Intukuthelo kunye nentukuthelo kumntwana: wenzeni?


Ngokutsho kweziseko ezikhoyo emphakathini, umsindo awunqwenelekayo, ukungaveleli. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba uluntu luchukumisa ingqondo yabantwana imihla ngemihla, lukhupha ngaphakathi yonke imvakalelo ephazamisayo, inayo "ingqekembe yomsindo". Akuyikho into efanelekileyo. Emva kwexesha, iimvakalelo eziqokelelwe ngaphakathi, zifumana indlela yokuphuma.


Ngamanye amaxesha ulaka nentukuthelo iyazibonakalisa kwisimo esibonakala singenabungozi, apho abantu abangenacala bangabandezeleka. Kule meko, bafumana iindwendwe. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana uneengxaki zengqondo, unokuba neentloko zeentloko, isisonguluko kunye neengxaki ezininzi zesisu.

Kuye konke oku ngasentla, kuyacaca ukuba akukho mnye umntu onokuyinqanda umsindo.

Zama ukuqaphela apho ukufutheka kunye nentukuthelo kuvela kubantwana.

Usapho

Umntwana ukopisha ukuziphatha kwabazali ngamaphesenti angama-90 kwimeko. Ngenyameko emva kwakho. Ukuba utata wenza into embi kumntu ozama ukuthetha naye, umama emva kokuxabana kokutya izitya, umzalwana noodade bafana nokuqhayisa umnyango emva kokugxeka - qiniseka ukuba umntwana uya kwenza okufanayo. Emva koko, akayazi indlela enye yokubonisa ukudideka nolaka lwakhe.

Impembelelo yeendawo zoluntu, ezifana nevenkile, i-nursergart, isitalato

Kulo lonke ixesha uzama ukukhulisa umntwana onobubele kunye nobungane. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza, xa uqala umzuzu omangalisayo, uqala ukuphawula ukuba ubiza amagama amabi, uyalila iincwadi kwaye uphonsa izinto ezungeze kwigumbi. Yintoni eyenzekayo? Musa ukwesaba. Buza umntwana ukuba achaze oko akubonayo. Hlukanisa le meko. Zama ukuchazela ukuba ngubani othe tye kwaye ngubani omele uxanduva. Fumana naye indlela echanekileyo yokuphuma kwimeko.

TV kunye neencwadi

Xa kufika iTV ebomini bethu, ezininzi zintshintsho. Kukulungele ukuquka abantwana kwiimifanekiso, kodwa ukwenza izinto ngokwakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Ndikhumbuze, ngelixa uphazamiseka yiengxaki zakho, imfundo yomntwana wakho ihlala kwiTV. Ngoko ke, jonga ukuba yeyiphi inkqubo ejongayo. Xhuma kuphela iziteshi zabantwana, ngoku kuya kwenzeka ukwenza ngaphandle kweengxaki. Ngoko akayi kubona ulwazi olungathandekiyo. Ukuba unaloo thuba - jonga iziteshi ngokuzimela. Ukuba akukho xesha lokukhulula - funda uhlolo lwabanye abazali kwi-intanethi.

Yaye ungawudluli ngeemifanekiso. Kwanele ukubandakanya umntwana ezimbini-trilumfilm okanye uchungechunge olunye ngosuku. Kungcono ukuya kwiincwadi kunye nomntwana.

Ukulungisa ulwaphulo

Dlala neentwanyana zakho kumdlalo. Iimidlalo esizibonise ngezantsi ziza kunceda ukunciphisa ukungabikho komlomo kunye nokuthetha, ukunceda ukukhupha umsindo oqokelelweyo, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo nokufundisa iipatheni ezintsha zokuziphatha. Inani labantu kumdlalo - ukusuka kubini okanye ngaphezulu. Unokubandakanya intsapho yonke kwinkqubo.

Imidlalo yabantwana kwiminyaka emibini

"Ekulweni"

Lungiselela izixhobo ezifunekayo zemfazwe - iibhola zephepha, ikotoni okanye i-foil. Umgca wezantsi kukuba: abantwana baqala ukuphonsa ibhola phakathi komnye.Ungafihla nayiphi na indawo. Emva kokuphela kweemfazwe ezidibeneyo zidibeneyo.

"Amakati ahlukeneyo"

Buza abantwana umbuzo, yintoni abone iikati? Uhlobo, unokuba nobushushu na? Ukuguqula? Ukunikela ukudlala amakati. USmysligry: abantwana baphenduka bahle, baze baye kwiikati ezimbi. Uhlobo oluthandekayo kunye ne-purr, ukulwa nobubi nokuluma. Qedela umdlalo ngeekati ezifanelekileyo ezifanelekileyo.

Umdlalo oneminyaka emithathu yokukhula

"Abadlali bezemidlalo"

Buza abantwana ngabaphi abadlali ababaziyo? Ngaba iiKemons zibandakanyeka? Thatha iphephandaba okanye i-hoop uze uyibeke phantsi. Umntwana kufuneka angene kwisangqa aze aqale ukubonisa umdlali, umzekelo, umgcini-bhokisi, ngelixa esebenza ngezandla zakhe. Ababukeli behleli bejikeleze baqala ukuvuyisa umbhikisho. Uxhasano olufanelekileyo luya kunceda ukuphawula zonke iimvakalelo ezimbi.

Emva koko umntwana angabonisa ikarate, i-jumper njalonjalo.Unako ukunika umdlali ukhetho. Umyalelo kuphela wokushiya isangqa.

"Obzylki"

Thetha nabantwana malunga namaphi amagama athobisa umntu othandayo. Cinga ngako ukuze ufike ngeefowuni ezingenasici, umzekelo, iitapile, i-gnomes, i-radishes. Vumela abaqokelele abantwana baxoxane.

Ukuba ugqirha luqala ukubonakala, qalisa ukuqeda umdlalo. Emva koko, bonke abathathi-nxaxheba baqhagamshelana ngamagama afanayo, isisithinte-sithandwa sithandwa sisitrosi esithandekayo, wena uyintombazana yam intanda. Buza abantwana ukuba yintoni amazwi amnandi kubo ukuba bakuve.

Imidlalo eneminyaka emine yokukhula

«The Magic Tangle»

Nika umlingo wengqumbo yomntwana. Yiphume ebhokisini eliqaqambileyo okanye esifuba. Chaza kumntwana ukuba uya kuqala ukuzola kwaye aphephe ngokukhawuleza iingxaki, ngokukhawuleza ukudonsa intambo kunye. Ibhola iya kukhula inkulu, kwaye umntwana ulungele.

"Umlenze womsindo"

Mlethe umntwana umlotha. Yithi umlingo. Ngexesha elizayo xa ufuna ukuphosa ubugwenxa kubantu abasondeleyo, makamvumele aye ekamelweni lakhe aze anqothule uthuli emkhombeni. Esikhundleni somlotha, umntwana angabonisa ibhola lebhokisi.

Imidlalo ukusuka kwiminyaka emihlanu ubudala

"Abagxeki"

Vumela abantwana badlale isilumkiso somlomo. Omnye uya kuthetha, enye ichasene. I-duel kufuneka iqale ngokuthula, ngokunyuka kwandiswe. Kufuneka uqedele umdlalo xa kungekho namandla ashiywe ukukhala. Emva koko, abantwana bazolile baze bahumushe umoya. Nika ingqalelo indlela ekumnandi ngayo ukuzonwabisa.

"AmaGnomes"

Dweba abathathu abancinci kwisiqwenga samaphepha uze uwanqume. Yenza imibala yeekhati kwiimibala eyahlukileyo. Emva koko, abantwana kufuneka bazalise imiyalelo emininzi. Ndixelele ukuba abomvu abomvu bakhwaza baze benze isandi. Abantwana bafanele baphinde benze into efanayo.

Yithi abantwaba beentsimbi eziphuzi bathetha ngeengxubusho. Abantwana bathi kwi-whisper.

AmaGnomes kwiinqayi eziluhlaza zazithule. Wonke umntu uthula.

Umdlalo kufuneka uphindwe kaninzi kwaye uhlale kwi-sinigonomiki.

Umculo o mnandi. Unokuzinqanda umntwana ngoncedo lomculo ozolileyo. Yiya esitolo kunye naye kwaye uthenge i disk oyithandayo.