Baye bamanga bani na?
Ukuba uphupha ukuba uwanga umlomo womntu ophakamileyo wakho okanye ukhokeli, kufuneka ulindele ingxaki emsebenzini. Ziyakwazi ukuba zinzulu kangangokuthi zikhokelela ekumemeni okanye kumvuzo.
Kodwa intsingiselo efanayo yokubonisa isisa apho wena kunye nomlingane wakho ubandakanyeka kunento ephikisanayo kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu. Ubusiso obunomdla kunye nomyeni wakhe okanye uthi kwintlanano yentsapho yesi sibini kuya kuvela ngokuvisisana nokungaqondakali.
Khangela ebuthongweni emlonyeni wesihlobo sakhe, kwaye akukhathazeki: umfana okanye intombazana, uthembisa ukuhlukana kwangaphambili kulo mntu, apho uya kudala uvakalelwa kukuba ulahlekelwe. Kungenzeka ukuba ukwahlukana akuyi kudibaniswa nokuhamba, kodwa ngokuxabana okanye imbambano enkulu, ngoko kuzama ukuphepha iingqungquthela ezibukhali ekuxoxaneni nomntu ozibonayo kwiphupha.
Ukumanga emlonyeni kunye nomfo kungumqondiso wephupha lokuba ebomini bakhe kukho ixesha elihle xa i-future and fortake iya kubangela phantse yonke imisebenzi.
Ezinye iinguqulelo
Iincwadi ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha zihluke ngokungafaniyo kwimibono enjalo. Ngoko ke, kukufanelekile ukuhlala kubo ngokubanzi malunga nokugqithisa konke ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kunye nokuhlalutya ngokuchanekileyo oko bakubonayo.
- UWanderer Wanderer uthi u kiss olunzulu "lwesiFrentshi" luthembisa umntu ophuphayo ukugula kwasekuqaleni, okwenzisayo, ayiyi kuhlala. Kodwa ukumana okunomdla kunye nomfana wakho othandekayo okanye intombazana uthetha ngokuhlukana okukhawulezileyo kunye nexesha elide lothando malunga nokuhamba kwesinye iqabane.
- Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller, u-kiss kunye nentombazana engaqhelekanga ithi kwikamva elizayo umntu uya kwenza isenzo esingahlambulukanga okanye sokuziphatha okubi esichaphazela udumo lwakhe emehlweni abantu. Ukubamba ngotshaba-kwisigqibo sokuqala soxolo kunye nomhlobo oye wahlala naye kwingxabano ixesha elide. Kodwa ukuba ubone indlela intombazana yangaphambili eyanga ngayo emlonyeni womlingane wakho uthembisa ukulahlekelwa yintlonipho yakhe, ngoko ke lowo uphuphayo kufuneka alandele ngokunyanisekileyo izenzo kunye namazwi athethayo.
- Kwincwadi yephupha yengqondo yengqondo, ukumangalela emlonyeni intombazana kuthetha ukungazineliseki kwakhe nomyeni wakhe okanye intombi yakhe. Kwindoda, ukulala kunenani elifanayo. Unalolo lwentlalo yesini, kwaye sele sele esalindela ukuxhalabisa ekukhohliseni ngesini esahlukileyo.
- Kwincwadi yephupha uFelomeny uthe ukumanga ngomlomo ngomntu uthi umphuphi uya kutshintsha ngokukhawuleza iimeko zokuphila. Ngaphezu koko, utshintsho luya kuba lukhulu kangangokuba abantu baya kudala kwaye bebebuhlungu ukuba bafunde.
- Iphupho elincinci malunga nomfi, oza kwaye wakangazela emlonyeni, uthembisa umntu oye wabona impumelelo enjalo emsebenzini wakhe nakwabaninzi abaqhelana nabo.
Siyathemba ukuba incwadi yethu yokuphupha izokukunceda ukuba uhlaziye kakuhle into oyibonile ngexesha lokuphumla kobusuku kwaye uthathe amanyathelo kwangaphambili ukukhusela ukuphuhliswa kakubi kweziganeko ezizayo.