Ingane kufuneka ive inkulumo yakho ukuze ifundeke kuyo, funda ukuqonda izandi zomntu ngamnye kunye namazwi alandelayo. Unokwazi njani ukuba i-apula i-apple, ukuba ayilwanga kuwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akayi kuqonda oku kwinyanga okanye okanye ezintandathu, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukuva amagama abo okanye ezinye izinto, uya kuba nokulungele ukuzimela ngokuzimela ngala mazwi.
Iintsana kufuneka zifundiswe ukuthetha kunye nokuthetha okusebenzayo, ukumkhuthaza, nangona iimpendulo ezingekho mthethweni. Ngaphezulu xa ezwa iintetho ezahlukeneyo, izandi kunye namazwi, ziza kuphucula izixhobo zakhe zokuthetha. Ngoko jonga oko kwaye utsho njani kumntwana.
Makhe avele kuwe kuphela ngamazwi alungileyo kunye neentetho. Funda i-baby story tale kusuka ekuzalweni, kucula iingoma zabantwana, uthethe ngehlabathi apho eqala ukuhlala khona. Musa ukumemeza kumntwana kwaye ungamgxeka. Ingane ayinako ukuqonda oko akwenzayo engalunganga kwaye kutheni engakuhlangabezananga nokulindela kwakho, ngaphezu koko, abantwana abancinci abazi ukuba ufuna ntoni kubo. Ngoko ke, ukutshitshisa umntwana wakho kungenanto, uyayichukumisa kwaye uyichukumise kude nawe. Endaweni yokukhuthaza ukwesaba kumntwana, kungcono ukuzama ukwenza ubomi bakhe bube mnandi kwaye bonwabe ngangokunokwenzeka.
Musa ukuphulaphula umntwana. Umntwana kufuneka ave intetho echanekileyo, ngaphandle koko uza kuphinda aphindezele amagama akho. Kwaye ukuba sibuyele phambili, njengoko siyazi, kunzima kakhulu kunokufundisa. Ngoko ke, ukubeka isigama esilindelekileyo somntwana ngemfanelo yonke.
Kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana bayaziqonda iimvumi zezingane, ngoko unganqikazi ukuzifunda kuye. Makhe angayiqondi intsingiselo, kodwa uvakalelwa ngokupheleleyo iimvakalelo ozithunyelwa kuye ngexesha lolo nxi. Ungesabi "ukuphanga" umntwana kunye nawe. Kuyabonakala ukuba abantwana, abazali babo bachithe ixesha elininzi kunye nabo kwaye bathathe inxaxheba ekuthinteni nabo, musa ukuziva uthanda ubuhlungu kwithuba elizayo kwaye ungabambeleli kwi-skirt. Bakhula ngakumbi ukuzithemba kwaye bafunde ngomdla ekuzimela. Abo bantwana abangenalo ukuthetha, ngokuchaseneyo, bakuthola kunzima ukuya kwinqanaba xa kudlala ixesha ngokuzimela kwaye bachitha ixesha elingenabantwana. Oku kubonakala ngokukodwa ngexesha lokuba umntwana aziswa kwi-kindergarten.
Ukuze umntwana wakho akhule ngokukhawuleza, ungalibali ngokuthintana naye. Ukuzihlaziya nokuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezincinci zezithuthi zomntwana ngokuthe ngqo kuxhomekeke ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo. Ngako oko, misela izinto ezisisiseko zokusilalisa kwaye uthathe njengommiselo wokukwenza okungenani kanye ngosuku. Ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokumxabisa umntwana xa udibanisa, usasaze iminwe yakho, ubambe isandla sakho phezu kwezandla ezincinci kunye nezithende. Kamva, xa umntwana ekhula kancinci, mnike amathoyizi amaninzi kunokwenzeka kwifomu kunye nokufakela. Eyona ndlela eyahlukileyo iya kuba, ukukhawuleza umntwana uya kukwazi inxalenye yeli hlabathi.
Ngoku kukho iingxabano ezinkulu malunga nokuba izixhobo zombane kunye nezixhobo zingashenxisa umntwana ngoqhagamshelwano. Ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza, umntwana uyakwazi ukubona ilizwi elivela kumabonwakude, kwisixhobo somsakazo okanye kumdlalo wokudlala. Kodwa olu nxibelelo aludingekanga kuye nayiphi na intsingiselo, kuba engaboni kwaye akayiqondi into ethetha naye. I-TV yintsana yinto enzima kwaye engaqondakaliyo. Abazali bajwayelene nabo, umntwana uyavuya ukuqhagamshelana nokufunda ngokulula.
Ukuze umntwana wakho aphuhlise ngokupheleleyo, uthetha kakhulu kwaye ujonge, kufuneka wenze umgudu omkhulu. Kodwa yonke le migudu iya kulungiswa xa ubona indlela inyana izama ukuphendula ngayo umnxeba okanye umbuzo, indlela ekuphulaphula ngayo ngenyameko kunye nendlela uvakalelwa ngayo ekuthinteni. Ukongeza, umkhwa wokuthetha nabazali ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala isiqinisekiso sokuthembela kwikamva.