Yintoni intsingwane inokuthetha ngayo kwiphupha?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uyazi ukuba inja ibonakalisa ukunyaniseka nenkonzo yesibindi. Kuyafana nakwiintsana ezincinci, ezivele zivela ekuzalweni zinempawu ezifanelekileyo. Ngokuphathelele abatoliki bamaphupha, banokufumana ukuhlengahlengiswa kwenja kunye nobuhlobo bokwenene, uncedo olungathandekiyo kunye nokunyaniseka. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba sicinge ukuba ukuchazwa kwamadoda kunye nabesifazane kuya kuhluke kancinci, ngoko makhe siqale siqwalasele ukuba le ngcamango iphupha isigqibo esihle sabantu.
Ukuze intombazana ibe yintsimbi, idlale, ifunyenwe okanye idle ipilisi ithetha inhlanhla ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuzaliseka kwesicwangciso. I-Snovidice iya kuphumelela nakweyiphi na imisebenzi, nokuba yindoda enamandla kwaye inobungozi. Iphupha lithembisa ukuseka ngokusemgangathweni ngokwalo, ukunxibelelana nabanye akuyi kuvuyisa kuphela kwaye kukhululekile, kodwa kuya kuzisa neenzuzo ezifanelekileyo. Ukuba ephupheni intombazana ifunyenwe i-kitten encinci, ke iincwadi zephupha ziphatha lo mqondiso njengomntu onobubele nononophelo, esilungele ukuhlala uqaphela impilo yakhe kunye nobomi obonwabileyo.
Ukunyamekela intwazana egulayo kuthetha ukuba kungekudala umculi angacela uncedo. Kucacile, kuya kuba ngumthonyama okanye umhlobo.
Intsapho ephupheni inkosikazi etshatileyo inokufakazela ukuba ebomini ubomi boqobo uyayikhathalela ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye unakekele abantwana bakhe, indoda yakhe okanye izalamane. Lo mqondiso unokucingwa njengesigidimi esingenakuzilimaza ukucinga ngawe, ngaphandle koko unobungozi kuphela kwongezo oluhle kumntu opheleleyo wobomi.
Ukuba umntu uphupha intshontsho, iincwadi zephupha zichaze eli bali, njengoncedo lokuqala lwabahlobo, uncedo lwezezimali oluzelelwe. Kungenzeka ukuba ukusebenza kakuhle emsebenzini okanye kwishishini, uya kufumana umvuzo wemali. Ukuba uyancedwa naluphi na uncedo, ungalilahli nonke, kuba okulungileyo kuza kubuya kuwe ngekhulu. Ukongeza, emva kwephupha elinjalo, ngokukhawuleza uza kudibana nabahlobo bakho.
Kutheni sifuna iphupha ngeentombi ezifile?
Konke, ngaphandle kokunye, abatoliki bajonga lo mfanekiso njengophawu olubi kakhulu. Kwezinye iincwadi zephupha umntu unokufumana inkcazo njengesifo esibi kakhulu, abanye bathetha ngokulahleka (kungekhona ngokufa) okanye ukungcatsha kwabahlobo okanye izalamane, abanye abatoliki banokufumana ukutolika okubonisa ukutyala okanye ukuwa kwebhizinisi eliphumelelayo. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, ixesha elide emva kwephupha, uya kuziva ngathi umntu ongeyomfuneko uhlala ubomi bakhe ngokungenanto. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ukumba ngaphakathi kuwe, ukufuna intsingiselo yobomi, ekugqibeleni, kunokukhokelela ekudakaleni. Ukuzibulala ngesilwanyana esincinane kuthetha ukutshatyalaliswa kwinqanaba lakho. Ukusuka kuwe umntu osondeleyo uya kuguquka, emva koko uya kuba noxolo kakhulu.
Njengoko uyakubona, ukubona i-puppy ephupheni ibonakaliso elinamandla elinokuthi, kuxhomekeke kwisicwangciso, sinokuchaphazela kakhulu indlela yethu yesikhathi esizayo. Siyathemba ukuba kweli nqaku ufumene ukuguqulela okuvuya!