Phantse wonke umntwana unokwesaba kwakhe. Kodwa ukuba abanye abantwana banokukwazi ukuhlangabezana nabo bodwa okanye ngoncedo lwabazali, abanye bafuna iiklasi ezikhethekileyo ukulungisa ukwesaba abantwana. Ezi zifundo zifundiswa ngabangcali beengqondo ezikolweni nakwizikolo zothando. Abanye ootitshala nabafundisi bathatha ezi zifundo ngokwabo. Yintoni ekhethekileyo kunye nenjongo yokuqhuba iiklasi ukulungisa ukwesaba kwabantwana?
Ukuchonga ukwesaba
Isigaba sokuqala sivavanya. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuqhutyelwa phakathi kwabo bonke abantwana ukuba bachane ngubani ofuna ukulungiswa. Abantwana bafana neemvavanyo ezizodwa eziphuhliswe ngabangcali beengqondo abafaka isandla kwingcaciso yokwesaba. Injongo yeemvavanyo kukuchaza imifanekiso kunye nezimpendulo kwiibhloko ezithile zeemibuzo. Emva kokuba uvavanyo lugqityiwe, iqela labantwana lichongwa, elifuna ukulungiswa. Inyaniso yokuba umntwana unengxaki, khawuleza wazise abazali. Utitshala okanye ingqondo yeengqondo kufuneka athethe nabazali, achaze okokuba yintoni ebangela ukuba ukwesaba abantwana kwaye ucebise indlela yokujongana nayo.
Izindlela kunye neendlela zokulungisa
Kwinqanaba elilandelayo, umsebenzi othe ngqo uqala ukulungisa uloyiko lwabantwana. Iquka iindlela ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinceda umntwana ukuba ayeke ukwesaba izinto ezithile. Okokuqala, ukuzithoba umzimba kusetyenziswa ukuphelisa ukwesaba. Bancedisa umntwana ukuba aphumle, ungaxhasi. Ngenxa yokuzivocavoca okunjalo, abantwana baqala ukungena kwihlabathi labo elingaphakathi, besuka kwizinto abaziyikayo.
Ukuqhubela phambili utitshala okanye i-psychologist idlulela ekusebenziseni ukugxininisa. Kule meko, umntwana kufuneka afunde ukugxila kwiimvakalelo zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe. Ezi zinto ziyakwenza uncede ukuba aqonde ukuba yintoni ebangela ukwesaba kwakhe. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana abayikrokrele bumnyama, kuba kusemnyama nje. Ukwesaba kwabantwana kubangela izinto ezahlukeneyo, ukubonakaliswa kwazo okungaqala kumnyama. Ingqondo yengqondo inceda umntwana ukuba aqonde oku kwaye ahlule ikhonkrithi ngokubanzi.
Ngexesha leeklasi zokulungiswa, imimandla eyahlukeneyo isetyenziswe rhoqo, ekunceda ukuphazamisa oko umntwana akwesabayo, uyitshintshe ingqalelo. Ukongezelela, emva kwexesha, umculo omhle uqala ukudibaniswa nosana kunye nokoyikayo kunye nokwesaba. Kule meko, i-psychologist isebenza ngeemvakalelo ezintle ezinokuthi zichithe ezimbi, ngoncedo lwenyaniso yokuba umntwana uyamthanda kwaye uyathanda.
Ewe, iiklasi zokulungisa uloyiko rhoqo ziquka imidlalo. I-Igroterapiya yenye yeendlela eziphambili. Abantwana bayonakalisa ukwesaba kwabo ngexesha lomdlalo. Banikezwa ukuba badlale iipikethi ezahlukeneyo, abalinganiswa apho kukho ukwesaba. Imidlalo yakhiwa ngendlela enokuthi umntwana ekugqibeleni uyazi ukuba unamandla kwaye unobulumko kunokuba uyamoyika. Ngaloo ndlela, ukwesaba into kunqatshelwe.
Enye indlela yokulungisa uloyiko yonyango lobugcisa. Kule meko, abantwana bathatha oko bayamoyikayo, baze basebenzise uluhlu lwemidwebo, zama ukuqhubeka ibali. Kule meko, isazi senzululwazi sifinyelela ukuba umfanekiso wokugqibela ubonisa ukunqoba ukwesaba.
Kwakhona, iintsana zinikwa imizimba eyahlukahlukeneyo eyenza ihlaziye kwaye ikhulule izihlunu zazo, inciphise uxinzelelo.
Ngexesha leemfundo ekulungiseni ukwesaba, umsebenzi oyintloko weengcali zengqondo ukuvuma umntwana njengoko yena. Umntwana akanakuze agwetywe ngenxa yokoyikayo kwaye akayiyo into ebalulekileyo ngayo. Kufuneka aqonde ukuba uhlangothini lwakhe kwaye ufuna ngokwenene ukukunceda. Kwakhona, akukaze kulungele ukulungiswa komntwana, ukukhawulezisa inkqubo. Ukuba utitshala usebenzisa imidlalo yokulungisa, kufuneka ahambe kunye nebhokhwe onke amanyathelo, ngaphandle kokuzama ukwenza into ngokukhawuleza. Nangona inkunzi iyakwazi ukudlula into ethile ixesha elide, kuyimfuneko ukulinda nokumnceda, ngaphandle koko igroterapiya ayiyi kuzisa iziphumo. Ngexesha le midlalo, abantu abadala akudingeki baphakamise umdlalo, ngaphandle kokuba kuhambelana ngqo nokulungiswa. Kwaye omnye umthetho wesiseko ulungelo lokuphucula. Nangona isazi sezengqondo senze imeko ethile, umntwana unelungelo lokuphambukela kuwo kwaye oku kufuneka kwamkelwe.