Oomatshini nabomama abasanda kuvela, kunye nezona zilungiselelwe kakuhle, emva kokubonakala kweemvuthu, zibuzwa imibuzo eninzi. Ngaba sinokuba ngabazali abalungileyo? Ngaba siya kufunda ukunyamekela ngokufanelekileyo? Ingaba siza kubonisana nemfundo? Ngaba siya kukwazi ukuzikhusela kwizifo nangengozi? Amava aya kuza kancane. Usuku emva komhla uya kufunda ubuqhetseba bokuhlamba kunye nokuguqula iimpahla, ukuzitholela ukuhlambalaza kunye nokuzivocavoca, ukufunda izilwanyana kunye neziqulatho, ukuqhuba ukukhwela kunye nokuhamba ... kwaye uya kuqonda kwimveliso yabantwana egcinwe kwiivenkile, kwaye phakathi kwenani elikhulu baya kufumana into eya kuhambelana lwakho usana. Ukuthembela kuphela ngolwazi lwabo, ukuqwalasela. Emva kwakho konke, umntwana wakho uhlukile, ngokungafani nabanye! Ngoko ke, ufuna kuphela indlela yokwenza.
Izifundo zokuQala
Emuva esibhedlele wena, Mama, waphawula ukuba umntwana unyanzelekile ukuthintela, kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba khona kwakho. Xa umntwana eva ilizwi likamama, ukuphefumla, ukubethelwa, uyancipha, ahlalise, aphulaphule. Ngokufanayo, ufunda iimvakalelo zakhe ngexesha lokugqoka. Ukukhathazeka xa uthabatha i-panties yakhe, ukhale, ngelixa ujika ukusuka ecaleni. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukusebenzisa i-krimu okanye ioli, uyaphinda uhlabele kwaye ujabulele ngokunyamezela nangokunyameka. Ikhumba labantwana ngumqhubi oyintloko wolwazi malunga nehlabathi elijikeleze abazali. Xa zomile, zikhululekile, zifudumala, ziyiqonda kakuhle: konke kulungile, ihlabathi lixhasa kwaye likhuselekile. Kodwa ukungathandeki (i-wet sliders, i-hypothermia okanye ukuphefumula, ubhedi obungakhululekile, amava kunye nokwesaba komama) kubonisa ingozi. Ubunzima bokulala buya kuphuka, isondlo sitshabalalisa. I-Neonatologists ithi: iintsana ezixhalabisayo zibi kakhulu ekuzuzeni ubunzima ... Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukususela ngosuku lokuqala ukubonelela umntwana ngeemeko ezilungileyo, kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali. Beka phezu kwayo i-diaper esemgangathweni eyenza ukuvakalelwa kunye nokucoceka, okuthandekayo kwimpahla yokuthinta.
Ngaphambi kokucinga kwengane
Umntwana ukhula. Ukususela kwisidalwa esincinci esingenakunceda singaphenduli sibe ngumntu ozimeleyo. Usukwazi ukunxibelelana neemfuno zakhe, ukubiza unina. Kwaye, ngenxa yoqhagamshelwano olubuqili nomntwana wakho, uziva oko akufunayo, uqaphele ngokucacileyo izandi ezenzayo. Ukunganeliseki ukuhleka? Ngoko, ufuna ukuhamba ngendlela encinane. Ungaphenduki ngokukhawuleza intloko yakhe, ihlwithe kwaye ihlasele? Musa ukuzihlaziya ngokwakho. Ukhawuleza ukumnceda. Ngoko, kulindeleke ukuba umyalezo wakhe omalunga nomnqweno wokutshintsha i-diaper, udle okanye ungene kwi-handles, uyamkela: Ndiyakuqonda, yonke into ihlelwe. Ubuhlobo obunjalo phakathi koomama nabantwana bezilwanyana babecinga ukuba kulungele ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yengqondo yomntwana, ingqondo yengqondo yengqondo.
Ndi thabathe!
I-Karapuz yenza iziphakamiso ezinkulu ekuphuhliseni kwaye zikholisa abazali abalungileyo, kubaluleke ngaphezu kootitshala abalungileyo. Namhlanje uzama nje ukufikelela kwindawo yokudlala kwaye uphenduke emhlane ukuya kwisisu sakhe, kwaye kusasa kusele kukho zonke ezine. Ungabi naso ixesha lokujonga emva, ukuhlala, uze ukhawuleze! Ikhono lokuhambisa lityhila phambi komntwana ongekho ngaphambili. Ufuna ukwazi indawo ejikelezileyo. Ukususela ngoku, unokumbeka elele. Ngexesha lokuvuka, zama ukuqiniseka ukuba akukho nto ikhusela ukuhamba kweemvumba zakho. Ixesha lokutshintsha ubukhulu beedrafers. Nika ingqalelo abo babambelela kakuhle, musa ukuvuza kwaye musa ukuphazamisana nomsebenzi. Ngaloo mntwana uya kuziva ukhulu! Abazali kuphela kufuneka baqwalasele: ukususela ngoku, umntwana kufuneka alindelwe ngokukhawuleza. Khusela igumbi apho likhona: faka iiplogi kwizisekelo, ususe kwindawo ekufikelele kuyo izinto ezincinci, amayeza, iikhemikhali zasemakhaya, ufake iPapa phantsi komgca wocingo. Kwaye, nceda, ungathabathi amehlo akho kwisineke sakho. Akakaqapheli ingozi ebangelwa izinto ezithile. Ngelishwa, ngelixa "ukungenakwenzeka" kwakho akunakwenzeka. Ngoko ke, tshintshe ingqalelo yakho, uphazamise kwaye unike ngesandla ngesandla kuphela izinto ezikhuselekileyo.
Kwaye ngaphakathi - imoto
Amandla omntwana akwaneleyo. Emva kokutshatyalaliswa, ukuhamba nabazali bakhe, ukudansa kwipati kunye nokuphonsa amathoyizi, ulungele ukuzithobela ngokuhleka kakhulu. Kuhle! Kodwa ngenxa yeemvuthu, ukuzonwabisa okunjalo kuncedisa ekugqithiseni. Ngokukhawuleza uyonakalisa umvakalelo, umntwana ungenanto, akanelisekile kuwo wonke umntu ... Yintoni engalunganga naye? Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe phakathi kwamaxesha asebenzayo kunye neentsilelo. Kule nqanaba lophuhliso, iinxalenye zesifo sengqondo ezijongene nokuguqula ingqalelo. Umntwana akakwazi ukuyeka ngexesha. Musa ukulinda indawo yokujika, kwaye utshintshe ukuzizonwabisa kwakho yonke imizuzu eyi-15-20. Ngaba uvele? Ngoku unokuqwalasela iincwadi. U yifunde? Ixesha lokukhwela.
Inyathelo ngesinyathelo
Omnye uqala ukuhamba yedwa kwiinyanga ezili-9-11. Abanye abantwana bafunda ukuhamba emva konyaka. Nangona kunjalo, bonke bayakuvuyela izakhono zabo ezintsha. Ewe, bazama ukufunda indlela yokusebenza ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka. Njengomthetho, kule minyaka zikhona iinzame zokuqala zokwazisa umntwana ngebhodi. Ewe, intombazana yakho ethandekayo iye yafudukela kwinqanaba elitsha lophuhliso. Ngoko, ixesha kwakhona ukuthenga ukuthenga - imidlalo yekhwalithi, izinto. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe i-diaper ekhululekile kubancinci kwaye kulula ukuyisebenzisa. Ukuziqhelanisa umntwana ekuphekeni kancane: Makhe ndifunde into entsha, sebenzisa idonsa ukubonisa indlela yokuhlala kuyo. Dumisani ukuba i-crumb iphendukile ukwenza into yabo. Kodwa musa ukundikrokra ukuba kuyinkathazo.
Ukufikelela unyaka kunye nesiqingatha, abantwana abakwazi ukulawula inkqubo yokucoca kunye nokuchaswa ngaphandle kooncedo lwabazali babo. Kwakhona abanakukwazi ukuhlala beqaphela ukunyuka ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Ingakumbi xa kukho into enomdla kakhulu. Ukutyala embizeni emva kwephupha, hamba, kwiimitha ezili-15 ukuya kwe-20 ukususela kwithuba othabatha ngayo umbane. Ngaba umntwana wabuza? Umnichka! Mncede, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukwenza konke yena ngokwakhe - mvumele. Ngombulelo kwiimvumba ezilungeleyo umntwana ngaphandle kokuba uthathe inxaxheba unokususa i-diaper kwaye uhlale ebhodweni. Akukho nto yavela kuyo? Akunandaba! Into ephambili kukuba umboniso onomdla kwaye ufunde ukulandelelana kwezenzo. Eminye imicimbi yesikhathi.