Kulo nyaka, inkqubo yentlalo iqhubela phambili, umntwana uyaziqonda imigaqo yokuziphatha kuluntu, "uzama" kuwo. Yaye indlela eyona ndlela yendalo yomntwana omncinane ukufunda iindima zentlalo ehlukeneyo idlala. I-puppy yokudlala, i-princess okanye i-superhero ngabadlali abanempawu zabo, ezikhuthaza umntwana ukuba azibonele kwaye abandakanyeke emoyeni kumdlalo. Umntwana ufumana ulwimi olufanayo nabanye abantwana ngokusebenzisa umdlalo, kwaye amajoni okanye iimboli ziba zikhokelo kwindlela yokuqonda. Yaye ukuba abantwana bengenalo isigama esaneleyo sokunxibelelana, oku kuhlawulwa ngokupheleleyo ngumnqweno wabo kunye kunye nesidingo sokudibanisa noontanga. Ngenxa yokungqubuzana neentshukumo, umntwana wakho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukhangela inzuzo kunye nokuzonwabisa, kodwa unokunceda ukwenza le nkqubo ibe nefuthe kwaye inomdla.
Ukufumana ukuzimela
Inkwenkwe iyavuya ukukwazi ukuvula ihlabathi elikujikelezayo, kodwa ngeli xesha, inkululeko inokuyikrakra. Ukuze uzive ungasetyenziswanga, umntwana, ephuma kumama, athatha ithoyiyithandi eyintandokazi, eya kuba ngumntu onobuqili, umkhuseli kunye nomduduzi. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba i-toy ekhethwe ngumntwana, apho yena, njengomthetho, ayinxalenye, ibonakalisa uxhulumano lwakhe nonina kwaye inceda ukujamelana nexhala elihambisana nokuhlukana naye. Khuthaza umdlalo ozimele wengane yakho, mshiye wedwa, uqale imizuzu ye-15 kanye kanye okanye kabini ngosuku. Ukuba umntwana udlalwa ngaphandle, ungaphazamisi ngokungabalulekanga, ubukele kude. Amathoyizi aya kuba luncedo ekuphuhliseni izakhono zesevisi. Ukuqinisa ulwazi lomntwana, unokukwazi "ukuqeqesha" kwiimidlalo zakhe ezizithandayo. "Idonki ayikwazi ukuhlambulula amazinyo. Mfundise, nceda! "
Ukulawula iimvakalelo
Abantwana kwiminyaka engama-2-3 baninzi banomdla kwaye banengqondo, kodwa abakwazanga ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye baze baveze indlela yabo eyamkelekileyo yentlalo. Kodwa banokufunda ukuhlukanisa iimvakalelo nokuzilawula ngeemeko zemidlalo, ukuxelisa impendulo yalaba bantu abathatyathwa ngabo. Ukunceda umntwana ukuba ahlangabezane neemvakalelo ezimbi, umntu unokudlala iimeko apho uya kuba ngumthuthuzelayo, othuthuzelayo okanye obonisa ubulungisa. Uyakwazi ukudlala idonsa eya kuba yinto engabonakaliyo, engafuni, ilwe, kwaye ke unike umntwana ithuba lokuba aphendule ngokuxelisa umntu omdala. Oku luncedo kumntwana kwaye unolwazi kuwe, uyakubona, kuquka ukuphendula kwakho ekuchazeni umntwana. Lo mbono ovela ngaphandle uzakukunceda uqonde ngakumbi ubomi bemoya bomntwana wakho, mhlawumbi, ulungise impembelelo yakho yemfundo.
Ukufunda ukuthetha
Xa uneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala, abantwana "inguquko yeelwimi". Ingane ifunda ngokukhawuleza amagama amatsha, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphezulu kweyeshumi ngosuku! Mamela oko umntwana akutsho ngexesha lomdlalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo wenza iipazamo, uyithobele, kodwa ungayilungisi xa edlala. Thatha ixesha lokudlala kunye, uthetha ngabalinganiswa abahlukeneyo - oku kuya kukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba acacise iingcamango zakhe ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo.
Ukufunda ukuthetha
Ingane iqala nje ukufunda indlela yokuthetha kunye nokwenza abahlobo. Iidloli kunye namaqabane adibeneyo anokukunceda ukuba usebenzise ukuthetha. Baya "xelela" (ngoncedo lwakho) kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba uxoxe, wabelane, uvelane, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uzikhusele. Xa inkunzi iyakumema ukuba udlale kunye nayo, unethuba elihle lokufundisa iimvumba kwingxoxo kunye nomzekelo weeysys. Ukuqokelela abahlobo-iidloli zetiyi kwaye bathi kukho, ngelanga, ikhekhe enye kuphela. "Inkosikazi ifuna isiqwenga, ibhere le-teddy. Masihlukane ukuze wonke umntu anele ngokwaneleyo! "Mnike umntwana ithuba lokujongana nale meko ngokwabo, kuba ukungena kunye nolwalamanye abantwana kuye, akunjalo.
Qiniseka
Ngomntwana omncinci, ihlabathi likhulu kakhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha lidideka. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana abe nomuvo wokuthi inxalenye yobomi iphantsi kolawulo lwakhe. Ngoko unokubamba iqhopholo lakho lokudlala "umzali". Uninzi lwexesha umntwana uthobela imithetho yomzali, ngokusebenzisa umdlalo ufumana ithuba lokuba nguye olawulayo kunye nokulawula. Ukuba ngexesha lomdlalo odibeneyo nomntwana unomuvo wokuba ufanele ugqugquzele kwaye umvuselele, mnike ithuba lokukhetha indima. Masikukhokele zonke izenzo kunye nokuziphatha kweedokodo, musa ukugxeka okanye ukuziphatha. Umdlalo onjalo uya kumnceda aze anike umqondo wokuzithemba kunye nenkululeko. Ngoku siyazi into yokuthenga ithoyilo kumntwana onyakeni ongu-1.