Ngubani ongathandi ukuhamba ngeendwendwe, abantu abanjalo baya kuba bambalwa. Wonke umntu uyavuya xa wamenywa ukuba atyelele, kwaye kuyamnandi ukuthetha kwinkampani enomdla kwaye kulungile ukudibana neendwendwe ngokwabo. Kodwa kukho izinto ezinokuphazamisa umntu wonke, kwaye oku kungabangelwa ngumsebenzi wabantu abamenywe. Kwaye abo badumisayo, akukho mntu uya kumema okwesibini. Ukuze ugweme ukuwela kwiluhlu olumnyama lweendwendwe, kufuneka ulandele imithetho ethile.
Ixesha elihle labaTwendwe
Yiza ixesha, kodwa kungekhona ngaphambili
Oko okufuneka uyihlawule ngento okufuneka ufike ngexesha. Khawuleza niyeke ingcamango yokuba kungcono ukuza kutyelela kusasa. Kwaye ngezi zizathu ezicacileyo, kuba akukho bantu abahamba ngexesha kunye nendawo yonke kwaye inkosikazi yendlu ayikho. Makhe sicinge ngomfanekiso: umninimzi kwi-curlers kunye neengubo zibeka i-oven kwi-oven, ukuzisa konke okutsha kunye nokutshisa kwitheyibhile. Ngexesha elifanayo lucatshulwa kwaye liya kutshintsha imizuzu engama-20 ukwenzela ukuba ube nexesha lokuhlangabeza iindwendwe ngexesha elimiselweyo, ukuba ucoce iingubo zokugcoba. Emva koko uvuka, isiqingatha seyure ngaphambi kwexesha, njengoko kuvunyelwene. Khawucinge nje ukuba uphathwe njani umonakalo we-hostess, awuzange umnike ithuba lokubonakala kuyo yonke ubuhle nobuqaqawuli. Kwaye nangona unako ixesha elaneleyo, kungcono ukuya kwindawo yokuthenga okanye kwisitalato. Nangona ukamenywa kumhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo, ungafiki ngaphambili, ngaphandle kokuba ucelwa ukuba uncede abanini.
Musa ukukhawuleza
Olunye ulolu hlobo ludla. Xa umema abantu abaninzi ofuna ukusetha ixesha, umzekelo, ukususela ngo-16 ukuya ku-16.30. Kuyamkelwa ukuba ngeli xesha ixesha lamathambo liya kuza kwaye lidibanise. Yaye xa ixesha liphuma, akudingeki ulinde omnye umculi. Ukuba kukho umntu phakathi kwabo bamenywe ngubani ohlala ephuzile, ngoko kufuneka amenywe ngeyure ngaphambili, uya kusasa, kwaye ngoko uya kuza ngexesha.
Musa ukutyelela ungenanto
Ukuba uye watyelela kwisiganeko esikhethekileyo-umtshato okanye isikhumbuzo, ke awuyi kuza. Imithetho elungileyo iya kuthetha ukuba umntu owamemele ukuba utyelele unabantwana, kufuneka uqaphele, kungekhona ukuba uchithe kakhulu. Kuya kwanele ukuthenga amathoyizi angabizi okanye ibhayilethi. Ukuba uya kumhlobo, kwaye uhlala nabazali bakhe, kufuneka ubalalele kunye ne-rose okanye ibhokisi elincinci ye-chocolates iya kuba isipho esihle, ngoko ubonisa intlonipho kwaye oku kuya kudala indawo emnandi nefanelekileyo.
Zivale wena ekutyeleleni, awukho ekhaya
Ekutyeleleni akuyimfuneko ukutsho ukuba loo wayini ayifanelekanga kule ndawo, andiyiyidli. Akudingeki ukuba wazi ukuba awudli izinto ezithile kwaye ukuba usondla. Ukuba usela kuphela iwayini elomileyo okanye elibomvu, zinyamekele kwaye uthathe ibhotile kunye nawe, njengokuba amathuba abo bonke ahlukeneyo ngemali ahlukeneyo, kwaye abanini abanako ukulungelelanisa ukuthanda kweendwendwe nganye.
Kuvinjelwe ngokungqongqo ukugxeka kunye nokuxoxa ngokutya okuphekiweyo. Musa ukuzithobela, ungavumeli abanye bafake ilizwi. Ngaphandle kwendlu yabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo, awukwazi ukuvula iiskkethi, iikhabhodi uze uzihlambele kunye nemimoya yenkosikazi kwaye, njengokungathi indlela, jongana nomnye umfriji. Ngaphambi kokusebenzisa ithawula, cela indlela ongayithatha ngayo, kuba unokusula izandla zakho ngetileni ezinyaweni zakho. Ifomu engalunganga yeendwendwe iya kufuna ukuba umnini okanye umncedisi avule izipho. Ukuba baqala ukuthelekisa izipho ezilethwa yiindwendwe, zingonakalisa ngokuhlwa.
Izilwanyana, ningakhathali ngabanikazi benu?
Akuyimfuneko ukulinda zonke izihloko ezizokhathala, abanikazi baya kunciphisa amehlo abo kwaye baya kukhwela. Ngokuqhelekileyo xa abanikazi bethetha ukuba iholide sele iphelile kwaye lixesha lokuya ekhaya. Kufuneka ukuba ulalelisise kwaye uqaphele. Kodwa umsikazi kufuneka ahlambe izitya, phumani aze alala ngaphambi komsebenzi. Xa ushiya, ungaqali iingxoxo kwi-corridor, siyabonga, sitshilo, ushiye ngokukhawuleza.