke amaphupha.