Into ephambili ebalulekileyo kwimpilo yengane yinkqubo efanelekileyo yolawulo. Ngomntwana, urhulumente uyisiseko semfundo. Ulawulo lomhla kumntwana lufanele luququzelelwe, ngokusekelwe kwimimiselo yalo kwaye kuxhomekeke, kwinqanaba, ngexesha lomntwana. Makhe sibone oko umntwana adinga kulawulo kunye nendlela yokufundisa umntwana kwi-regime.
Kutheni umntwana efuna imodi
Okokuqala, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba ulwazi malunga nenhlangano yombuso lucebisa kuphela kwimvelo kunye nemigangatho ethile eqinileyo kunye nemigangatho engekho. Urhulumente uthathwa njengelungileyo xa ixesha lokutya, ukugcina indlu yangasese, ukulala neemfuno zentsana okwangoku zihambelana. Emva koko, abantwana bayanda kwaye ulawulo lwemihla ngemihla luguqula.
Ukuqhubela phambili kule nto, utshintsho olushushu kwi-regime lukhuni kunzima ukuzinyamekela abantwana. Ukudlulisela umntwana kwelinye urhulumente, kufuneka usebenze ngokuthe ngcembe ukuze ungabangeli iimvakalelo ezimbi. Umoya omhle wengane uza kufakazela ukuchaneka kokuguqulelwa okunjalo. Ukongeza kwiminyaka, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela umntu ngamnye, isimo sempilo yakhe.
Ukugcinwa komntwana ngumbuso othile ukulungelelanisa umbutho. Emva koko uya kulungelelaniswa lula kwi-kindergarten. Ukongezelela, urhulumente unceda kakhulu ubomi bomntwana kunye nabazali.
Ukuba ayigcinwanga, umntwana unokufumana iingxaki zempilo. Umntwana uyaba noluncedo, obala, ecatshukiswayo. Ngenxa yokuqhubela phambili kwemizwa, ehambelana nokungabikho kokulala, ukugqithisa, ukuphuculwa komsebenzi we-neuropsychic uphazamiseka. Kukho ubunzima ekubunjweni kokucoceka, izakhono zokucoceka.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana kummandla othile
Cinga ngolawulo lwabantwana ukusuka kunyaka omnye ukuya kwisiqingatha. Kulo nyaka umntwana kufanele alale emini mva. Ubuthongo bokuqala bemihla lufikelela kwiiyure ezingama-2.5, okwesibini ukuya kwiiyure eziyi-1.5. Lungiselela umntwana ukuba alale kufanele ukuba kusengaphambili (ukuhlamba, ukumisa imidlalo esebenzayo kunye nomsindo). Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana kummandla othile, ukubeka umntwana ngexesha elinye. Emva kwexesha, umntwana uhlaziya ixesha kwaye "ngesivinini", umntwana ngokwakhe uyalala aze avuke ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuvusa umntwana xa idilesi yokulala sele isungulwe, kuba oku kuphazamisa indlela yakhe. Ngexesha lehlobo, ubuthongo bomntwana busuku bunganciphisa ukulala ixesha lokulala. Ehlobo, beka umntwana ubusuku emva kokuqhelekileyo.
Ukuqhelisa umntwana ekudleni kule minyaka, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ukutya kufuneka kube yimini yokutya ngosuku. Isidlo sasemini, isidlo sasemini, emva kwesidlo sasemini nesidlo sakusihlwa. Urhulumente wakhiwa ngendlela enokuthi i-crumb ivuke emva kokutya, aze alele. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukondla ngenye imini. Ingane kufuneka iphinde ikhule i-reflex kwaye umzimba wezingane uya kufuna ukutya ngexesha elithile. Musa ukulungiselela xa usondla umdlalo (i-spoon-moya, njl.). Oku kungena kumkhwa womntwana, e-nursergart kuya kuba yintsipheko kamva, kuba abanye abantu abayi kunondla umntwana wakho.
Isikhathi sokuvuka somntwana ngeli xesha asifanele sidlule iiyure ezintlanu ngosuku. Ukunciphisa ubuthongo kunye nobude bexesha lokuvuka alifunanga. Oku kungakhokelela ekusebenzeni ngokugqithiseleyo kwinkqubo yesantya kunye nokuziphatha kakubi komntwana. Ixesha lokuvuka liquka imidlalo, ukuhamba, iinkqubo zamanzi. Kubalulekile kumntwana yinkqubo yokuhamba kabini ngosuku emoyeni omtsha. Kulungile ukuhamba esitrato ngaphambi kokuhlwa kwasemini nasemva kokutya. Ubungakanani bendlela yokuhamba kufuneka ukuba ubuncinane ubuncinane iiyure eziyi-1.5. Kukulungele ukwenza iinkqubo zamanzi kunye nosana (ukusula ngokubanzi) ngaphambi kokuhlwa. Umntwana uya kucela ngokukhawuleza ukuhamba kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uvakalelo lwakhe lungcono.
Kule minyaka, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa ubunzima bezenkcubeko kunye nezobucoco bomntwana. Ngaphambi kokutya, hlamba izandla zakho, ufunde ukutya kunye nepuni. Emva kwayo yonke into, ukuzimela kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuqhelana nomntwana wakho kulawulo lolo suku, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukugcina ubuncinane. Akuyimfuneko ukuphambukela kwixesha lolawulo. Isenzo esithile kufuneka sithathwe ngexesha elithile. Emzimbeni womntwana, iimpawu ezithile (enye ifuna ukulala, ukuhamba, idla, njl.) Sele iphuhliswa yilo xesha okanye ixesha. Ukuba ngaba abazali benza konke ngokuchanekileyo, oko kuya kuba nzima ukuzifundela inkunzi kwi-regime.