I-neurosis ye-Phobic ekukhulelwe

Ukulinda umntwana yinto evuyayo kubazali bobabini. Lo mzuzu uvame ukuphuma eengqondweni zabo bonke ubomi babo. Umama wesikhathi esizayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa ngamava evelele kwaye afudumele ngomntwana wakhe ongakazalwa. Kodwa umfazi okhulelweyo unokuvuya kuphela xa eqhuba kakuhle. Iingxaki ezinxulumene nolwalamano, ukunyuka okubukhali okwexeshana ngeli xesha, ukuhlambalaza kwabanye abantu kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi kunokubangela ukuba i-phobic neurosis ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ngokumalunga noluphi isimo kunye nendlela yokujongana nayo, kwaye iya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.

Uvela phi i-neurosis?

Enyanisweni, i-phobic neurosis, kunye neurasthenia, ayikho kuwo wonke umntu oye wahlangabezana neengxaki okanye uxinzelelo. Kukho uhlobo oluthile oluxhomekeke kule nzala, enokuthi ibonakale sele sele ikhulile. Ziziphi iimpawu eziphambili ze-phobic neurosis? Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubonakala ngokukhawuleza kumntwana wesaba kunye nokwesaba. Kungaba yizenzo ezigqithisileyo, okanye ezinye iingcamango ezingaqhelekanga. Umzekelo, xa umntwana osemtsha ecinga ukuba wonke umntu uyamjonga, kwaye uyigweme ngokucophelela indawo ephihliweyo. Abantwana abanjalo bayesaba ukuphendula ebhodini eklasini, bayesaba kakhulu ukuthetha esidlangalaleni. Umntwana ohluphekayo nge-phobic neurosis akayi kuze afike kubantu abangaziwayo, uyesaba ukukhula ebomvu phambi komntu ongaqhelekanga. Kuvela kubantwana abanjalo emva koko abafazi namadoda bakhula, ngokuxhomekeke ekuhlaselweni kwe-neurosis. Kubasetyhini, le meko ibonakala rhoqo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.

Zonke i-phobias zihlala zihambelana nokuxhalabisa. Umntu ubaluleke kakhulu, njengoko ehlolwa ngabanye. Izifo ezinjalo zesifo se-phobic zibizwa ngokuba "zentlalo". Ukubonakala kokuhlaselwa kwe-phobia kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, i-neurosis, idla ngokudibanisa nokuxabana ngenxa yeemfuno eziphezulu kakhulu, ukungabikho kwamathuba okuzifezekisa ebomini babo boqobo. I-neurosis ibangelwa ekubeni umntu (kulo mzekelo, owesifazane okhulelweyo) unesifo sengqondo, ukuziphatha kwakhe kunye nokuxanduva lwakhe luchaphazelekayo.

Ingundoqo yesingxaki

I-neurosis ye-Phobic ayikwazi ukunyanzelwa - le meko kufuneka ihlolwe rhoqo. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kubachaphazela kakubi kuphela isimo sengqondo sikamama, kodwa kunye nenhlalakahle yomntwana. Ngokwezibalo, malunga nesine kwikota yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo banengxaki yokudandatheka kunye neentsimbi. Oku kubangelwa ukuba utshintsho lomjikelezo we-hormonal oluchaphazela ingqondo yowesifazane. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba i-neurosis evamile ngexesha lokukhulelwa iphathwa ngokulula kwaye ingalawulwa ngokuzimeleyo, i-neurosis ye-phobic idinga ukungenelela okhethekileyo. Ukuba ufumana ukukhathala ngokukhawuleza kwaye uhlala uhlushwa yi-gloom kunye nokuxhalabisa, oko kuthetha ukuba unengxaki yokuphefumulana nokuxinezeleka. Iimpawu zeli gciwane - ukulala, ukungaxakali, ukungakhathaleli kuyo yonke into, okanye uvakalelo olunzulu. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba awudingi mntu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ucinga nokuzibulala. Le ngxaki ingavela ngenxa yokunganeliseki kwakho umyeni wakho, ngenxa yokwesaba okanye ukungafuni ukuzala, ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ngaphambi kokukhulelwa. Kwakhona kwenzeka ngenxa yeemeko zakho zemali ezibuhlungu okanye ukungathandabuzeki ukuba unokuba ngumama olungileyo.

Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umfazi unendawo ekhethekileyo yokugxininisa ngokupheleleyo kwintlangano yelizwe lakhe langaphakathi kunye nomntwana wakhe ozayo. Le meko ayikwazi ukuchaphazela impilo yakhe kunye nempilo (umzimba kunye nengqondo). Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukunakekelwa kowesifazane kuye kukunceda ukujamelana neengxaki kunye neengxaki-zibonakala zidlula ngaphandle kokuthintela iimvakalelo neemvakalelo. Esi siganeko, esihamba kunye nomfazi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, sifinyelela kwinani lexesha lokuziswa. Emva koko unokuqhubeka ixesha elithile ixesha lokuncelisa. Nangona kunjalo, ngakwelinye icala, ukuhoxiswa ngokwawo kuphazamiseka nanoma yimuphi umzuzu - ngoko ke i-neurosis ye-phobic iyancipha.

Esi sifo senziwa njengempendulo kwisiganeko, kwaye ngokungathi akukho ndawo. Oomama abakhulelweyo banomdla wokulila, ukucaphukisa, ukungcola ngaphandle kwesizathu, "kwinqanaba", ngenxa yenguqu kwimvelaphi ye-hormonal eyenziwa emzimbeni kwaye inokuchaphazela inkqubo ye-nervous. Xa ziphethwe yi-neurosis ngexesha lokukhulelwa, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo kunye nemizwelo iyashintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Ngenxa yokutshintsha ngokukhawuleza ekujuleni komzimba wabo, umfazi uvakalelwa kukuba lonke ihlabathi lijikelezile. Umama ozayo uya kuba yingozi kakhulu, azivalekise amagama kunye naziphi na izenzo zabanye. Ekuqhubekeni kwejometri, imfuno yabo yesigulane nesimo sengqondo sesithintelo kwiindawo ezikufutshane nabangaphandle zikhula.

Indlela yokuhlangabezana nayo

Indlela eyaziwayo kakhulu yokuphelisa i-neurosis kunye nokudandatheka kwanaluphi uhlobo uhlobo lwe-psychotherapy. Akunjalo na umntu okhulelwe akakwazi ukubhekisa kwii-antidepressants. Zichaphazela kakhulu intliziyo, iintso, isibindi kunye nezinye izitho zomntwana. Kungcono ukukhawuleza ukufuna i-psychotherapist. Kuya kunceda ukulibala malunga neengxaki ezinokubangela le meko. Uya kutshabalalisa zonke iintlungu kunye negalelo ekufumaneni uxolo kwengqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo i-neurotic phobic ngexesha lokukhulelwa liphathwa nguthambo lwe-psychotherapy okanye ulwaphulo lokuziphatha. Ezi ndlela zimbini ziza kunceda umfazi ukuba eze kumbono ochanekileyo wezinto zonke kunye nomvakalelo wolonwabo olupheleleyo lokuzala. Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi zeengcali eziza kukuxwayisa malunga nokuphuhliswa kwentsholongwane. Soloko uceba ukukhulelwa kwakho kwangaphambili! Zinakekele ngexesha lokukhulelwa! Yidla kuphela ukutya okunempilo! Qiniseka ukuba ungene kwimidlalo! Okokuqala, cinga ngawe nomntwana wakho! Ukwazi ukuphumla nokucinga ngezinto ezilungileyo! Ngokuqwalasela le mithetho, uya kuba ngumfazi okhulelweyo okhulelwe. Uya kufunda ukufumana kwilizwe lakho lonwabo kuphela. Musa ukulibala ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana kuyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Akukho nto kwaye akufanele nanqabe. Khumbula: impilo yakho enobungqina isiqinisekiso sokuzalwa komntwana oqhelekileyo onempilo.